My girlfriend wants to sleep with other men?

Question

I have slept with about 6 girls before my current girlfriend, she has only had sex with me because she has tried before but she has anxiety so ended up having panic attacks, she wants to experience sex with other people.
Her argument is that I should respect her wish and let her sleep with other people, but she wouldn t let me do it.
I wouldn t want it to happen but if it did I think we should both be allowed.
Advice would be appreciated :)

Answer 1

I'll tell you this. If the girl is the one and she really truly loves you she won't want to have sex with anyone else. The thought would disgust her. I had a friend named John who ended up marrying a former porn actress (it has to do with this just stick with the story and roast some marshmallows) Well when they started dating she was still in the industry performing. After about 7 months of dating she retired because the thought of her having sex with other men grossed her out she loved John waaaaay too much. They are now married and she has never ever touched or even looked at another man. When you really love someone you don't want anyone else you just don't it's how you know the person is the one. This girl doesn't love you she just wants some fun so I suggest you leave her. There is a song called "I don't want to go on with you like that" by Elton John that talks about exactly what you're going thru. In the song the girl he's seeing wants to have sex with other men because she just wants to be promiscuous. Your girl just wants to be promiscuous and it has nothing to do with you being her only partner not a gorram thing. She doesn't want you man I'm sorry and I think you should let her go. If she really loved you but wanted another sensation she would buy a dildo I know that sounds crude but it's the truth. She doesn't love you man I'm sorry. =(

Answer 2

It sounds to me like this girl isn't as into the relationship as you are. That, and she's not as into you as you may have been led to believe. If she was, she wouldn't be trying to ask you permission to get it on with other guys. She'd be trying to make it work with you, and never bringing up her desire for another man. I could see if maybe she was asking you for permission to have an experience with a girl, though even that would be messing with the boundaries of the relationship.



Here is what I suggest. You are obviously not okay with this. Don't try to find a way to change how you feel, and don't give her permission for this. Instead, stick to your guns. Tell her your mind is made up, that this is no. And if she wants to discuss it further, you will be discussing breaking up with her. In addition, tell her that if she decides to do it behind your back, that she should know that the relationship will effectively over as of the moment she does.



If she whines that this is not fair, tell her that maybe she doesn't need to be in a relationship. Don't do the tacky "taking a break" thing that kids do these days. That solves nothing. And if she does take the breakup, and goes off to play, be warned that taking her back again afterwards will make you look like a buffoon. She will have no respect for you, and she just might cheat on you after the fact, or break up with you again next time a guy catches her eye.



And that's the best advice I can give.

Answer 3

I'll tell you this. If the girl is the one and she really truly loves you she won't want to have sex with anyone else. The thought would disgust her. I had a friend named John who ended up marrying a former porn actress (it has to do with this just stick with the story and roast some marshmallows) Well when they started dating she was still in the industry performing. After about 7 months of dating she retired because the thought of her having sex with other men grossed her out she loved John waaaaay too much. They are now married and she has never ever touched or even looked at another man. When you really love someone you don't want anyone else you just don't it's how you know the person is the one. This girl doesn't love you she just wants some fun so I suggest you leave her. There is a song called "I don't want to go on with you like that" by Elton John that talks about exactly what you're going thru. In the song the girl he's seeing wants to have sex with other men because she just wants to be promiscuous. Your girl just wants to be promiscuous and it has nothing to do with you being her only partner not a gorram thing. She doesn't want you man I'm sorry and I think you should let her go. If she really loved you but wanted another sensation she would buy a dildo I know that sounds crude but it's the truth. She doesn't love you man I'm sorry. =(

Answer 4

If she wants to experience sex with other people, and you don't want it to happen tell her how you really feel. If she insists then maybe you guys should take a break. This is the situation where the water gets polluted and when two couples get back together, there has already been pollution within the relationship. In this case, either she will try to hook up with other men, finding a guy to hook up with is hard enough. Either she will be unsuccessful and come crawling back to you or she'll sleep with another guy and you decide you don't want her anymore because the thought of her sleeping with someone else will provoke your mind. If she really loved you and valued your relationship she wouldn't think twice about sleeping with another guy. Maybe this was her way of saying she was upset that you slept with several girls, and this was her way of trying to make you jealous. It doesn't really mean she will do it. I'd say talk to her in a calmly manner and ask her why she said that, and tell her that you want her to be completely honest with you.

Answer 5

She doesn't want to settle down till she's sowed some wild oats. This girl isn't marriage/even committed girlfriend materiel at least not yet.



