fiance went away 4th of july weekend with a friend and left me by myself?

Question

my fiance went to go with his friend to another state for a weekend...to his friends sisters to party he screwed me over yesterday and today and just went with his friend...its 4th of July weekend and we had plans and now i'm sitting here all alone this weekend by myself doing nothing..my only friend is away with one of her friends...for some reason i just cant stop crying i feel horrible..now my mom and my sister said why would you let him go that was very stupid..i begged him to stay with me but he said he wanted to go with his friend i dont know what to think im so upset right now..why would the guy im marrying do this to me knowing how upset i was about it knowing ive been crying all day because of it..can you guys share your opinions on what you think of this please

Answer 1

aww. im srry. poor thang :(

he's probbly just really upset. he'll get over it. a rough patch in the relationship. but he really must love you or he wouldnt have asked u to marry him. when he gets back, just give him his space for a day or so. he'll get better. good luck :) big hugsss

Answer 2

"why would the guy im marrying do this to me knowing how upset i was about it knowing ive been crying all day because of it"



Ummm, maybe its because you shouldnt be crying about it. You are not the only person that exists in your fiancees life. Its not like its your birthday or christmas or something. Its a day basically to party. Why didnt you go with your friend and her friend? Stop feeling sorry for yourself, get up, and get out there. Dont try to keep him from doing things with his friends every now and then. Youll just push him away. Use it as a chance to have a girls night out, or time to yourself shopping, a trip to the salon, whatever.

Answer 3

Dont take this the wrong way.. but like maybe make more friends, and don't so be dependent on him. You might find yourself feeling more confident and having more fun then.

Its okay if he wants to have a life. To be honest, if you like do that (get angry at him for what he wants), you're going to look like really pathetic and selfish in his eyes. I know you're sad, and you think it was wrong of him.. but hes just going to be annoyed with you.

If you want someone who cares more, find someone who cares more. Don't try and change him though. You love him for him... I personally like being a guys world so I would not marry him. I would find someone who would melt at the idea of me being sad, and prefer to be with me. But if you force him to stay with you on the 4th and its not what he wanted to do, would you be happy knowing he would rather be doing something else but you forced him to go with you? Smile, Enjoy Life, and maybe move on.

Answer 4

This is the symptom of a larger problem. Think of the message this fellow is sending you. It's time to cut him loose and move on. Why would you want a man who cares so little for your feelings?

Answer 5

What a douche! Get a car, drive over, crash the party for shits and giggles. It'll bring you out of this ditch cause its funny as all hell.

Answer 6

What a douche! I'm sooo sorry! I would be so sad and like I said, I'm really really sorry! He should do what makes you happy. I dont know what is wrong with him! <3

Answer 7

Sounds like somebody's going to A FAIR. Get it? A fair? Affair? Ha! Oh, crap...

Answer 8

wow this guy sounds like an ***. when he gets back you leave for a while and see how he takes it

Answer 9

how about I come over and we make alittle fire works of our own go off

Answer 10

Get a new one, girls are good at that