(Girls) what do you look for in a guy?

Question

For example their body,smile,clothes,personality,etc...
I'm just curious as to what is your main interest in a guy and why.

Answer 1

1. A good sense of humour

This is so attractive in anyone

2. Kindness and compassion

That understanding and genuine care for others is just- ugh-

3. Confidence!

I'm not saying being big headed or self obsessed, these are definitely not the same as being confident. A bit of confidence in a guy is just generally a good feeling for both parties

4. Intelligence

MAJOR. TURN. ON

5. Being down with non-sexual affection

This is really important to some girls, others not so much but I really love this in a partner

Answer 2

My advice: You're not going to get laid anytime or sooner. Granted you're not a good looking fellow (as you have admitted) but even if you land a beautiful woman in your arms.... chances are.. she's going to cheat or run away from you for a guy who is much better looking than you are. But I am only pointing this scenario as in 'WHAT IF'. People are different, Tim. Let's not learn to judge them and learn to focus on ourselves. When you like someone, that's really all that matters in the end. You have your preferences. If you choose not to date ugly women, then by all means, don't. It's your freedom. Just remember, leave the judgment outside the door because if you don't, you become a person who is capable of hurting others. I'm a good looking guy who has dated average to ugly women. I dated them for their personalities. But now that I look back on it, it was based on my individual preferences. I'm older and much wiser now so I have somewhat limit my choices to beautiful women these days. I've never felt better in my life and the attention is incredible! But that's how I am today but that doesn't mean I'll reject every ugly to average looking girl out there. Just the fact that I'll respect them. So show a little more respect and things will follow.

Answer 3

Physically, I'm attracted to a guy's smile, eyes, chest, and arms. A great smile is important, warm eyes, abs, and strong arms, I don't know- that's just me, but over the years I've had crushes on a variety of guys, so I don't exactly have a "type". There just has to be something that draws me to him, personality wise. A great personality outshines everything else, and you'll find that a lot of girls aren't as shallow as most guys. Confidence is key, confidence is extremely appealing. A sense of humor is great, and a stand up guy who respects others and is brave in his choices are also great characteristics. I like boldness in a guy too, not a guy who plays games, and if is attracted to me, shows it, with little signs here and there, I can't stand guys who play hard-to-get. What a waste of time

Answer 4

A mixture of things, but you must remember it depends on the girl

1.guys who ask questions, who genuinely want to get to know you

2. When guys remember things you said ages ago, even if it was a really small thing (shows you pay attention)

3. A guy who doesn't show up infrint of his friends, but also cherishes good friends

4. A guy who is intelligent, not necessarily academically, just someone who is confident in what they talk about

5. I like shyness personally, but I like the alpha male

6. I like seeing a hint of jealousy, not crazy jealously, but enough to see that they care

7. A guy who isn't a push over, they don't say what they want to please you

8. I do NOT expect presents, but just like a small thing every now and again like my favourite candy or just one flower (relationship only)

9. Guys who do NOT talk about sex and getting inapropraote, it doesn't mean I don't want to, it's just cringey and embarassing when you talk about it

10. When guys actually take control and say 'I'm taking you out, this time, be ready, dress appropriately

11. Physical preferences- at least 5ft11 (I'm 5ft 8" so hahaha) any coloured hair, brown or blue eyes, well looked after, smiley, that's it haha not too fussy

Can I just say it's not hard to be a nice guy, just don't over think who you're trying to be and it's all good :)

Answer 5

personality, mainly, someone sweet, chill, funny, geek <3! Not shallow or cocky, I hate those guys. Or pervy guys... Like the ones that say things like "nice but" or make pervy comments. I normmaly don't have a "Type" if there good looking than okay? Tbh i'm not shallow and don't judge people on there looks, mostly becsue i think im ugly af, even tho im not. Anyway, what i'm saying is, i would probably not care about the way a guy looks becuase to me, a guy with a good personality can make him go from a 0 to a 10!

