Question:
What does friends with benefit means?????¿¿¿?
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:53:18 UTC
SOME GIRL I LIKED SAID WE COULD ONLY BE FRIENDS WITH BENEFIT WAT DOES THAT DOES IT MEAN WE COULD STILL GO OVER EACH OTHERS HOUSE HELP MEE¡!!!!!!!
54 answers:
chaminda l
2008-01-15 14:56:03 UTC
Friends with benefits means you use each other for satisfaction without the emotional side....



This is not a good thing because in most cases someone will get hurt....
Jeff B
2008-01-15 15:01:33 UTC
If you are at a place in your life where you don't want a commitment, then it is the best of both worlds. You can have a freind and casual sex. You get the milk without buying the cow. However, if you want tyo see someone and be the only person they see, then you are out of luck. Be careful, she could be talking freinds with benefits now, but change geers on you later and want a relationship, that could put a strain on your freindship.
Kade
2008-01-15 15:04:56 UTC
It means stop typing on yahoo and call that girl up now!! J/K



It's a splendid arrangement because you get all the pleasure out of it without all the BS or a committed relationship. It means she is attracted enough and comfortable enough with you to want to sleep with you... but she doesn't want to sleep with JUST you.



If you are cool with that arrangement, go for it bud!!! But if you really love her, think twice because you could get hurt in the long run. That's because she is most likely going to be sleeping with other guys. And if she falls in love with someone else, she's going to kick you to the curb. Take it for what it is. But also know that time changes everything. Maybe she'll want a relationship in time, maybe she won't. But there aren't many girls out there who are willing to put that offer out on the table, so you're lucky to even have the chance.
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2008-01-15 15:00:38 UTC
That's the concept of being with no-string sex involved.



Some think that it is easy and fun.

No its not, both needs to understand firmly that there is no emotional attachment and both can leave and drop the sex part at anytime....



Either case happens most of the time:

Guy or girl starts to feel an attachment for the other, other person says no, we are just FWB. Heart broken, no longer FWB.

Guy or girl finds someone they like and want to be in a genuine relationship, drops the sex part of the FWB to be faithful of the new relationship. Jealousy occurs, no more initmate play.
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:58:17 UTC
A friend with benefits mean that you can still do stuff like boyfriends and girlfriends do, but theirs no obligation. So you can like have sex and stuff but you dont have to have a real relationship. Yes you can still go over to each others houses.
9baller
2008-01-15 14:57:07 UTC
Casual relationship is a term used to describe the physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have a sexual relationship or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting a more formal relationship as a goal. It is more than just casual sex and different than a one-night stand. Related terms are "pals with privileges", "cut friends", an "extended hookup", a "fling", "friends with benefits", "friends with privileges", "sex buddies", "**** buddies", and a "sexualized friendship".
Little Nightmare
2008-01-15 14:58:20 UTC
Friends with benefits. It means that you guys are friends, you still talk and hang out, all of that normal friend business..but when the curtains are down, the benefits come out. The benefits are sexual acts, whether sex itself or other forms of sexual pleasure. Long definition short, you're friends that have sex with each other. Simple enough right?
Aniroc-redinc
2008-01-15 14:59:35 UTC
Friends with benefits means that you guys can mess around (i.e. make out, have sex, etc.) without involving your feelings and no attachment. This means that if she messes around with you tonight and messes around with someone else tomorrow night, you're not allowed to get mad. This also applies to her as well. If you really liked her though, I don't think you could be friends with benefits without one or both of you ending up hurt.
dolphin
2008-01-15 15:00:21 UTC
usually means you have the benefits of being IN a relationship WITHOUT having to be a part of a relationship.



i.e.

kissing

holding hands

sex

etc.
china doll
2008-01-15 14:59:03 UTC
simple this person considers u good for a sex toy! No stings attached, if this is what ur looking for then you've just hit the jackpot!!Always practice safe sex and enjoy! But know this person has no long lasting feelings of commitment for ya!
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:56:05 UTC
The benefits part means that you get to have sex without being boyfriend and girlfriend.
whirliekurlie
2008-01-15 14:58:15 UTC
If you don't know what this means, maybe you aren't old enough to have a friend with benefits.
mickeybettyboop
2008-01-15 14:57:01 UTC
If you need this explained to you then you are not old enough to have a friend with benefits.
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:55:58 UTC
It means you could have sex with each other, while still being just friends.
♥ SO IN LOVE ♥!
2008-01-15 14:58:32 UTC
It means ur not bf/gf but u get have to have sex without actually being together.Ur still friends though.

-Hope I helped!
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:56:59 UTC
Friends that have sex. It's based on a sexual attraction and relationship but no other intimacy obligations.



