PLEASE HELP!!! Why does she ignore me when I tell her I'm not doing well?

Question

I have a huge crush on this girl. Well, maybe crush isn't the right word because I love her. (and I know what it means to love someone, I'm a college graduate) When I've been in a severe crisis she was always there for me, and told me to promise her that I'd call her if things got really bad. She said she didn't care if it was late at night and I woke her up, she said she always wanted to be there for me. She also said it made her sad to know I've been struggling.

What I can't figure out is while she's been so willing to help me when things are really bad she ignores me when I have something minor going on. Once I texted her that I was having a bad day and she ignored that, and this morning I told her I was feeling pretty bad but she didn't acknowledge that either. Given how helpful and supportive she's been before I would have thought she at least would have said hope you feel better or something, I dunno.

So what should I make of all this? Because it's really confusing to me. Why would she ignore me when I tell her I had a bad day but then be so willing to go the extra mile and then some when things get really bad? Is it safe to assume that she doesn't like me back?

Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

I understand your problem mate and can I just tell you that when I read your description of her in the first paragraph, I was like he is so lukcy to have found a girl like that!



Dude, I totally get it - you want to share more of yourself with her but check this out, it's not easy to b there for someone. You have to take time from what you're doing to go out on a limb for someone else. When you really need her, she does that for you. When she sees that you're brave enough to get through it, she doesn't respond as much.



Appreciate what you have, mate! Also, don't tell her only about your problems. Tell her about what's good in your life. She ought to be on the top of that list, tell her that and share more of the positive aspects of your life with her.



When she's seen all the sides to you, she's more likely to become interested in you and that's when you should ask her if she'd be interested in a relationship.



I hope it works out for you man. You're lucky! :)

Answer 2

Maybee she don't mind helping you now and again but when you have trouble all the time maybe it's just to much for her the cope with

Can you help me with my question x x x

Answer 3

c i too hv a frnd who likes or say he luvs me !!

i also like to care fr him!!

bt fr talkin' to me he daily usd to *** wid a new prblm of his!

hope its nt the same wid u!!

n if it so stp doin' it really irritates!!

n if u r nt doin' it!

so ask hr that she wants to talk to u or nt??

n if yes then strt intrestin' convos

n if no then she is nt the 1 fr u!!







try it!!