There are a number of ways this can go

1. You both take this time to explore outside of the core relationship.

2. You invite others into the core relationship

3. You go your separate ways with a promise to get back in touch in like a year or so and see where you both are then

or 4. You just plain go your separate ways.



Asking her to settle without the experience she feels she needs is going to hurt you both. So this really has to happen. You don't want to/shouldn't hang around for it if you don't think you can handle it. But this is really up to you how far you're willing to go to save your relationship.

Answer 6

If she wants to sleep with other men and still be in a relationship with you then you are in an open relationship. Which means you ALSO get to sleep with other women. Open relationships are very hard and most of the time end up hurting someone. If it were me, I would break up with her. She obviously has other things on her mind. Holding onto your relationship when her head is off somewhere else is just a waste of time. Don't waste your life being with someone who isn't committed to you. She is being extremely selfish by saying she doesn't want you to sleep with other women. It's not a score chart. Go find a girl who is comfortable with her life. Your girlfriend obviously doesn't have her **** figured out. She has a right to go off and discover herself and explore, but she doesn't have a right to hold you back.

Answer 7

Honestly, your situation sounds like messy turf. I wouldn't even dip your toes in the water with this one. If she or you feel like you want to sleep with other people then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship. What is the point? Relationships are about commitment and treating a person as more special that you treat the rest. If you're both out sleeping with other people and each other then you're treating everyone the same. That's not a relationship. If I were you I would run for the hills because this doesn't seem good, and probably won't turn out well.

Answer 8

I think once you start going down this route things can get pretty messy really quickly. I mean it works for some people, but for the majority no one wants to think of their other half getting it on with someone else when they are meant to be committed to you. Don't get me wrong, I think my jealousy would get in the way and I just couldn't have it, but if you think you could cope with an open relationship then go for it. Personally though, I think relationships work best when it's just two people who are committed to each other. Just because you're the only guy she's slept with doesn't give her a right to then sleep with other people, she should only want to sleep with you otherwise she may as well be single. Can't have the best of both worlds.

Answer 9

Despite the fact that you've had other partners in the past doesn't make it fair for her to go out and experiment while you wait around for her to be done. If she is going to sleep with other people then you can as well. I don't see how relationships like that can possibly work though. It's way too messy. It might just be time to let her be free and move on because obviously she's not content with you and only you. Don't commit to someone who wants to sleep with other people. That can never work in a healthy relationship. Just my perspective! Good luck!

Answer 10

An open relationship means allowing both partners to sleep with others and the couple together makes rules that both can live by and agree on. It sounds like the two of you should not be in a relationship right now if she wants to sleep with others but will not allow you to do the same.



There is nothing wrong with her wanting more experience. That is normal. You two should probably break up, let her do what she wants, you do what you want and see if you want to get back together later on dow the road.

Answer 11

Sex is a very special thing and should be experienced with someone you truly love. You should definitely not support your girlfriends idea of sleeping with other men. She has you!! Not only is this going to effect your relationship... It could effect your health too. If she is sleeping with other men, who knows what diseases she could get and then pass onto you. I can't even imagine letting my boyfriend for instance sleep with other women and I wouldn't want to sleep with any other men. Of course, the exception of Channing Tatum! Ha ha! But no, If your girlfriend wants to do that, she can't possibly truly love you or she wouldn't want to do things with other men. It is completely unloyal too.

Answer 12

While I'm not into the whole idea of the sleeping around lifestyle, I think she needs to test the waters with other guys. Is what she doing fair? No I don't particularly agree with the whole idea of an "open relationship" because it even isn't a relationship if you think about it. A relationship is an exclusive connection with two people. It's extremely contradictory in my eyes. Plus, how could you sleep with her knowing she was just with another guy the day before. It just doesn't sound appealing. If you want a serious commitment, she's not the one for you. At least not for now. If she really wants this, then maybe it's time you guys took a break.

Answer 13

How old are you? If you're a mature adult then maybe you should give it a try. It's not fair that you've gotten to experience sex with other people and she hasn't. Can you imagine being an 80 year old that's only had one sex partner knowing that your spouse has had more?



If you're okay with it, tell her "Okay you can sleep with 5 other guys, but after that you have to agree to swing with another couple. You sleep with a man you like, and I sleep with his wife." If she disagrees to it then she isn't being fair. If she agrees, then she is being fair and isn't setting double standards.



Remember though, if she sleeps with other men, always ask her who the person is. Don't let her hide anything from you. If she starts acting suspicious, like starts getting weird texts from a random number and doesn't let you read them, then she might just be on the path to cheating on you.

