Question:
How to find a girlfriend?
2007-07-28 18:20:47 UTC
How to find a girlfriend? There are many cases when I like a woman, but dont know what to do or say. Here are the examples: 1) A cute woman from work who I rarely see; 2) A woman from work with whom I share an office; 3) A woman I see on a street; 4) A woman sitting next to me on a bus; 5) A woman standing next to me in the line; 6) A sales/service industry woman (waiter, seller). Can you give me an answer in an algorithmic form if possible, since I am an IT geek. E.g.: 1) Smile at her; If she smiles you back - do 2), otherwise - skip her; 2) Say hi and ask her name... Thank you in advance.
Seven answers:
neverdugdisco
2007-07-28 18:27:35 UTC
I would say

1) look for a wedding ring! If she has one.. move on..

2)smile.. if she smiles back you talk to her.. if she doesn't move on.

3) Talk to her.. if she says shes in a hurry.. nice meeting you.. move on..

4) Tell her you would like to get to know her better and ask for her phone number... If she gives any excuse why she can't move on.

5) Call her and talk to her for awhile.. if she is interested she will stay on the phone for awhile..

6) if she has to go.. let her go.. is she is interested she will ask you to call back.

7) The second time you call her ask her out.. and well Im sure you can figure out the rest.
Hokie_Pokey
2007-07-29 01:35:35 UTC
First off, you probably want to avoid the women you work with. If they turn you down or you do end up dating but the relationship fizzles, that will just make the aftermath even more awkward.



Second, stop over analyzing it.



Make eye contact, smile, if she smiles back start a casual conversation...make it light...feel her out (not physically, of course).



If you think you're getting some signals, ask her to meet you for drinks at a local pub - not somewhere with loud music but somewhere that you can carry on a conversation (asking her out for drinks alleviates the pressures of picking the restaurant, wondering if she'll like the restaurant, and if dinner does not go well, the awkwardness of a silent 1 1/2 -2 hour dinner). If the answer is no, take it gracefully. If you go out for drinks, ask her for another date but this time dinner.



Good luck!
kashi
2007-07-29 01:25:20 UTC
1)next time you see her exchange #'s get together more often 2)ask her out someplace she would like b.c you see her often enough to know her likes/dislikes 3)smile at her (but she might be married) 4)compliment her on something shes wearing or her looks 5) talk about what you're buying in the line 6) tip the waiter & write yer number on the bill





haha last one is stupid, im just weird sometimes sorry,

hope i helped :)
Mandy
2007-07-29 01:25:37 UTC
Don't use any of these examples.



Be yourself and don't be concerned about getting a girlfriend. This is the best way to get one.



Take it from a lady (even a 14-year-old one!) girls love single guys who are focusing on their goals and don't seem the least bit interested.



DON'T act coldly, just act like yourself. You'll attract the perfect girl.
2007-07-29 01:25:52 UTC
If she smiles, smile back. If she looks at you, smile at her. If she smiles back, say hello my name is "insert name", if she gives you her name say, what sort of things do you like etc...just don't say anything that can even remotely be construed as sexual. Harassment charges usually follow closely.
Jamie K
2007-07-29 01:24:26 UTC
Are you kidding me........that question is the reason why you are single. Just flirt with them......if they are disgusted by it, then leave them alone.
2007-07-29 01:31:01 UTC
eharmony.com dude



IT WORKS!


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