girl advice please i think i broke this girls heart?

Question

i feel really bad, last saturday i went out to party with some friends and this girl i hadnt seen in ages caught up with us by chance. we had a good time that day and decided wed all get togeather again the next day had another awesome day. i had been texting her flirting with her which usually isnt like me im quite shy and withdrawn but since i had been out gettin loose for 2 days straight i was enjoying this girls company and txtd her through out the week. and my other friends had a way good time too so every day for the next week we were all togeather doin stuff and even went to that girls house on wednesday. so thursday i said screw it im goin back to my old ways after a week straight of people, which is me at my house by myself no people which is how i spend 90% of my time and sure enough that girl txtd me but i didnt think shed take it to personal if i didnt reply just this once but after like an hour she was begging me to hang out with her and she even sent my other friend she was with over to my house to come and get me. but all my life my parents motto has been "dont let others run your life, do what you wanna do all the time" so i stuck with it, had my friend leave and did what i wanted to do. but sure enough she took it personal and has been spamming me sad txts that were making me feel bad. but at this point i cant bring myself to tell her i didnt reply simply cause i didnt want to be bothered, shes still spamming me and its been 3 days what should i do

Answer 1

I think that if you don't have romantic feelings for this girl you must tell her. It was wrong to lead her on in the first place she seems to really like you. The only thing you can do now is tell her face to face that you just want to be friends and ask her politely to stop sending you so many texts. Also its good to get out of the house sometimes its not good to constantly go out for a few days and then just staying in for the rest. Space it out and spend some time alone and also with friends. True friends will always be there for you when you need them :)

Answer 2

Well, quite obviously, the girl is a a psycho. No offense to your taste in girls. No sane girl would continuously text a guy that hasn't replied to her. It's a big sign of "Not interested." But it isn't completely her fault, it also is yours. In all seriousness, you led her on. You may be interested in her at first, but if you were really interested in her, you would have straight out told her you needed time to be you. So, it's a yes and no situation. No, because the girl seems way to overly sensitive and, excuse my language, but gives off the crazy ***** aura. But yes because, you simply stopped talking to her all in all, but then again, she should just get the hint. At least that's what I think.

Answer 3

You didn't break her heart, but you probly just hurt her feelings. She thought you were good friends and you had something going on, but then if u randomly decide to ditch her, then she wud think u just kicked her to the curb. I know, us girls are crazy right. You should just text her back and say that u are sorry and u just don't feel like talking to anyone for a bit. ask her to respect ur feelings (politely) and that u had a great time but now isnt a good time and u just need ur space.

Answer 4

The best thing you can do is be honest, explain how youre feeling and try not to feel bad about it. Even if it hurts her a little, its better in the long-term. Otherwise, shes going to continue to take it personally