Answer 14

A relationship she is proposing can only end in tears. And to have the cheek to not allow you to sleep around while she's out there committing fornication. She doesn't sound very mature at all. You both seem quite young, she seems like she wants to be free to mess around while she has you as a sort of sense of security, knowing you'll always be there and won't leave in the morning like the rest of her fellow "lovers". It would be a very unfair relationship, and you'd probably get incredibly fed up.

Answer 15

If I was you there would be no way I would agree to it.

Being in a relationship is team work, it s being together just you two, it s having a bond that you can t find in another person hence why you two are together. If you let her go off and try that experience, I honestly don t think she will come back to you. She will have a new perspective and she will have met and slept with other men who she could think may offer her more than what you can. I wouldn t risk it.

Good Luck!

Answer 16

She's being unfair, inconsiderate and pretty ridiculous.



If I was you I'd either break up with her or unilaterally declare it an open relationship (FOR BOTH OF YOU), but that's just me. I dgaf and I'm not afraid of heavy drama and conflict. It might very well kill the relationship though and you have to know that going in if you do it my way.



In either case, an open relationship HAS to give BOTH people the freedom to sleep with others. Only one person having that isn't fair. Either you BOTH stay exclusive or you BOTH get to sleep with whoever you choose. Again, she's being ridiculous.

Answer 17

I've only slept with one guy and that's my boyfriend, he's slept with 2 before me but I'd never even think about wanting to experience other people. If she wants to do that then she's not ready for a relationship and you should probably just leave her. If she thinks you letting her do that is showing her respect where's the respect for you? Do you really want to be with someone worrying about who else they're sleeping with?and do you really wanna be sleeping with someone who's sleeping with other people? She clearly just needs to be single for a while I think.

Answer 18

Make an end to this! She aint your girlfriend no real girlfriend would want to sleep with other men while she is in a relationship. Till then it aint easy being green!

Answer 19

If she expect you to respect her wish to sleep with other men she too should respect your wish to sleep with other girls . If not it will be one sided and you will be the looser or the underdog . If this is a serious relationship both should come to an underanding and put an end to sleeping with other men and women . If that is not the case you have all the right to sleep with other women while your girlfriend sleep with other men .

Answer 20

From a woman's point of view, if she wants to sleep with other men, guaranteed she will live with regret when she finds her Mr. Right. For you, you shouldn't date someone who isn't willing to give you their all. She shouldn't love you or be with you for sex, it's the person that counts. This may sound old fashion but I'm 18 and I know for a fact that she is guaranteed not the right person for you and vise versa.

Answer 21

For me, I believe sex is something done solely with your significant other. It's like a sharing of love in a way.. and it's special. However, if this is an open relationship, I believe both of you should have the right to see other people as long as you're both content with it. I don't think it would be fair if she's the only one being able to be intimate with other guys.

Answer 22

Dude, you need to be more aggressive with her in bed. Tell her, what are your kinks? We all have the same penis, but what are your desires and fetishes? I'm sure she's hiding something behind the closet.





If she declines and still wants to sleep around, leave her and find someone better. Also, tell her she could easily catch an STD sleeping around, and her babies will come out deformed.

Answer 23

You'd be screwing yourself if you let your girlfriend screw others and you but her without letting you screw her AND others. Fair is fair, even if you decide not to follow through.



An open relationship is a valid relationship. It comes with risks of romantic complication, but then what exclusively monogamous relationship really keeps fresh over a lifetime?! Infidelity, boredom, lack of sex and abuse are statistically the most common reasons for breakup in America, so it's hardly unsurprising to want sexual freedom! Those who talk about sex for the one you truly love have bought into the disney/religion myth that completely denies human instinct and the VAST array of evidence against the idea of love as tailoring one's libido to a single other.

Answer 24

Her wanting to sleep with other guys should set off an alarm. And the fact she's in a relationship with you but wants to sleep with other guys is a red flag. Get out before its to late and you get crushed.

Answer 25

if the relationship isn't open for both of you then it's not open for her.



If she wants to explore her sexuality with other men then give her the freedom to do so as a single woman.



Maybe your next girlfriend will be a better match for you.

Answer 26

If you are very against this (which I would be, and I think you should be), then I would say: It's either me, or other men. Make your pick.

Her choice will determine how she really feels about you.



And it's not 'unfair' if you don't accept her sleeping with other guys, so don't even let her pull that on you.

Answer 27

Looks like she'd rather sleep around with different guys than be in a committed relationship.

Answer 28

If you feel like this relationship is the one, then I believe you should consider it.