Answer 6

Physically, I'm attracted to a guy's smile, eyes, chest, and arms. A great smile is important, warm eyes, abs, and strong arms, I don't know- that's just me, but over the years I've had crushes on a variety of guys, so I don't exactly have a "type". There just has to be something that draws me to him, personality wise. A great personality outshines everything else, and you'll find that a lot of girls aren't as shallow as most guys. Confidence is key, confidence is extremely appealing. A sense of humor is great, and a stand up guy who respects others and is brave in his choices are also great characteristics. I like boldness in a guy too, not a guy who plays games, and if is attracted to me, shows it, with little signs here and there, I can't stand guys who play hard-to-get. What a waste of time

Answer 7

1. I really want a guy that is really funny but serious when he has to be

2. I like it when he always smiles

3. I think it's hot when a guy wears darker cloths

4. If he can be there for me and for others, and not be afraid to talk to me when something is wrong

5. very sweet, loving, smart

6. kind of awkward :p

7. I would like him to be really tall (lol i'm 4,11 so it probably wouldn't be different if he wasn't to me)

8. Not only in a relationship with me for sex

9. Likes the same things i do (music, movies, t.v. shows)

10. likes children



I'm just saying that this is my dream guy. Like if I could create a guy it would be this. (That's not going to happen) but If I had to choose one thing it would be if he had a good personality. That is the main thing that I would want.

Answer 8

There's always an initial physical attraction, but that is so variating it's hard to pinpoint it. Me personally, most guys look the same until i get to know them. Some are admittedly a little more attractive than others at first, but you also have to know that from the moment you see someone you are forming judgements about them.



I go for personality more than looks in all perfect honesty. I like a guy who is kind. I say kind and not caring because most people are caring towards those they care about, of coruse, but a kind person is that way towards everyone. I also like them to have a goofy and weird sense of humor, I'm a weird person, i say weird things because that's who I am. I like to play off someone who is equally as weird as me. Judgemental personalities are a no go, even though I have tolerated them in the past.



Intelligence is typically a big part for me, though it's not 100% necessary. But the one thing i need above all else is to be able to feel close to someone, physically and emotionally. I have to be able to have deep meaningful conversations with someone like other people would talk about the weather. I also have to be able to be physically affectionate and feel and receive the same affection with equal intensity or greater to feel that i have I really good relationship.

Answer 9

1) Physical: I do prefer tall guys, but it depends greatly on the personality as well. A person's aura, the way they walk, talk can add to their attraction level. I have no particular type, I've dated super muscular guys, and guys that are just thin fit. I like guys that dress well, and smell good.



2) Personality: Initially I notice a good sense of humor but emotional maturity is a high priority for me. I am more sensitive than a typical girl so I need a guy who is open to listen to me, communicative, no petty arguments, and able to compromise. It doesn't matter if he is college educated or not, it just matters he has drive to do well in any field of work he chooses. I love physical contact so I need a guy who understands I need physical affection but not the type that has to lead to sex. I like awkwardness and nervousness because I am also that way, it makes the person more genuine and human. I don't like alpha-males, but I like to know the guy I'm with is protective and a provider type. A dosage of bad boy and possessiveness I like, but not full blown controlling. I like when a guy shows he still wants me and considers me the "prize" that other guys can't take away from him. Guys who treat others well is crucial for me, indicates how he will be toward me. Guys who are interested in marriage, and family at some point in their life is also important to me. A warm smile seals the deal for me.

Answer 10

A guy with confidence, cute smile. They have to be funny and sweet. Being mean or rude or immature is a big no for me. The first thing I do look at is their personality but then Again i am a girl and love a guys arms and chest i dont know why, i just really do. I also love their hair and like it long enough so that i want to run my fingers through it but I hate super long hair, past ears, and buzz cuts. Also, i like when a guy is generally dressed nice and smells good. Hope this helps, please answer mine!

Answer 11

1. Respectful

2. Makes me laugh/smile

3. Knows what he wants in life

4.Doesn't smoke,d rink or do drugs

5. Doesn't want me for my body

6. Someone I can be myself with and do things with

7. Doesn't use the line ''I'm a good guy'' (I hate that0 because good guys don't say that. They just are.

8. Honest

9. and someone that comes from a close/good family would be nice too

10. Not fake.

11. Someone that knows when it's time to be serious& time to have fun...



Apperance: Good smile& eyes (dark brown or green) and when guys hands are rough...(from like working outside or doing things with their hands)
I have high standards, probraly why I'm still single....

Answer 12

I like a guy who's unique out of most guys because the guys I talk to like to talk to me but then end up asking for nudes.

I like a guy who still asks a girl out on a date physically and not over text or email.

Someone who doesn't always have to have a sexually active relationship just to feel attracted to the girl

A guy who will buy a girl presents to make her day.

