Question:
is it bad to not be a slut ?
natasha
2015-12-05 10:51:02 UTC
I go on a lot of dates, I get asked out a couple of times a week by different guys. I usually go on two or three.

Usually I m not that into the person. I m French but I m living in New Zealand and I can t seem to relate to the people here. So I go on a date with them maybe two but then nothing further usually I move on.

I don t sleep with people because of this, because I know I m not going to stick around.

yhe guys I date are usually good looking and sleep around and thus I don t feel like being added to their list

i have a fear of feeling used/ unwanted.

I m looking for someone that I want to keep around someone that I really like and someone that really likes me for me. That s the person I want to sleep with.
Does that make me weird?
Because everyone seems to think that I ve completely lost it. All my friends are like what s wrong with you. ( I m 19)

I generally meet 2 types of guys, ones who try to be my friend and act nice but then just try to sleep with me and pretty guys who think a few drinks and some half hearted remarks will get me into bed with them and they re frustrated and confused when it doesn t.

I ve been labelled a prude. But it s not that I just want to sleep with someone that I like, that s a nice person and I m comfortable with and I just haven t met them yet. Is that such a crime. Why is not being a hoe such a crime? Am I being irrational?

What do you think of all this?
68 answers:
Mark
2015-12-06 12:40:45 UTC
It's not bad being a slut. But it's also not bad being a shut in. Given your age I'd say just let a few guys in here and there. It's how you get to know what you like. But, go at your own pace and only do whatever you're comfortable with. Not saying go all out, just saying be a little more loose. Don't want to end up a crazy cat lady. You're absolutely not a hoe tho. And, generally you should go with your gut impression. If the dude comes off as a prick then don't let him in. If he really expresses intrest in YOU I mean like really in you as a person not as a piece of, well there's no way to put this softly, ass, then maybe give him a try.



Sluts were made for the guys with no self-respect. Ladies were made for the men who respect themselves and you as a person.
Toodle
2015-12-06 12:50:05 UTC
Oh boy, as a woman you shouldn't even be using the word slut, yikes! Sexuality is completely unique to each and every person. You can be a woman and absolutely LOVE sex and have it be the thing YOU want on the first date and then it's your decision to pursue it further. If you feel that you are not ready to have sex like that or you're not that type of person, that's awesome too! If a man doesn't want you for who you are and not WHEN you want to have or not have sex than keep it movin, he's not right for you anyway! Don't compromise your values for anyone and don't let anyone tell you that how you want to live your life makes you a slut either! Be who you are and stand by it! No shaming in either direction!!
Spongebob
2015-12-06 22:11:12 UTC
If a guy asks you to sleep with him right away, what does that say about his character? You should find guys who are more patient with you and share common interests. If they seem compatible, give it a few dates and see where things take you. No one is forcing you to sleep with any of these guys and you shouldn't pressure yourself into doing it either. On the internet, you're going to get some very trollish advice (admittedly I do that sometimes), incredibly idiotic advice, or good advice. I'm pretty sure you can sort out who is trying to do what and then you an use the good advice as a guideline. I may not have personal experience but from what I've heard it isn't easy to force a connection and an ideal boyfriend/girlfriend is definitely not easy to find. Keep at it though, you're only 19 :)
revsuzanne
2015-12-07 22:42:02 UTC
You aren't a prude. You are selective and cautious. No point in picking up some horrible infection for a one-nighter! Anyone insulting you for not being a slut is just a user and abuser.

Find some type of social network to hang out with... perhaps something having to do with a hobby of some sort. You will meet more good people that way. Stay out of bars.
MrNiceGuy
2015-12-08 13:51:52 UTC
Of course not. In fact it's bad to be a slut. A slut tends to have one-night stands with many guys and they end up getting STDs. They are also more likely to be prostitutes, have a troubled past, unstable relationships and not succeeding well in life. I think you're lovely for wanting to hold out for the right guy instead of throwing yourself at the first guy who talks to you, it doesn't make you weird at all. In fact the latter is weird.



Are you sure you have the right kind of friends? Because you said you're 19, both guys and girls haven't fully matured yet as they are still teenagers. I think you might be hanging out with the wrong crowd. Unfortunately many guys (particularly young ones) will use girls and act all nice to them, get them into bed and then treat them like shit afterwards until they get dumped. Those people who think you're weird for not being a slut are the ones who frequently go to bars and clubs, it could just be too much alcohol or the people you're hanging out with are the wrong kind for you.