Considering she has anxiety, that fact that she has had pannick attacks means that she has personally felt like she couldn t do it and she wasn t good enough. Her The fact that she wants to sleep with another man is mainly because she feel like she can get back on her own feet and just get out of the bubble of anxiety that I can assure you she wants to get out of. Also considering that she has had sex with you means that you are one of the only people she can trust; and believe me, being trusted by a person dealing with anxiety can take a very long time - meaning that she is very special to you (treasure this for as long as you know her because it s a rare thing).



I would personally partially allow it to make her feel like she can do it, which is extremely important if you want someone with anxiety to improve as she will feel confident and proud of herself (everyone is this world should know how that feels like). If I were you I wouldn t like it either, but you have to think about the progress of the condition. Also I d like to be open too, but it might lose her trust which, from her especially, will be very hard to gain back. What is most likely to happen is that she probably would feel bad before doing it and come back to you for comfort, but even if she does it could promote a healthier relationship.



She lost her virginity to you, which means A LOT to a person like her. BUT I d only accept it on one condition: if it was ONCE with a person none of you knew (ie one night stand, which wouldnt barely mean anything anyways).

Answer 29

Dude, trying to lock her down to a relationship is only going to drive her away forever. This girl is obviously not relationship material anyway, sex buddy or friends with benefits type? Sure. Relationship material? No. You're attitude should be "Well they( these other guys) can keep her busy when I'm not with her." But seriously dude, use her only as a sex playmate and lose the relationship tag, this woman is obviously not capable of loyalty.

Answer 30

Yeeeaaahhhhhhh..... She's tested the waters and now she wants more, hmmm?



I think you two should break up, or at LEAST take a break to "see other people", then after a while see how you both feel about each other. But right now, she's disrespecting your relationship, and I would not be surprised if she cheats anyway after you say no to her plan.

Answer 31

Considering she hasn't been with other guys and if you are both getting serious then maybe she just needs to let off some steam and is being tempted by others. However this is not okay. If she wants to do that then she needs to know that you won't be waiting around for her afterwards.

Answer 32

What she wants is an open relationship. That's all well and good as long as both people are ok with it, and as long as both people are allowed to see others. Wanting to sleep with other men while not allowing you to sleep with other women isn't how it works...

Answer 33

If she wants to sleep with other men, that means she is not wanting to be in a relationship with you. If she loves you, why does she desire to be with other men? Also don't worry about her excuse lol, very manipulative excuse though bravo to her. So no, both of you shouldn't sleep with other people. That means you desire to be with other people but not eachother. Also, she might cheat on you instead if you don't let her....

Answer 34

If you think a relationship should be monogamous, then you just need to tell your girlfriend that you want her to be faithful to you, and if she doesn't want that she needs to end the relationship. It's not fair to demand double standards, and it's also not really right to demand to be able to have a relationship with multiple people at once!

Answer 35

Everything happens for a reason. Let her go as a "girlfriend", and remain friends. Seems like it may be more important and in your best interest to get to know girlfriends character (Or lack thereof). In the meantime, Go meet new people, stay busy, and enjoy life!

Answer 36

she has a double standard, if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend you shouldn't be sleeping around with other guys or girls. that is disrespectful to the person that you are in a relationship with. if she just insist let her go then she can sleep with how ever many more guys that she wants.

Answer 37

She shouldn't be sleeping around while still in a relationship with you. What if she passes on a STD to you or gets pregnant by another man. If she truly loves you then she should only want to be with you.

Answer 38

Nope.

I get if she wants to experiment, that's fair enough, but it's in no way fair for her to expect that you remain faithful while she sleeps around. Just no.



I reckon break up with her, because if you say no, she'll probably end up going behind your back to get her 'urges' out.

But if you do it her way, and stay faithful while she sleeps around, she will lose respect for you and your relationship is doomed to fail if that happens.

So it's probably safer to just end it now before it gets bad.

Answer 39

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Answer 40

If she believes that mess so much she might already be cheating on you there's no need to break your head over it I'd say let her choose from being with u or going on her own but I wouldn't take her back seems like a slap in the face to me like a red flag going off in my head saying don't marry this chick

Answer 41

So basically, because you've had sex with other people, she thinks she should be able to, too? That's not how it works. If she's thinking about having sex with other people, then she doesn't love you. When you're with someone you love, you wouldn't want to go screw someone else. It's not your fault that she never slept with anyone else before she started dating you.



If she is serious about wanting to sleep with other people, I think you should break up with her.

Answer 42

sounds like she is afraid to commit. I'd tell her if she can't respect being with you and only you then tell her to hit the road. I'm a guy and if i met a great girl i wouldn't say "hey i want to have a 3 some with two girls because i haven't did it just yet so wait up for me" sounds ridiculous.