A great listener to when a girl can spill herself out to them

A guy that is very open about his opinions and respects mine as well

A guy that likes to try new things

Who isn't lazy and is active, doesn't like to sit at home.

Family Oriented

Responsible.

Maintains good hygiene

Tries new things.

Isn't cocky

Pretty fit

Supportive and motivational.

Let's you know that we're on your mind.



Etc. Those things are what most girls look for in a guy.

Answer 13

Some one that can be considerate, respectful, caring and a good communicator! :) you need to be able to talk to someone about anything, and solve issues that you may have. Caring is more the obvious answer if they're not caring (about you) then what's the point being with them? :) I'm not into the bad boy type. I like when some one is respectful to others ^^ Looks wise? I've always had crushes on different types of guys, mostly the romantic types (singers, really lol) guys that have a sweet smile ^^ and having a good aura about them ~

Answer 14

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Answer 15

I personally look for a guy with a great personality and kindness towards you and others. You can never go for a guy on looks. Only 1 in 10 guys that are cute are also nice and compassionate. My friend once like this guy who she thought was so cute and turns out that he is nice too. This answer should come from you because you know what you like. This is only other peoples opinion

Answer 16

Physically, I'm attracted to a guy's smile, eyes, and arms. A great smile is important, warm eyes, and strong arms, I don't know- that's just me, but over the years I've had crushes on a variety of guys, so I don't exactly have a "type". There just has to be something that draws me to him, personality wise. A great personality outshines everything else, IMO, and you'll find that a lot of girls aren't as shallow as most guys. Confidence is key, confidence is extremely appealing. A sense of humor is great, and a stand up guy who respects others and is brave in his choices are also great characteristics. I like boldness in a guy too, not a guy who plays games, and if is attracted to me, shows it, with little signs here and there, I can't stand guys who play hard-to-get. What a waste of time.

Answer 17

the biggest things for me are

1- humor, guys who can change my day and make me laugh for so long my cheeks hurt after seeing them every time are a complete winner. The goofy sense of humor makes me fall for them every time.

2- Intrest, i hate waiting forever for a guy to show any signs of caring, is a girl texts u, don't pretend to be all cool and take a long time to answer u don't make us like u more you just get us slightly pissed off

3- Im gonna sound super shallow here but its part looks. I don't care if they are really attractive or only slightly ok looking but I can't make myself go for an ugggglllllyyyyyy guy no matter how nice they are, i could be friends, but I mostly go for they hilarious guys who are really sweet and decent looking. I have never really liked a super hot guy.

4-Bravery This is the second biggest thing that makes my affection soar. A guy who doesn't care what others think of him and if people are being nasty to you he will jump in and stand up for you. Even if he is taking away some of his cool by doing it





hope u liked it and good luck!

Answer 18

A strong woman looks for a strong guy.



May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money). A strong person isn't overly concerned with what weak people say, do, or think.



My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already) and eventually look for this type of girl (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of woman is difficult to find - but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.



(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)



Hope this helps!

Answer 19

1. PERSONALiTY - this is the first thing that girls can attract to any sort guy.

2. PHYSiCAL - a guy who has a beautiful features that can blushed to the girls .

3. SENSE OF HUMOR- yes ! most of the girls really want their relationship stay stronger if the guy could know the feelings of the girls and being humorous is the one that the girls really needed just like a friend that you can treat to each other .

4. HEiGHT - is it so cute to see a couple that a guy is the tallest than a girl bcoz most of the girls also need a guy that tallest to the girl..

5. AGE - people says "AGE DOESN'T MATTER" and yes it is ! but a guy that's not too much older to a girl . it is okay if a guy 3 yrs older to the girl

6.

Answer 20

Looks are nice. Every girl loves a nice looking guy, but that's not the most important thing. I look for intelligence and a good personality. I want to be with someone who has goals for life and is determined to have a successful career and future, but I also want someone who is fun to be around and can laugh and enjoy himself. I like a guy who is a gentleman and knows how to treat and respect a lady, and just really a genuinely good hearted person who loves me for who I am, loves his family, and loves the Lord.

Answer 21

I like sense of humour, nice eyes, good body not skinny but I don't expect amazing unrealistic bodies either, kind and respectful- someone I'd be proud to bring home to my family, some intelligence and similar interests, mature man which can also be a bit silly with me. And finally, not a player- if I find out he's been with half the city then it's an immediate turn off

Answer 22

The guy I liked the most was the sweetest guy I met. He doesnt give me compliments endlessly but he listens to me and tries to help me how he can and when its a problem he can't solve, he says that I am still great the way I am and that he's there for me. That kind of sweetness. He was pretty much the ugliest guy in class though.



