My (less attractive) ex-GF added the girl I just started seeing, on Instagram. New girl is weirded out. Did that ruin my chance with her?

Question

my old girlfriend was chubby and average looks, and a little crazy. This new girl is a little chubby, but she is smoking hot, beautiful face, skin, hair, and is popular.

The new girl > the old girl, basically.

I've gone on ONE DATE with new girl (hung out Monday night, made out and watched movie at my house) and we had plans to hang on Wednesday night again (going to haunted forest & getting dinner).

So my old girlfriend (dumped her a couple weeks ago) I was texting, asked her advice for new girl, and I showed her a pic of new girl.

My ex ended up adding new girl on Instagram. Then new girl messaged me today. this is the ensuing convo.

Her- "Why'd you tell OLD EX about me....?"

Me- "huh?"

Her- "OLD EX just followed me on Instagram."

Her- ".....:"

Her- "how did she know my last name...?"

Me- "That'ssss weird haha. I have no f*cking clue"

Me- "She had my passwords for sh*t. All I've told her is that yeah I went on a date with a girl named NEW GIRL FIRST NAME"

Me- "But I'm in a sales appt. will text later"

Her- "K."

Me- Just unfollow her then"

Her- "Why'd you even tell her about me"

Me- "Because she asked, I don't lie to people, and I do what I want."

Her- "How the h*** does she know my last name?!"

Me- "She probably signed into my Tinder. She had my password for Facebook and it's the same one" (me and new girl met on tinder)

Her- "K"

Me- "Stop being a drama queen"

Her- "Have a good night."

Me- "Ok.. Good night"

Think our date tmrw is still on or no?

Answer 1

don't worry, after a break up no matter how long you've left it to get a new girl, the first couple of weeks are often the hardest to get accustomed to the new persons ways and personality. it may seem a bit blank at first but give her a chance, go for at least a month to see if things turn for the best and if not, well you can break it off, but most girls that you haven't got from a strip bar or somthing are genuinly very nice people and all just want some love (: hold on and give it a go, focus on what she's doing good and not what your ex used to do or what if she does something you don't like. people aren't going to do everything the way you want it. show her a bit of tlc and it'll make you and her feel better in each others precence. for a first date when it's a little awkward it's best to see a movie or watch something or do something that requires minimum speaking. that way theres no awkward silences. if you have to strike up a conversation, ask her lots of questions about herself (and that doesn't include ex's) even if you find it boring, she'll like the feeling that your interested and give you some attention in return. good luck x

Answer 2

Well, you should've had some more balls, and told your ex to ******* shut up and leave you alone. Your business isn't hers if you're not dating; yea, we get it, you don't lie to people, but you don't need to go flaunting your current life, and what kind of toilet paper you buy, to people...

And you sound like a dick when you text your "current girl", I don't know, your fate lies in her hands. If she's smart, she will get a man who respects her status...

Answer 3

( ur ex loved you???)btw why you dumped your EX girlfriend? she wasn't good enough for you? shes not popular enough? shes not attractive enough? and dats why you dumped her? do you love people by their appearance?

Answer 4

just do what you want to do