There's absolutely nothing wrong with the way you are, I admire girls of your kind who don't want to sleep with guys too soon. Don't change yourself for other people. Find some new friends who are more like-minded.
Nana Greene
2015-12-08 13:57:06 UTC
when I was a kid, still in my teens, the 70's, I was a street kid in south Fla. The keys, everglades, Miami, to Fort Lauderdale. Back then jobs weren't real hard to find. To keep going to school & work, a human has to be grounded & some kind of stable & once a year that lifestyle was gifted to me, @ least in the beginning. Once at the age of 17 I considered the trade of prostitution. Hookers, for the most part, if they have natural skills they made it work themselves into early retirement,educated, & still young. It only took me one time at the trade to know I had no skills. I got paid a half a bottle of jack danels. Going back to what is a form of being the slut I was, it was fine. For alot of reasons. I was already on the streets. Many different charactor trates, & reasons, & just life on this planet are in the mix of a slut. Sluts are more easy going then hookers. Who a person is & how they define themselves is personal along with the choices they will make in their life time. No human being has the right to judge any one else. Like I said, that was back in the 70;s. So you have a great day & a great life. You are the one your life was given to. If I had even once considered what people said or how they behaved because of choices I made or had no choices at the times my life would have been so much worse.
?
2015-12-05 14:01:43 UTC
I think you're a lovely lady who will not lower her standards for any guy she's not sure of.All I can say is good for you! Be proud and tell your friends to get a grip and take a page out of your book on the absolute correct way of dealing with guys. You are very wise my dear and never lose that quality. No, you're not weird and it's not bad you're not a slut. You'll meet better guys by showing them you have self respect. Hope this helps and again BRAVO!๐Ÿ‘
?
2016-11-13 10:49:00 UTC
Be A Slut
Moretime
2015-12-05 16:58:47 UTC
In society we feel and believe that labels are what defines us, no matter who it hurts, even if it's not exactly accurate, and only based on hearsay. Someone that enjoys having sex with whoever is their choice and shouldn't be labelled as it's their right, just as it's the right of people such as yourself to wait until you meet someone that's of a kindred spirit before you take that next step. Friends can be just as cruel as an enemy for believing you should have the same morals and standards they have because you won't jump into bed with just anyone or have one too many dates as they see it, pure jealousy really. Whether you find that kindred spirit or not it should be your decision and your decision alone. What is weird is that a true friend is someone that respect you for whatever decision you make (good or bad as it's your life not theirs) because they love you for who you are, and recognise that without you they would make far more mistakes than they actually do. Women will always be labelled sluts (when a guy is considered a stud) if they enjoy having sex, and men will label you a prude. I know if I'm going to be labelled what I would sooner be called if I was a woman. So, in answer to your question, is it bad not to be a slut, a definite big NO.
?
2015-12-07 10:12:16 UTC
Its not bad being a slut.



Its bad to show yourself as a slut.



My wife is an angel. Just the sweetest, nicest person anyone can ever meet. But they dont know her like I do. Probably one of the reasons I have latched on to her for over 30 years
edie
2015-12-06 14:28:56 UTC
from what you are saying you are definitely not a slut. next thing you don't be concerned with what other people say about you, because if you act like they want you to act then you will b e a slut. there is nothing wrong with you not wanting to sleep with every guy that you date or come around you. its good that you are waiting to find someone that will be there for you regardless of what is going on and don't just want to sleep with you to be sleeping with you. a lot of girls couldn't and wouldn't do that. plus some of them wish that they had waited, but they would admit it to you. just stick it out and you will find someone to like you for being you. another thing too there is nothing wrong with keeping your reputation clean and in tact, because when you don't you lose respect and people friends or not will still talk about you and think you are weird. so either way many may make fun and talk about you. remember there is someone for everyone and you will find your someone, don't be fooled by any body just hold your ground and you will be ok. I wish you well
STEPHEN J
2015-12-11 08:23:48 UTC
Hi Natasha ! Enjoy being you. You are your own person. There is not much I do to impress others or try to be like them. I don't care what my friends think about my sex life because it is none of their business. I would be afraid to sleep around for STDs alone never mind AIDS. Some men are sluts too. I would be up front with men about wanting to get to know them mentally, emotionally and spiritually before I would even consider sex. Once sex is in the mix--at least for many of us men-- everything else becomes secondary. I want to enjoy a person's company, feel relaxed around them, get to know them in many different settings, see how they treat others. Many can fake it for a while, sometimes with good intentions, but the real person soon comes out in a few months if not a few weeks. I would be kind to everyone but set good boundaries. It is okay to say no and you have no obligation to your friends about being like them. Each of us is unique. There is no one right way to act or react or live. 2saferoad1.
thegreatone
2015-12-07 14:16:27 UTC
It's bad to be a slut.
2015-12-05 11:01:14 UTC
My type of gal.