Answer 43

it sounds like she is wanting to experience an open relationship, but with her being the only one open. IF this is not something that you feel is something that you want, you need to talk to her about it. Perhaps it would be better if you took a break and both saw other people for a time.

Answer 44

I think you should breakup with her bc for her to even ask you to let her do that is disrespectful you deserve better if she's asking for permission to not be loyal you need to let her go and get out of that relationship and find someone that will be. and if she tries to come back don't accept bc she was out there not being loyal and probably got a disease or sum don't trust these ****.

Answer 45

It's not a real relationship between you 2 then.

Answer 46

I think that's a crock of crap. If she wants to sleep around she needs to be single. If you want to sleep around you need to be single. Obviously there's something different about you if you're the only one she's been able to be intimate with.

Answer 47

Sounds like a hoe to me. If she's in a relationship with you then she should only be with you & not other guys. I'd just let this girl go, she seems like she'd rather go around than be tied down to one guy.

Answer 48

how can both of you sleep with people while you together, if that's true love, you will never even mention about sleeping with others.. So what if she hasn't experience anyone before.. Both of youse should be lucky to have each other not planning to sleep around with others.. If you really care about her, you won't accept it

Answer 49

Your girlfriend sounds like a total bloody control-freak- (don't do what I do- do what I bloody tell ya!) Sounds like she expects ya to jump, the minute she tells ya to do so, and to ask her: "How high, darling?", while you're three feet in the bleedin' air, my son, and more bloody fool you, if ya put up with this stupid *****, 'cos I know I bloody well wouldn't! Peace and love, brother. Be lucky, old son.

Answer 50

Your gf wants to sleep with other men, then you had better breakup with the girl.

She is not Loyal. She will do the same thing in the future when she found someone

Answer 51

Just dump her. If she loved you she wouldn't want to do it with anyone else/she'd be fair and allow an open relationship. It sounds like she has something lined up already, if you stay with her be weary.

Answer 52

You're right. It's either both of you can have sexual relations with other people (it's called an open relationship, by the way) or none of you can. If she doesn't agree, then break up with her.

Answer 53

I'd let sleep with other men if she wanted to,but she wouldn't be sleeping with me anymore.

Answer 54

Shes just being immature. I remember when i was 17 and i had my first sex with my ex who already done sex with couple girls before i was also thinking the same. Like its not fair. But then i tried to think positively and stopped asking much about his past relationship because the more i knew the more it hurted me. So after that i tried to make up my mind that i wanted him not just relationship and left the past behind. We then broke up but it was not because of that reason. Now i have been dating with my current bf for over 5 months and i dont wanna ask him about his past. Past is past. Maybe you are just treating her way too good that she supposed to be treated.

Answer 55

Tbh If I was you I'd leave your girlfriend because it's basically cheating, and no one wants to date a cheater.

Answer 56

Time to give her the gift of being single. You can still fu©k her without having to worry about being emotionally involved with someone that shallow.



She's doing you a favor, man. Now do her one. Dump her.

Answer 57

sorry man.....you have to get rid of her. Sex is a huge part of a relationship and if she wants to be with other people besides you then there is no respect. Don't be with someone who dos not respect and love you and WANTS to be with you. It will be hard to let her go but you must, as mush as I hate to say this....she dos not care about or for you.

Answer 58

No No. Better brake-up with her.

She is trying to piss you off and so find an excuse to go away from you. Instead, you tell her that it's over.

If you love her too, it's not worth wasting your emotions on her anymore.

Answer 59

It's simple; She's a whore, and the fact that she's still your girlfriend means you're either very young or a panzi. S

Answer 60

She most likely does not love you, but she is could be really attached to you. Or maybe she is just jealous that you slept with other girls and she never slept with anyone. Either way sex outside of marriage is a sin. God is real you can choose to believe it or not but we all die and you dont want to be wrong about this.

Answer 61

Either she's not satisfied with just you, because your not a good partner or..........she's a whore. My opinion is she is not happy and this is her way of breaking up with you because I'm sure you don't want a dirty whore for a girlfriend. Right......Tell her to screw.

Answer 62

If you choose to sleep with others - then break up and move on - both of you are not ready for real commitment and know what being faithful means.

Answer 63

I think you should let her. I let my boyfriend do whatever he wants AS LONG AS HE TELL ME EVERYTHING.

you see, sex isn't a big deal, Honesty is far more important. The fact that she told and didn't do it behind your back means that she is committed to you and this won't affect the relationship. It's just a physical pleasure that means absolutely nothing. What you should be worried about is her having FEELINGS for someone else or hide some information from you. Sex is overrated, Just set her free :D

Answer 64

You have three choices. 1- Let her sleep with others and leave her. 2- Let her sleep with others and pretend you don't know. 3- Let her sleep with others and you look them as well and all enjoy together.