But if its whats my type, I like smart guys. I like those with a sense of responsibility and who has the ability to carry it. I like a guy who is capable of catching up with me or even if he lags behind, can catch me when I stumble and fall, and encourage me to continue when I feel I cant go on. I get attracted to guys who answer well in class or who carry a charismatic aura, also to guys who play either basketball, volleyball, or an instrument well. Theres this guy who, whenever I cry, would make jokes and gags until I smile then he'd say "Oh? You finally laughed." and says to not worry, I can do it.



Physically, I am attracted to long hair, and korean/japanese/chinese looks (I am korean myself.) I don't mind height or weight, and physical appearance does not matter much to me considering the guy I liked the most was, while much taller than me, thin as a stick and girls voted him once as ugliest of our class. His personality made up for it tho.

Answer 23

A good sense of humor is a must. A guy who takes himself too seriously doesn't really interest me. Intelligence is good--he doesn't need to have won a Nobel Peace Prize, but someone you can hold an interesting conversation with, you know? Respect for others and respect for your time are big ones, too. One of my biggest pet peeves is when people show up obscenely late without a good excuse, or not show up at all.



And I don't know if this is me, but I will become physically attracted to someone with a good personality, whether or not I dug them at first glance. So that isn't really important, and I think that's true for a lot of girls. It's the inside that counts. :)

Answer 24

I'm first attracted to a guy when he's

1. Attractive

2. Confident

3. Friendly with me

Over time though, if a guy has a great personality, regardless of his looks and other factors, I'll become attracted to him. If you're looking for a girl I'd suggest becoming friends with her first. If you guys have similar interests and you're compatible with each other, that might just lead to something :)

Remember that everyone has different tastes in what they find attractive.

For example, one of my friend likes really bulky guys, another one likes guys with beards, another one likes super skinny guys, another likes guys with long hair, etc. etc.

Answer 25

1. Intelligence

2. Nerdyness

3. Black Hair

4. True. Not fake.

5. Respectful!

6. Loyal

7. Someone who knows me.

8. Someone who I can console me

9. Equal

Idc about appearance.

Personality is key

10. versatile

11. Enjoys rock music

12. Not arrogent

13. Likes Shakespeare

14 . Poetry geek

15. SOMEONE WHO LOVES TO READ\

16. Geniuine

17. Someone who can talk to u for hours

18. Someone who doesn't mind being friends first

19. NOT a physical relationship

20. NOT want to makeout in public. (Hold hands. Pecks on cheek)

21. Responsibility

23. A great listener

Answer 26

he has to make me laugh, if you can make a girl really laugh, you got it going for you. I need someone who will call me pretty and beautiful and tell me things that makes me giddy and happy, no girl wants to be treated like nothing. I want a guy who will make time for me and spend time with me. A guy who has confidence and a bright smile is always attractive. I don't care what he looks like really, as long as he's kind and sweet, I just want them to be fit and healthy, they also have to be kind to people, like all people, if you mess around with someone in a joking way and smile after, that's cool, I just cant stand guys who are rude. I hope this helped. Just be yourself, that is the MOST attractive thing you can do and be :)

Answer 27

Boys usually thinks girls care only about looks but I assure you..No matter how hot a guy is but his personality sucks then its a total TURN OFF. A guy can win a girls hard if he got the personality the girl he like wants..then looks can go down to drain..so the chemistry is the most important thing in my opinion

Answer 28

personality, mainly, someone sweet, chill, funny, geek <3! Not shallow or cocky, I hate those guys. Or pervy guys... Like the ones that say things like "nice but" or make pervy comments. I normmaly don't have a "Type" if there good looking than okay? Tbh i'm not shallow and don't judge people on there looks, mostly becsue i think im ugly af, even tho im not. Anyway, what i'm saying is, i would probably not care about the way a guy looks becuase to me, a guy with a good personality can make him go from a 0 to a 10!

Answer 29

1. I really, really like a guy that's funny. If a guy can make me laugh (not pitty laugh) I automatically find him attractive.

2. I like a guy that's ticklish. I feel it reveals their more "sensitive" side and is adorable.

3. Cologne is always amazing !

4. I personally prefer when a guy wears either a beanie or a tie, I just like how guys look with either or.

5. Biggest thing is that a guy that tries too hard can come off as annoying, so as cheesy as it sounds, being "yourself" is usually the best way to go.