People do not have to follow the crowd.



People can make up their own minds for themselves.



Making right choices that are not popular--shows the character of someone.



Too many people nowadays--of a certain age group but not exclusive to the older groups--just go quickly into relationships head long--and have lots of time in their agendas to weep and complain about the other person.



A relationship is not a marriage.



A relationship is not for eternity.



Asking yourself how many hook ups is necessary before deciding that intimacy is special and is the quickest way to end some relationships though not all--



You are wise and stick to your scruples and be proud.



Hope millions of young people read this and get a clue--is all I can say.



Very rare indeed.



You are being wise and smart and loving yourself not for how people view you--but in a genuine way.
?
2015-12-07 23:46:39 UTC
Slut is a made up word designed to either make women feel bad for enjoying sex. As for your question there are enough answers here already.
amy
2015-12-07 08:33:55 UTC
No not at all. It means they will work for u and have more respect for u. your being reasonable. more women should be like that. people think your outta your mind cause sadly its normal to sleep around these days, and u are a rarity. next time they say something say at least i dont open my legs for the entire community. but i dont appreciate u calling me a slut. its very rude to say that especially since most of the women and men on here have had sex before and are nice enough to help u out on her. and having sex doesnt make u a slut, sluts are girls who expose their pussies to 20 different men a month. i can count my sleeping partners on one hand and thats outta 12 years of dating . and fact is the guy u eventually meet is gonna end up having past sleeping partners. the only thing that needs to change is your attitude towards other women. cause men dont like girls with trashy attitudes
?
2015-12-07 13:31:35 UTC
No is good to not be a slut. Is bad not be a bad girl ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…
Chanel
2015-12-05 23:27:32 UTC
You are doing the right thing by being cautious as you do not want a sexually transmitted disease.



It is a pity that you can't find a guy you can just be friends with. Because then you could both be tested and then do the deed.



Unfortunately a lot of guys need to be completely satisfied sexually and it is all they can think about until they have done it.



My boyfriend is good as gold after sex. I don't get any peace until I do the deed with him but he is so kind.
2015-12-09 08:30:50 UTC
Your not a slut and your still young and it's good that you are looking for the right person.. and respecting your self and not sleeping around is a good thing always thinkl about your self happiness soon you will find what is meant to be for you.. like i said you are still young enjoy your self and live life to it's fullest:)
Emma
2015-12-05 10:56:13 UTC
Well, if you get asked out that often, you are most likely very pretty. And guys(obviously) like to sleep with pretty girls. I think that it is awesome that you are keeping yourself from becoming a person that just sleeps around, because that makes it so much more special for the person you actually end up with.



So, just live life, I guess. Go on a few dates with guys that you think may have potential; eventually, you'll stumble across a guy that you know is right for you. Usually, when you find your soulmate, you just kinda have this feeling he is the one for you.. So trust your instincts, and don't do anything you'll regret. :)
libertyone
2015-12-08 20:19:42 UTC
Its a great thing not to be a slut I mean who wants to wear that name tag everyday. Those are big shoes to fill everyday you have to be able to handle that lifestyle. Its more to life than just wanting to sleep around with tom, dick ,and harry because they may all have STDs anyway and who wants that? I would pee my pants if someone just made a joke calling me a slut that's a horrible name period.
Fireplace
2015-12-06 09:16:21 UTC
Why are you calling any woman who likes to have sex a "slut" or a "hoe" - by the way, a "hoe" is a garden implement. Why don't you call the men you meet who like to have sex sluts and "hoes"? I would forget about your dating issues and ask yourself why you have such a contemptuous view of women who are no less sexual beings than men are.