Sounds like she's offering you a pretty good deal!
gabrieleduardosaporta
2008-01-15 14:56:43 UTC
Friends who have sex/makeout with eachother without the emotional attatchment of a real relationship
desigal
2008-01-15 14:57:09 UTC
this means that you get to date her, but you can also date other people. this relation would only be physical and only for pleasure. if you really like her and want to be in a meaningful relationship with her you should not do that.
fptch16
2008-01-15 14:56:56 UTC
friends w/ benefits is when you can hang out and you can kiss her, but without the restrictions of a relationship.
slipstreamer
2008-01-15 15:01:02 UTC
A friend that you have occasional sex with. It never works, but good luck.



I am not friends with any friends that I have had sex with - someone always gets their feelings hurt and sex without feelings/love isn't that great once you have had sex+love.
Miss Puff
2008-01-15 14:56:59 UTC
It means that she wants all of the sexual perks without all of the relationship lovey dovey stuff. Basically she doesn't want commitment, only sex.
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:56:35 UTC
It means you get to do naughty things together, but you're only friends. She's not your girlfriend and she's free to see other guys on the side. Don't do it... you'll regret it later. :)
Hot British Guy
2008-01-15 14:56:56 UTC
give her my number thats the sort of girl I would like to meet. She wants sex but not a relationship.
myourchisin
2008-01-15 14:56:28 UTC
if your asking your probably young... but friends with benefits are usually people who are friends and fool around, have sex with no strings attached
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:57:17 UTC
Sex buddies!



It means she dont wanna go out with you...she just wants to be friends and have sex with you.
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:57:35 UTC
To add to this this also means that your free to date and have sex with other people and it won't be a problem...
silksquad04
2008-01-15 14:57:26 UTC
um that means that she doesnt want to be your gf but she will do stuff with you i had that before with a kid i know and i just told him no if it wasnt a relationship it wasnt anything at all but thats up to you
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:57:19 UTC
friends wiht benefits: friends who still have sex and make out, just are not b/f and g/f
Natnael D
2008-01-15 14:57:30 UTC
yea man, it means you can like make out or whatever without the burden of her being your girlfiiend(its the best)
John A
2008-01-15 14:56:44 UTC
It means she only wants to "make out" with you but not be your "girlfriend."
MadMama
2008-01-15 14:58:16 UTC
It means basically that she is using you for your body.



The rest is up to you.



Doesn't sound like someone to be around.
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:56:30 UTC
it means you act like your bf/gf without a commitment..

i.e. make out, dry hump, and get down.
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:57:30 UTC
you dont necessarily have to "have sex", just hook up and have no emotional strings attached. so you'd just be friends but hook up whenever. dont feel pressured to have sex though, its just whatever sexual you guys are comfortable with.
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:56:55 UTC
friends that dont have the jealously of another girl messing with him or a boy messing with her , you have your freedom



check URBANDICTIONARY they should

have the correct definition
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:58:03 UTC
It means you guys get to **** each other and have no tie ups about it. No love, no caring, only ******. So you can *** a *** in that ***'s mouth, and she can ***** a ****** in your *** and you guys will still be cool.
prplfae
2008-01-15 14:56:17 UTC
it means you are not commited to eachother, but you still get to fool around with eachother
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:56:24 UTC
Friends that hook-up, but without any attachments....
marilynfsmgm
2008-01-15 14:57:10 UTC
do what friends do and more , i would say sexual things without going steady with one another,no attachments.
Steph
2008-01-15 14:56:21 UTC
Fool around, no strings attached

Basically SLutting yourself
valicento910
2008-01-15 14:57:06 UTC
you get to do certain things with her that a normal friend wouldnt!
Wireless
2008-01-15 14:59:32 UTC
dont stress means she wants to have sex with you. where is not important.
Holli
2008-01-15 14:56:28 UTC
she doesnt want to date you but yall can be friends and have sex
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:56:15 UTC
Just roll with it bro!
lizzie
2008-01-15 14:56:59 UTC
good news, that mean that you can sleep with her wenever you fell like!
Lee
2008-01-15 14:56:56 UTC
it means your girl's a ho and needs multiple partners to be satisfied
ron s
2008-01-15 14:57:57 UTC
if you don't know then I guess you are too immature to worry about it anyway
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:57:07 UTC
it means that your not dating the person but you still makeout with them... have sex.....yada yada and well your JUST FRIENDS
stephieSD
2008-01-15 14:56:20 UTC
It means that you're sex buddies.
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:56:17 UTC
it means that you're mates and you're not going out but you'll do stuff together... ;)
Claire S
2008-01-15 14:55:56 UTC
that you can have be friends but have sex, no relationship - just friends who have sex.
TheBadArt
2008-01-15 14:56:06 UTC
it means your not bf/gf but you have sex
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:56:03 UTC
it means you sex eachother and stuff but never date.. sick
Big Mike
2008-01-15 14:56:48 UTC
friends who have sex. JUST FRIENDS
anonymous
2008-01-15 14:57:15 UTC
you can have sex with her


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