Girl Problems, wondering what i should do?

Question

Well im kind of in a right mess at the moment. My ex girlfriend who is the girl of my dreams, i went out with her for a year and we were perfect but then her ex started chatting her up and withen a month of him doing this she started letting me go until she dumped me 2 months ago, she got with this guy 1 month later and shes been with him for a month now. I started hanging round with her this week as well with her bf and her mates. I totally still love her! I cant believe what she means to me i want her to be my princess, shes my world and my life. I went into a state of depression when i split up with her, i couldn't believe how quickly it happened we seemed perfect. I don't know what to do now, i want to win her back, the boy shes got with is a bit ugly to be honest all the girls have said omg is she blind but he does treat her good, she flirts like made with me this week though and shes been talking to me allot more than before and allot nicer too. I saw her snogging her new bf today and i got in a mood with her and i didn't talk for an hour. What can i do to win the girls of dreams that i am totally in love with back into my arms, what shall i say and do. I cant see her if her boyfriend isn't there so bare that in mind. Just help please, i really cant live without this girl:(

Answer 1

i went through the same thing. After she dumped you for an ex you still want her back? No you dont, you just miss having somone there, believe me, i did everything i could to get my ex back... until i realised the truth, that by doing all that she is doing to you now she dosent really care about you, shes playing a game tahts what girls do. Notice how i said "girls" because she is cleary not mature at all... you need to realise that if somone treats you like crap knowingly (and believe me she knows) than they are heartless and worthless... you seem like a nice man, forget her, hang out with your friends and do your own thing and very quickly you will see that there are so many more people out there who are better than her.



I know how you feel, i was the exact same way... hating her for being with somone else but just WANTING more than anything to hold her again... but in the end you cant change that, no matter what you do, and if she did somehow come back to you how do you think that ex feels? he would feel the same way you do now, and wishing that on somone is selfish. Even if she wants you back again, you know shes gonna dump you for another guy the second she meets him. MOVE ON, forget her, there are many women in the world.

Answer 2

Richard, I'm going to give it to you Straight... the girl is stringing you along. I know this is not what you want to hear but it's the truth, and I'm sorry because you sound like a nice guy trying to meet a girl and get on with your life, with someone you apparently like a lot "and I'm only saying like because maybe she did or said somethings to you that you have never had B4" so you think your in LOVE. But she does not want you:( There is someone out there better suited for you but you can't see them because your hung up right now! Someone that wouldn't touchier you with this nonsense of lets hang out together so you can watch me with my BF. Rich are you kidding? If I were your friend "which I am right now" I would tell you to stay away from her and start hanging out with me and our other friends, to give you some much needed space! Then maybe you could find someone who would appreciate a guy like you. Good Luck :)

Answer 3

Bro... I feel your pain I really do. I just broke up with my girlfriend because her parents didn't want me seeing her anymore. For no reason at all. I love her so much and I want to be with her forever and she does too.

The thing is I don't think this girl really loves you if she just went back to this asshole guy. I can't live without her either bro but sometimes you just got to let her go...... It's the only thing you can do.... Be easy man. If you really love her then just let her go....

Answer 4

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Answer 5

You'd be great for her. Don't push her, though. Try and talk with her, be there for her when no one else is, and she'll want you back as much. Just think about what pain this other guy's gonna go through. You've got to try and be patient with her. Treat her the best, as I can see you do, and all sorts of stuff.

And good luck. =)



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Answer 6

Good God, man, stopp snivelling and get over yourself... no wonder she told you to jump off.



So you think he is kinda ugly... big deal... it's not what you think about him that matters, it's what she thinks... and as long as she likes him, you are out of luck my friend... anything you do at this point will come off making you look like a sore loser... cut the cord already, and forget about her...



If they break it off, then maybe you can or should cross pths with her as a friend and see what your chances are, otherwise and untill then, you need to get a life...

Answer 7

Think about it is it really worth it? i think so but think of the future. She would go back and forth. But hey if its love babes go for it. But "if you love her let her go and if she comes back its Ur's but if she doesn't it never was" that quote is so true on so many levels but don't pressure her. and side note Girls stop being so shallow! if the guy treats you nice keep him no matter how he looks. no wonder why people always cry! they so shallow

Answer 8

I think you need to take time away to heal yourself first. As you can see she is happy and moved on from you. You need to get back to what makes you happy again. Friends//family, movies, partying. Time heals and eventually she or someone that is truly meant for you will see what you can be as a boyfriend.

Goodluck!

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Answer 9

Tell her all of this and how you want to treat her and be with her...if that doesn't win her back...don't let her play with your heart anynmore by flirting with you and just move on honey.

Answer 10

What you can do is try to tell her how you fell or buy her something nice that she loves. i know I love when a guy buys me something like flowers. Good luck getting her back

Answer 11

tell her you want her to be your princess. i almost cried when i read that part, its sooo sweet. i'd dive into any guys arms if they said that to me and i felt that they mean it. just look into her eyes and mean it! it's worth a try... good luck!

Answer 12

Ask her if she will go back out with you.

Answer 13

Let her realize, and come to you.

Answer 14

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