You're not better than anybody else simply because you choose not to have sex and you have no place looking down on anyone who makes choices different from your own.
?
2015-12-07 23:08:55 UTC
No its not bad y wud u wanna ruin ur reputation like that anyway im jus bein honest. I'm 20 years old never hav been a slut never wil n i don wanna try it either. I mean com on now lik no dude wil respect u if u do wana b a hoe. They 4ever cal u a slut, hoe & bitch im jus sayin . But dats ur own personal choice. Me id rather b a chilled southern laid bac Carolina gir wit the attitude of dont fwm & the mind of a strong person wit respect 4 myself. Honey dats on u but im tellin u that wil not luk good 4u n guys wil dog u out 4real
?
2015-12-05 13:33:07 UTC
No.It means you have pride,you have standards and you care more about yourself that some girls. If a guy isnt right for you its okay not to see them again.It does take time to get to know someone so use the time wisely to determine the compatabilitity between you and them but also use the time to see if there are any warning signs. There are too many diseases out there so you're better off being clean than being treated for something.
rockintheusa8567
2015-12-05 19:36:30 UTC
It depends. Some guys prefer women who have little or no sexual activity experience; others prefer women who have more sexual experience.

if a guy merely bases his opinion of you based on how many people you have slept with or if he thinks that you're a "slut" or a virgin and bases his opinion of you mainly due to that, he's immature and not worth dating.

Relationships are not just about sex. Remember that sex doesn't always mean that the guy loves you--some guys are selfish and like to use women for sex only and not really care about them.
?
2015-12-06 23:33:05 UTC
Well this may not answer your question but you need new friends. Friends should accept and not judge or hate who you are. And no it's fine. Maybe you're trying too hard to find the one. So maybe stop dating? And make your life stable so you won't always think that your relationship won't last cause you won't stick at around for long. And maybe talk to guys that sent attracted to you and maybe then they won't have the desire to get in your pants
2015-12-05 11:35:32 UTC
You're not being irrational, you just value different things than your friends do. Maybe try going to different places than you normally do to meet guys, different coffee shops, new hang out places- not clubs, and tell them on the first or second date that while you aren't looking for an extremely serious relationship, you aren't looking for a one night stand either. This will thin out the crowd to guys who have an interest in the same things you do.
2015-12-07 12:55:45 UTC
It is bad to be a slut. You've done nothing wrong.
Tiffany
2015-12-05 15:00:50 UTC
I value the same things as you do when it comes to dating. And there's nothing wrong with standing up for what you believe is right for you. In fact, society today have become such a free-for-all world that what we conventionally value doesn't apply anymore. It's your choice to either keep to what you believe to be true or use the flexibility in our culture to jump boundaries; or maybe you can use both to your own benefit. Either way, be confident in what you've chosen to stand by. Every time you question yourself why you've chosen what you have, reinforce your purpose. Because sticking to what you believe in can be one of the most powerful thing.
papasteve
2015-12-07 21:06:06 UTC
I see two issues in your questions. First is your belief of a slut. You and others seem to throw that word around maybe to get a reaction. But if you think, two adults who start dating and after a while a few weeks or months depending on the couple, decide to have sex, make them a slut, you need to join a religious sec, where you can only dat someone with a chaperone, and after a few months get married, then you can have sex. I play poker and every once in a while I meet someone who shows how they think and feel without saying a word. Although I might think about my date naked, it usually takes more then a date or two for me to know if I am or am not willing to wait, a few months to have sex with her. I have like most people dated someone after 3-10 dates, and decided if I like her enough to wait until she is ready to have sex. I have dated a woman a few times 6mos to a year before having sex. So I can wait. But sometimes I do not want to wait. And that is not a bad thing. I need to find someone I am willing to wait for, and she need to go find someone willing to wait for her. The 2nd issue, is I think you show the guys you date, you are not interested in them, or are judging them, so that's a big turn off. Why would anyone of them want to try to go on more dates with you when you think they are sluts, and not worthy of you. I am sure by your questions that how you feel, people know just by your attitude around them. So when they feel your not interested in them, why would they make anymore effort to spend with you. And it does not sound like you really are trying to get to know them after you decided they were a slut and not worth your time. Just my opinion, but most people I know do not sleep around like you say. Although I do not hang around porn stars, and prostitutes. Where are you meeting these men , where all the men you date are slutty easy sexual perverts. Either these men are not sluts, and you are making them feel your not into them, which it appears your not. Or you are finding men to date at a whore house. There are some guys and girls who sleep around, but most are like you say you are, just looking for a good person to love and respect and who does the same for them. Only you know which one you are. Either you make these men aware you are not interested in them so they decide not to waste much time with you, or your choice in men are only the slutty one. It does not seem logical every man you date is a slut. Or you are just attracted to only slutty guys.
2015-12-07 16:59:40 UTC
Your are not a prude. It's nice to see someone on here that doesn't want to jump into the sack after a couple of dates just to satisfy some young males ego. If that is all they want you for then you don't need them.
2015-12-09 10:36:12 UTC
Not if your hooking up with everyone(making them wearing condoms of course), but if you have standards it's pretty bad because most slits end up hooking up with the same guy which leaves the rest of us guys feeling singled out. After a while were all like really!? They all go for Johhny, Bob, and Goerge!? All the time and ignore us? We need lovin too. So it leads to getting mad and thinking those women are stupid because Johnny is a user for sexual intercourse, Bob is a womanizer who verbally messes women up to not trust men, and George is a narcissist with a big ego trip who cares about more of himself than he does them even though he pretends to to get them in bed with him. (Example names) So these women end up losing their faith saying all men are the same getting the wrong idea while going out with scum that will eventually make their hearts grow cold. They ignore us as in brothers or friends lists and always repeat they can't find a good guy. Look in your brother and friends
Dr. Stephanie
2015-12-07 08:15:28 UTC
Your values ,hopes and desires are just fine, believe me ! I wish more young people felt as you do, since they are missing out on enriched, meaningful relationships, vs. "sleeping around". In addition, you have significantly reduced the risk of an unwanted pregnancy or contracting a potentially permanent or even fatal sexually transmitted disease. Hang out with people who are like you, if possible, they re out there ! What you choose to do about your sex life is no one s business but your own, so you can really keep it as private and uncontested as you wish.