Answer 65

If she is determined you are better off ending the relationship altogether. You shouldnt stay with her if she wants to experience sex with other guys. Once you are single you can do what you want too.



Her reasons are genuine but you need to move on from her.

Answer 66

Hell noooo. You can't be in a relationship with somebody and don't expect your partner to do the same that's b.s. tell your girl if she wants to do that she has to leave you but not b while you are together!!!

Answer 67

She must be very young. Maybe she is one that would say "The grass is always greener on the other side" or maybe you for whatever reason are unable to satisfy her sexual needs. Anyway, if you are into monogamy, maybe you need to find a new girlfriend who shares your views.

Answer 68

I have been here before my boyfriend, wanted to be with others too.

I was his first and he was mine. But I didn't want stay together..

Many years later he was sorry he lost me.. So just leave

Answer 69

There's nothing wrong with her asking. It shows trust and openness, arguably. (Or rampant selfishness and insensitivity....)



I don't think it sounds very equitable to you, but I am not the judge of equity of relationships. If it works for you, it does. If it doesn't work for you, then it doesn't.

Answer 70

Let her and leave her. I don't need to find out what other men had for breakfast by kissing my girl.

Answer 71

i am so not into open relationships.



plus she is being kind of selfish i think



saying that she can sleep with whomever she wants to and not let you do the same or else.



that is selfish and overall not very nice either.you may have to dump her

Answer 72

3somes become a compromise, and they destroy relationships. There's no other way for a couple partner to share another man or woman, except to cheat. Best thing to do, walk away, and give her every freedom, and you prevent heartache and hatred.

Answer 73

You didn't say how old you were, but it sounds like neither of you two are mature enough to be dating. Wait another couple years.

Answer 74

Let her go that's her right and freedom but make sure that she'll never have any part in your life again.

Answer 75

don't let her. if she doesn't like that idea then break up. its simple. she thinks shes missing something and so if she is trying to experience it with other people she doesn't really value your relationship. just let her know that you will give her the chance but not while committed so just break up and let her test the water.



honestly it sounds like jealousy though, just saying

Answer 76

I hate to be the bearer of bad news... but she just isnt that into you... A relationship without sex is just a friendship.. The sex is the added benefit of a relationship. So if she rather have it with others than you... that should let you know where you stand.

Answer 77

Break up with her, sorry to be so forward but in a relationship there should be no wanting of another person

Answer 78

it sounds like to me- she really isn't satisfied with having intimacy with you- maybe you do not satisfy her sexually wise so she wants to experience it with others... i don't think this girl loves you- if a guy told me this i would lose it- like it is interesting to me how you are even debating on the questions with her...you should have been like "u see that door over there, don't let it hit you in your face- bye nice knowing ya!" ...i mean where is the love- there is no love in your case..sorry dude

Answer 79

Better that she's telling you now, huh? She most likely has already slept with some guys meaning you indirectly slept with them TOOOO!

Answer 80

Don't let her take you for a mug. If she wants sex with other people she can leave. Don't put yourself in pain for her to be sexually intimate with other people.

Answer 81

I would not mind to help your girlfriend.

And don't worry, I always use condom.

Answer 82

Let her. Then when she's done, break up with her. She obviously doesn't love you like you love her.

Answer 83

Ask her to DTR. She sounds pretty disloyal. If you really love her, and especially since you're IN A RELATIONSHIP, there should be boundaries...

Answer 84

TBH I think that even with your permission it's still pretty much cheating :/ Best Wishes! {Kiraaaaaaa}

Answer 85

it's not like she is your wife , she can actually sleep with whoever she want and she doesn't really need to tell you or take your permission

Answer 86

She wants to have other guys, but doesn't want you have other girls.



Why don't you just break up with her and have done with it?

Answer 87

She's not your girlfriend, then.

Answer 88

Her chronic anxiety disorder would be significantly, you let her go. It is not important; except, from the medical point of view. Somehow, I think you will overcome the loss her love.

Answer 89

I had never had sex before my boyfriend and I don't want to have sex with other men.

Answer 90

If she thinks you should respect her wish's. then grant her, her wish and break up with her. If she cared about you and was truly into you, then she would want only you.

Answer 91

Then, she does not want to be your girlfriend anymore.



Besides, she is not worth it, anyway.

Answer 92

Thst is called being friends with benefits not bf gf

Answer 93

I can help out here, send her to me I am 62 so I have lots of experience.

