so tell me if i'm crazy?

Question

my girl and I broke up awhile ago...

i k that i still care about her... every once in awhile i see something that brings back a memory of mine that was just perfect ya know? well, she went to another school.... i don't really keep in touch with her bcuz i think it might b best 4 her & me... but the thing is i think that there's a few girls that i might want to date.... but is it wrong if u date someone if u still feel a "feeling" for another person? i sometimes think about her when i'm alone and not really doing anything... but other than that... i don't really think that i kinda suffer as much as i did b4 w/out her... plz help!!

Answer 1

cuz you are bored. I have a gf for 5 years, we live like over 500 miles away. other than her, sometimes I think of every person I know in the world, including my ex-gf's. yeah, there's good and bad memories. go out with friends, do volunteer work or something, you will forget them.

Answer 2

It is not wrong to date another person if you still have feelings. Many great relationships began when one of the two still had feelings for someone else. After a couple of dates you will see. It soon will come when you think "Did I really have feelings for her?".

Answer 3

Okay....you're in love. YOU'RE NOT CRAZY. I'm gonna try to make this as short as possible. I see two ways for you to stop this suffering. The first is getting another girlfriend. You see someone you like...you talk to her...and she interests you. Hook up, go on a date, and your mind will be off your ex. Or...the alternative is trying to get back with your girlfriend. This one may be a little more difficult...but if you REALLY REALLY like this girl, I would do it.

Answer 4

Aww, I am so sorry to hear that but I am glad to hear that you are wanting to move on and making good decisions for the both of you. As for your question, it is totally cool to date other girls even if you still feel something for your ex. You may never get over her..there will probably always be a piece of you that loves her but you need to move on. A new girl sounds like a great possibility for you.



Goodluck and if you need anything my email address is [e-mail]

Answer 5

ok i no what u mean anout things bringing back memories, the thing is, no matter what ull always have memories, even about peeps u hate, if u dont keep in tuoch that obviosluy mean u dont luv her. yes u shouldnt date if u have feelings 4 some1 else, ur just cheating the girl ur dating, dont do that 2 her. and i think u shouldnt date any1 unless u luv her, but thats me. if u sometimes think about ur x that means ur getting over her and especially if ur bored, y should u think about some1 when ur bored that means shes not very special right?? and if rnt suffering without her that mean su dont need her. so my answer is u dont luv her so u can date others , but w8 till ur crazily in love with some1 else so thi ssam ething dont happen again...

Answer 6

It's okay to have feelings for someone you broke up with-in fact, it is good you have feelings.

If you are not ready to have a relationship, meet girls who want to be friends, and wait awhile. Don't rush, for sure, and maybe, try to be friends with your ex, just because you are not bf/gf anymore, sounds like you miss the person herself, not just her as a girlfirend...but as a friend...fill your time with new interests maybe...good luck.

Answer 7

No is not wrong. You cared about her and that's okay. You should move on. The other person does not need to know that you still care about her. The only thing you need to worry about is not acting on your feelings for your ex.

Answer 8

You're not crazy; you're just suffering from the after-effects of a break-up.



I would advise you to start dating again, just for fun, not for a relationship. Give yourself time to get over the break-up. It will happen.

Answer 9

Let it go and move on with your life..... Its not cool to be with someone and be thinking of someone else. How would you feel. See. So get over it.. or go back to her.

Answer 10

no u can still go with another girl because later on ur feelings for them will grow and ur ex will hopefully fade away.

Answer 11

i think u could date another girl cuz u gotta letgo of ur x and get on with ur life

Answer 12

just do wat u want, its ok to still think of her cos at one time u were both happy, if u feel ready thren go ahead and date if not dont, if u just wana have fun in bed then go and do it, if u really wana get bk with her then tell her. good luck

Answer 13

Please dont date another girl its unfair if your feeling tied to another you havent moved on call her see if shes hurting to and work something out

Answer 14

your crazy. you should date those girls and move on.

Answer 15

wow... your back!?!?!? U R not crazy bro you can move on & date other ppl!

Answer 16

find another one

Answer 17

you're crazy.