There are many arguments in favor of being sexually promiscuous, but each person needs to decide for themself what works best for them. Good luck and good wishes !
ฮ’ฮฑฯƒฮฏฮปฮตฮนฮฟฯ‚
2015-12-08 09:29:46 UTC
I think you are right. You are an independent person who thinks of her own. Just because others do it, doesnt mean its good.



Honestly i am not attracted to girls with rules like "i do it on X date". It makes me think that i achieve nothing by being with here. If all i have to do to have sex with a girl, is have her interest for 5-10 dates... They she is too easy for me.



I want it to be natural. And not something casual for everybody. Remember, something is valuable when few people has it. If it is public good...well.
Emily
2015-12-05 12:12:16 UTC
Well first of all it is probably time to find some new friends that will respect you for your choices. And second of all that is totally normal and probably a great way of handling things, but also something you might want to consider is taking a break from dating and really focusing on yourself first. :)
Night Mare
2015-12-21 00:36:41 UTC
no, infact witholding will most likely help you find a good parner. Not being a "slut" will make alot of guys uninterested, if they have to work for it, they dont want it, although there are the select few who will.
XxX
2015-12-06 10:33:53 UTC
Does the word slut sound good to you ? Seriously ?
Mack
2015-12-07 02:00:09 UTC
Yes, it is bed to be a slut.
?
2015-12-08 13:10:59 UTC
Why do you even date these men if you know they just like to sleep around and you don't want to be added to their list? What you are is a cock tease and YES THAT IS BAD!
S.A
2015-12-07 09:07:59 UTC
Because they took you out on a dates doesn't mean you Owe them sex. If you don't want to have sex, that's your prerogative. You sleep with a person you wish to. You don't need to bang each time you go out on a date with someone
2015-12-06 12:49:29 UTC
You are absolutely right. I hate the girls who sleep around, they are sluts and guys use them for only sex.

Personally, I respect girls like you and never respect hoes, may want non-virgin girls to use for sex, before I find someone that is modest..
2015-12-07 12:16:07 UTC
I bet some of those guys are looking for relationships. You're the type of girl I hate
?
2015-12-07 03:40:24 UTC
It's rare
Emmy
2015-12-07 13:40:19 UTC
Nope
Mikeila P
2015-12-11 04:44:56 UTC
Of course it's not bad.
Rose
2015-12-06 13:35:25 UTC
you would feel really horrible about yourself if you slept with someone you didnt want to....so why question it...i dont think its okay to have sex with every person you meet...thats disgusting....whats the point of it....i bet someone said something to you and now you are questioning your own morals....no, dont have sex...if you are meeting constantly the same guys - why would u consider giving a guy what he wants for a short period of time...maybe you need to start hanging in a different crowd if you are meeting the same dudes all the time..................
Derek
2015-12-06 08:43:57 UTC
its good not to be a slut