Answer 94

She'd be gone as soon as she asked that to me 😂

Answer 95

Let the girl go, she is definitely not ready for a committed relationship sorry

Answer 96

Ill Say

Answer 97

She's not a gf just a lover.if u want a gf It may be best to let her go.

Answer 98

She shouldn't date then

Answer 99

I think its time to dump this girl, SHe sounds like a truly terrible person.

Answer 100

Sex with other people increases the odds of catching a sexually transmitted disease or an accident happening.



The more people added to the mix the bigger the risk.

Answer 101

let her sleep with other men. let her have fun with sex it doesn't make any difference to your relationship.

Answer 102

Leave her and let her explore her sexuality. Find a girl who only wants you.

Answer 103

Give me her phone number and I'll get it straightened out for you.

Answer 104

you could try a polyamerous (spelt wrong) relationship but i can see that you want her to be exclusive to you therefore i would suggest that you tell her how you feel and if she ingnores you then she obviously doesn t resprect you enough to keep you happy.

Answer 105

slu........... poor both yall

I have f**** 3 guys and now I'm just in a relationship w my lover n I did not ask to f someone is cause I'm bored w you or ur boring in bed or penus is to small

Answer 106

She's just not that attracted to you, or she wouldn't be pulling this crap. Believe me.

Answer 107

if shes gonna be a hypocrite dump her its nor fair she is showing the fact how immature she is shes not worth it dump her u can find someone better hope this helps

Answer 108

You should see other people then see about getting back together

Answer 109

She want an open relationship.

Answer 110

She must be a playa then looks like you picked the right woman

Answer 111

Neither of you seem mature enough to be steady. Move on

Answer 112

She isn't experienced with sex, and I knew this was going to happen. She's bored with the sex you give her. I am guessing.. you're either not good in bed or she wants to be open to different kinds of sex or have an open relationship. Sounds like she doesn't love you, wants to commit to you. U have options.



1.) You can dump her, find another girl who's experienced with sex.



2.) You can have an open relationship, have sex with different people.



3.) You can have a threesome, bring a third party in the act. If you don't want to lose her. I suggest giving these options to her. She sounds like a greedy girl. Wants u all to herself while she's cheating on you, sleeping with other people.



I take it she doesn't love you. It sounds like she wants to go behind your back, cheat on you. If you had a threesome, she slept with a guy and you. Technically it wouldn't be cheating bc you're okay with it. But if she loves you. I don't think.. she would want to lose you, tick you off. So! You should just dump her. Tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't care or respects you.



U might as well find someone else. People that aren't experienced in sex are bi- curious or curious and aren't experienced with sex. She's probably bored of having sex with you, you're not open to sex. BUt if the sex was that great. I don't see.. why she would want to sleep with other men.



Most people that are sexually.. satisfied usually don't want to have sex with other people. I knew a girl who had a screw buddy, and his name was Apollo. She got married to this Adam guy, and she had a kid with him. She became " obsessed" with him " sexually", told me to try.. " friends with benefits". I laughed at her, and said " no". She say's " Angie u should try it, see what happens". I said.. feelings develop, you might as well be boyfriend, girlfriend. Surely. He was still dwelling on his ex girlfriend at the time, still had feelings for her. It was Stacy. I told her you will get used, burned. So. After it happen she got " jealous", possessive with him. I told her.. feelings develop, someone in the relationship get's clingy and hurt.



He ended up developing feelings for me, and wanted to sleep with me. I said.. no. I said.. you slept with Crystal, she is my friend. He told her I kissed him, and believed him over me. So. we got in a big fight, took her booty call over me. So. I dropped her as a friend. Loyal to her but isn't loyal to me.



Anyways. Time went on, she.. ended up finding a new guy. Now she's married for the second time, and already has a sun. She's still obsessed with her ex Apollo. That's because the sex from her husband now, her husband before sucks.



She's not getting the sexual pleasure, the stability and everything into one. Now she wants to cheat, sleep with other men.



Like I said. If the sex was great Anthony.. she wouldn't want to sleep with other men. She would only want to have sex with you,because she's not experienced. She wants to explore different men. U can either let her go, date other women.. and let her sleep around, be single. And not care about her.



Or you can sacrifice a threesome, have sex with her, another guy. If that's what she just wants?! Just to fill avoid of sex. Then after it's done. You can let go of your playmate, move on with you relationship with her, still be together. Not unless you have a resentment, and you're weak and unable to let it go.



But I suppose if you have one, another guy. U should be able to have one with her, another chick. Or just be open. She should just be single, not date you anymore.