answer mine
Dj radical boss Son remix
2015-12-05 10:52:50 UTC
It's a good attitude, really. You'll screen out the guys who are only interested in a one night hook-up. They can find that elsewhere.
?
2015-12-14 10:28:27 UTC
Meet a french guy and that's good for you.
?
2015-12-07 00:27:25 UTC
they labelled you as a prude just because they didn't success sleeping with you and they think their pride is broken. when you hurt their pride, it's like you offended them. They are vexed and they just try to do same to you and it seems like they succeed.
Aris
2015-12-05 15:37:56 UTC
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YOU AARE WAY TOO WISE. there aint nothing wrong with waiting for the right person. why should you sleep around and lose who you are just to please others. your only 19 right now but later in life you will learn that all that matters is doing what you like and what makes you feel good. LIVE TO PLEASE YOURSELF. You are too sweet enjoy you life my dear :P
2015-12-06 19:49:02 UTC
You have no business dating someone your not physically attracted to. So smarten up and have some consideration for others.
Savannah
2015-12-08 18:37:40 UTC
As long as it's safe and consintual its up to you what you do with your body!
cheese
2015-12-05 10:53:25 UTC
No. your friends are being ridiculous. Its completely normal to not want to sleep with every guy
spankinbluei
2015-12-09 16:15:18 UTC
you are a good girl,continue to keep your standards high and don'y listen to your friends
2015-12-07 07:51:32 UTC
If you don't want to have sex with them you don't have to. Their opinion is their opinion. You know who you are.
Sean
2015-12-06 11:08:35 UTC
LORD OF SREADABLES.YOU HAVE TO OPEN UP EVERY SO OFTEN....GIVE THE HUSSIES SOMETHING TO TALK ABOUT.....AND ATTRACT MEN LIKE FLIES' ROUND A PIECE OF DOG ๐Ÿถ POOP.
Zach
2015-12-06 22:53:19 UTC
Yes veery wrong. Answer mine
Satan Claws
2015-12-07 02:52:44 UTC
yhe guys I date are usually good looking and sleep around



They do it because they can get away with it. Or do you think you're the only woman who selects men based on their looks? (Everyone does that by the way. I've never met a woman who spoke to me saying "I saw the way you think.")



So basically you landed on a culture of high turn-over rates because people (men in particular) have adopted that strategy because they're not into wasting time with people who aren't attracted to them. That's not good or bad; it's just a choice. There are people who spend YEARS trying to work it out with someone who's CLEARLY not into them... stick around on a forum like this and you'll find plenty of examples.





someone that I really like



And how are you going to find out if you like a person in only a couple of dates? I don't believe that "I see right away whether I'll like someone", I think that's bullsh** because it takes TIME and SKILL to build rapport with someone (most people are boring, including women). However, there ARE many people who don't know how to build up that rapport quickly and that's why you go on so many dates -- the men don't know how to relate because their "reproductive strategy" is elsewhere.

Before you think about it as "Ah! They just want sex", you too have a reproductive strategy: it's just that yours values building rapport early on, that's all.



Does that make me weird?



No. Why should it be weird to want what you want. Don't be ashamed of your desires.





they re frustrated and confused when it doesn t.



No, just disappointed that they wasted their time. But they move on soon enough.





( I m 19)



You're almost a CHILD! I thought you were older.





I ve been labelled a prude.



By people who aren't from the same culture as you, certainly.





I just haven t met them yet.



You thought it would happen overnight?!

That's why people DATE in the first place! To find out someone compatible. Guys go, "I want sex from a girl that I like", you go "I want a guy that I like that I can give sex to". Two different reproductive strategies.



Is that such a crime.



Crime is a violation of a law. There are no laws in attraction.





Am I being irrational?



No. Actually, your fault (not crime) is that you are being too rational.



It's just sex. Even animals do it.





What do you think of all this?



I think that by the time you're 35 you'll regret turning down the guys you've turned down.



But otherwise, you're no different from many other girls out there. You're just very young and not used to it, that's all.
2015-12-05 18:21:32 UTC
Yes, you have what is called a vagina, so you live to serve those with a penis
Bow To Emperor Hussein Obama
2015-12-08 20:46:51 UTC
Message me.
2015-12-07 12:52:24 UTC
Obviously not lol
Alan H
2015-12-05 12:29:49 UTC
Be true to yourself
Ah Beng
2015-12-09 13:38:27 UTC
true enough be yourself and have to be comfortable with who you go out with thats all ....there is no full prove answer to this and so be yourself ..................
?
2015-12-07 22:10:23 UTC
you are right
Kai
2015-12-06 00:37:07 UTC
Sluts are gross
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2015-12-08 10:15:09 UTC
No . It is not .
2016-08-11 10:32:32 UTC
Is it bad to not be a slut ? Antichrist's Third Temple will have 8 chambers: a chamber per main religion; antichrist will be crowned in this temple; during crowning, he won't read the "belief prayer" correctly (rejecting Christ and acknowledging himself); when he will take his gloves off to make sign of the cross incorrectly (just for show), many people will see his big nails and will reject him; Patriarch (who will be crowning him) will say that this is the antichrist; antichrist will kill him. Also, antichrist will kill those priests who disagree with him at the 8th "wolf" Council; others will worship him when a bird dies at his feet. Roman Catholics, Satanists, and Buddhists use the same mudras; if you see these mudras on an icon, then it's not Orthodox icon; Orthodox icon has IC XC symbol (Jesus Christ). Roman Catholics pay drunks and prostitutes to pose for icons; passions of drunks and prostitutes transfer to those who pray to these images. Normal Orthodox icons are inspired by the Holy Spirit. Gaad in Ruski = Satan; hence, Americans = blasphemers because they always say: "Oh, my god!". Santa (word for Saint in Satanic languages) = Satan; hence, Spanish + Italian + Portuguese = blasphemers. Anathema to Satanic languages; triple anathema. Learn Church Slavonic; no curses in it; curses = prayer to Satan. All religions except Orthodoxy worship Satan. On bread for communion: IC XC NIKA (Jesus Christ Conquers) plus cross = Orthodox; hexagram plus Dusha Maya = antichrist. Jews and Muslims pray head down (either standing, bowing, or kneeling); this is Satanic prayer. Orthodox look into the eyes of icon; energy goes their way; they get healed; head and shoulders come together to reject Satan slowly and then fast to normal showing allegiance to Christ and not the devil. Hands cannot be on groin or behind back; either put them crossing each other on chest (right over left) or just by your sides. Legs together so that a demon doesn't run underneath your legs. Clergy who will not "put Buddhist icons and serve antichrist's blood" will be killed; only 7 churches will be left as Pelageya of Ryazan predicted. In 2006 and at other meetings, fake patriarchs and bishops signed a bunch of documents betraying Orthodoxy by saying that all religions worship the same Supreme Being; triple anathema; don't let heretics tell you what to do. America will be last country to switch to Euro. Three big earthquakes will shake the three superpowers; 1st big earthquake in Russia; 2nd (bigger one) in China; 3rd (biggest of the three) will be in America. NATO will nuke Ukraine to blame Russia for it; then NATO will nuke Russia from Scandinavia. China will attack Russia; but will not get past Ural Mountains; bio-genetic weapon will be used against Chinese soldiers (they will run back to China and hide in closets in fear) and weather weapon will freeze Siberia to - 200 Celcius; stadium-size chunks of unmeltable ice will fall from the lower sky (because when rockets go into higher sky they bring this ice down to lower sky). Russia will destroy Turkey and America. China will have a hole across the whole country to the abyss (because of another super weapon used to stop Chinese aggression); radiation from this hole will be massive; Chinese will try to keep quiet about it; a lot of people will fall into this hole.

Scientists don't see dinosaurs because of radiation. Only Eurasia and Alaska (both without coasts) will remain after demons blow up Antarctica (which surrounds the flat earth) and Greenland melts. Move to Ural Mountains or inland Alaska. Sionists wanted war between Russia and Germany from June 11th to October 11th on their holidays because (666 times 3)+(6 times 3) = 2016 (in their twisted logic).

Tube people = demons. Clones = demons. Human costumes that demons wear = demons. Dinosaurs and 666ed people have triple stranded DNA; normal person can't swallow 666ed food (designed for 666ed people). Demons live inside clones. Bacteriologist Alexandre Yersin (who discovered Bubonic plague) is depicted on the Shroud of Turin. There is another shroud (Shroud of Milan) on which blasphemer Yosef (who was crucified on a pole in 1066 AD) is depicted. Menachem Mendel Schneerson, Lenin (el=deity in Hebrew, nine = no in German; so, when chanted repeatedly is blasphemy against the Creator), and Yosef were possessed by Azazel; now, Rico Cortes is possessed by Azazel.