Answer 113

Let her do it... because even if you don't, she'll do it eventually. And the more you refrain her, the more she will have the fantasy.

Answer 114

You should end your relationship with her. She sounds like a 5lut.

Answer 115

If she wants to give everyone a turn let her!

Answer 116

Not a trustworthy woman

Answer 117

She's a whore then. Let her do it. Just end the relationship.

Answer 118

This sounds pretty fucked up. I'd start looking around for other girls in the meantime.

Answer 119

what kind of boy friend and girl friend you guys are? i guess none of you are serious in relation, just move on or stay tune for the problem.

Answer 120

Adultery is a good reason for divorce.

Answer 121

Such whores nowadays...just wanna have sex...how are you still with that girl?



1st comment by lisa is correct...i agree with it totally.

Answer 122

Not Good

Answer 123

No don't allow her

Answer 124

Let her gain experience

Answer 125

Plain and simple she doesn't love you.

Answer 126

Probably U r unable to satisfy her mentally & physically. Enrich & strengthen Urself to succeed. . .

Answer 127

find another girl and have sex with her.. then tell your now gf that you just had sex with another woman and it is okay for her to sleep with another guy..

Answer 128

better leave that girl because she is noy contented with you. why she need to xplore and need to sex with some one..it so unfair.. and onethingmore she is a girl..

Answer 129

Sorry... Anyone that seeks anything outside the relationship is not "totally" in to it.

Answer 130

Dump her

Answer 131

i guess it couldn't be a good idea. it could cause a lot of problem..

Answer 132

Thats disrespectful...why be in a relationship then?

Answer 133

Dump her

Answer 134

Break the **** up. She doesn't love you and she will make you suffer.

Answer 135

well if i tell my boyfriend that he will get hurt so that's inappropriate

Answer 136

She wants to be a ****. Dump her ASAP

Answer 137

I DONT THINK ITS ANYTHING WRONG WITH IT. AT LEAST SHE IS LETTING YOU KNOW AND MAYBE YOU GUYS CAN FIND ANOTHER COUPLE JUST LIKE YOU TWO AND EXPERIENCE IT THAT WAY. BOTH YOU GUYS WILL ENJOY YOURSELFS....

Answer 138

Let her go for it you can join in later.

Answer 139

It sounds to me that she's bullshit testing you really.

Answer 140

Be faithful to one and other that is the best rule

Answer 141

Dump her. she doesnt love you, she wants other men. you are playing with fire here.

Answer 142

then she isn't your girlfriend

Answer 143

well if you already had sex with 6 different girls then its only fair that she should match that amount

Answer 144

Slap her across her face, put her in her place.

Answer 145

Easy dumb tha hoe

Answer 146

you should not. even to have this kind of thought, is very strange and weird.

J

Answer 147

Whats the point of this relationship?

Answer 148

U could ask to have a gamgbang u bring your friends and she brings her friends

Answer 149

no problem if just sleep

Answer 150

Obviously you aren't good enough for her; ditch the whore and ****.

Answer 151

Simple. Leave her.

Answer 152

**** that bro, that is unloyal. I would have just broke up with her

Answer 153

She a hoe

Answer 154

Leave her, shes no good for you.

Answer 155

that's so weird

Answer 156

time for a new one bro

Answer 157

Leave her dude

Answer 158

tell her there are no other men hung like you are.

Answer 159

she wants out.

Answer 160

might try toy for adult'r'us... lmao.

Answer 161

ew

Answer 162

wow

Answer 163

You need to let her go.

Answer 164

Open relationship could be the answer..

Answer 165

wow

Answer 166

What kind of game is this ?

Answer 167

Tell her to **** off and find someone new

Answer 168

answer in three words..."Dildo named Bob"

Answer 169

cause you are not good at bad , leave my friend.

Answer 170

you must marry her nearly

Answer 171

Curve her.

Answer 172

deal breaker.

Answer 173

Lol dont let her.

Answer 174

Not good.

Answer 175

dump her

Answer 176

well good can i be the first candidate

Answer 177

End this noW!!

Answer 178

Dump her wanna be ho ***.

Answer 179

Ditch the *****.



not worth the pain.

Answer 180

:'(

Answer 181

give her my email

Answer 182

let you watch.

Answer 183

good

Answer 184

say no

Answer 185

Jesus get away!

Answer 186

? Send her my way.

Answer 187

dump her.

Answer 188

dump her.

Answer 189

DUMP HER NOW.

Answer 190

wow..

Answer 191

NO

Answer 192

OK SO!?

Answer 193

no,

Answer 194

okay...

Answer 195

..

Answer 196

K