WW3 happens; 7% of people will be left; after people are tired of war, they will elect the antichrist as one world leader; don't vote. ISIS stands for Israeli Secret Intelligence Service. Next false flag: Statue of Liberty in order to attack Iran; one big shake, one giant step forward, one giant collapse. Move away from coasts as nukes will go off in the ocean (at where tectonic plates meet; result: megatsunamis 1km high).

Wear natural clothing so that if a bomb goes off it won't stick to the body as fast as synthetic clothes. All metal will be burned for fuel; so, save knives, crowbars, shovels, wood-burning stoves, etc. Also, save cloth/fabric/textile to cover the wounds and diseases.

Eat natural food because nanochips, cells of aborted fetuses, bug DNA, and other poisons are in food that is commonly sold; reject vaccines, medical care, medicine, etc. because nanochips are administered thru IVs, implants, fillings, etc. If 1000-1500 nanochips are in your right hand, then you can't make proper Orthodox sign of the cross with the right hand; last mercy for you then will be to cut the hand off.

Seraphim of Sarov and Sergiy of Radonezh will be resurrected after WW3 for a short time; Seraphim of Sarov will show the new Ruski Tsar who will fight the antichrist for about 2 years and 8 months. Those who go see Seraphim of Sarov will be healed of their infirmities/illnesses/sicknesses/ diseases; if you want to see him then, hurry because he won't stay longer than a few weeks.

Earth is flat; stands on 3 pillars (the Most Holy Trinity); pillars stand on water at zero Kelvin. Zodiac is planetary prison of demons; don't believe in horoscopes or you'll exhibit the traits of the trapped demons. Most thoughts and dreams are from demons; demons never do good. Sleep fully clothed; pray the Jesus prayer. Pray to your guardian angel to have normal sleep.

Humans were created about 7525 years ago. Ruski Orthodox Christian Vyacheslav Krasheninnikov was the last prophet before Enoch and Elijah return to preach against the antichrist.

Birds participate in time creation. It's a sin to kill birds. Dinosaurs live under our level. They will get out through sinkholes and lakes. To kill them, go for their nerves. Save the birds; but kill the dinosaurs. First dinosaur will come out of Volga River in Russia.

Demons grow human skin (from a sample taken during abduction) and put it on so as to look like us. Demons will invite people to be healed inside their UFOs; those who go will be like zombies after. Gov't provides demons with diamonds and allows demons to abduct people. If you're being abducted, slowly pray the Jesus prayer.



Don't panic. Demons use diamonds and souls to power their UFO craft. The bigger the diamond, the more it lasts. Demons have 4 UFO bases: 1)Moon 2)Inside fake mountain Kailash in Tibet 3)In lake Baikal in Russia 4)In Atlantis which is underneath the Mariana Trench in Pacific Ocean. There are no aliens. Nobody lives on other planets.

Airplanes that go down are hit by demons because they need the airspace to fight Jesus. Antichrist is pale with red eyes. He's possessed by Satan since he's 12 years old. He flies very fast; deceived people will say that "Christ is here; Christ is there". Sometimes, he wears blue robe over left shoulder while red robe is underneath. He wears gloves to hide long nails. He's surrounded by demons who appear as angels of light. Antichrist will trick people to believe that he can do mountain moving and resurrection (using holograms); fire from the sky is easy (considering the gases from pollution in the atmosphere).

Don't go into a UFO to be healed by demons. Green 666 is given by isotope rays on wrist or forehead when people stretch hands to receive small plastic grey card with no name on it (World Passport). Police will microchip and isotope ray people on the highways. Microchipped people will be influenced by computers to take grey plastic card; but when they do, 666 is given. Food stores will isotope ray people too. Antichrist will also release prisoners to mark people. Reject 666 at all cost because it leads to permanent hell.

If you're about to be marked, pray the Jesus prayer. Hide with Orthodox Christians to escape 666; leave all electronics behind so that antichrist's minions can't track you. Give to charity in the name of Archangel Michael; he rescues people from temporary hell twice a year (or brings them up a level, that is, to a level with less punishment; eventually, people are freed). Feed the pigeons; when pigeons bow down, people are saved from temporary hell. Forgive me.



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