Answer 30

I think it depends on the age.

In high school appearance mattered much more than personality.

Now that I am in college, appearance still matters but I look more for a personality that I would get along with.

Most girls grow out of dating the hot jerks and look more for someone that will treat them right and care about them to a deeper extent.

Answer 31

Wow, well isnt that a tough question. :p



1. In a guy I want him to be mysterious, something that leaves an edge to him.

2. Im not that big into looks but nice eyes and a nice smile that glows would me amazing

3. When it comes to fashion I'd prefer him to dress up nice, not all blue shirt, neon pants, pink socks. Something casual.

4. I want him to be romantic. The big things dont matter as much as the small things.

5. Respectful and caring. He can be a bad *** to others but I want him to act like Im his Julliette when im there <3

Answer 32

1. Althetic is always a shoe is for me

2. Even better is they play hockey

3. Cute

4. Popular guys usually do it for me

5. Caring

6. Experienced

7. a good listener

8. Someone who can be your bestfriend

9. has to be real

10. ********* is attractive

11. up for having deep and romantic conversations

12. confident and loyal

13. have to be smart and able to hold a conversation

14. not so much taller then me but a couple of inches is good

15. have to be strong and built up well

16. funny but serious when needed

17. dependable

18. he needs to be able to goof off with me and laugh at himself

19. adventurous and up for being patient with me learning new things

20. he will be my number 1 supporter and he's okay with me being his

Answer 33

If you're looking to pick up women you're asking the wrong questions. I know that everybody's going to say "who the hell are you to say what women want, you're a man." The truth is that most women don't even know what they want, and because of that they end up in horrible relationships with a guy they've already emotionally connected with, which makes it hard for them to leave a person that they know they shouldn't be with. Instead of asking women what they want in a guy, maybe you should find out what you want in yourself. What kind of a woman do you want in your life, can you identify what your own strengths are, are you at the point in your life that you want to be in? If you work on yourself you will become more attractive to women naturally. Work on achieving your goals. Are you happy with your appearance, do you have good friends and will they be there for you, would you be there for them? Working on these aspects of your life will help you gain tremendous confidence. Furthermore the confidence that you gain will be true confidence because you have your life together, you surround yourself with good people, and you're happy with who you are. I found personally that working more on myself was a much better method than lying and being a scumbag to get women into bed. But if you're not looking for a relationship it may benefit you to look for pickup artist forums or PUA seminars. http://tinyurl.com/mnyhhu8 but I would personally recommend being a man about things and not taken advantage of women.

Answer 34

Cocky, bad boy that can also have a sweet sensitive and passionate side. That's the biggest turn on EVER! Fun to hang out with, leather jackets XD, annoyingly flirty at times, bomb *** eyes, respects cute girls and isn't scared to call a girl hot, skaters O.O XD, cute laugh and voice, abs?, likes music in general, attractive or adorable smile/pout,

(i should stop listing the charecteristics of my best friend/crush)



But basically bad boy rebel sweethearts are da bomb!

Answer 35

i look for personality, good looking (kind of), someone to trust,someone to talk to, respect, nice, smart, funny, always there for me, accept me as who i am, confident, dress nice, clean, have common interest, and strong. well my bf have all of these and he have more but i just wrote down what i just love in a guy. if a guy is shy i find it cute and if a guy thinks he is a bad boy and act all tough but really inside him is a sweet loving guy yeah thats my boyfriend. but most of all the guy have to be respectful and trustworthy. i dont care about the hair. body well a little abs wont hurt he dosent have to be a body builder but work out and play sports. well im not a sports type but my boyfriend explained some of the sports he plays like basketball and football and he made it intersting so i like them too. also a good friend. hope i help. answer mine. thanx :)

Answer 36

I think it would be easier to say what girls want to avoid (generally)



1. Body Odour: If a guy smells bad, has bad breath, or has a clear lack of personal hygiene, that would put most people off.



2. Being full of himself: If a guy is too full of himself, that is a major turn off. Additionally, if he's always whining and complaining about stupid meaningless things, that get's irritating.



3. Smoking/Drinking: Now this one's a bit tougher. Some people really like guys who smoke, do drugs and get loads of tattoos etc. For others however, there could be no bigger turn off. So I'd be careful on that front.



4. Loner: By this I mean girls want a boy would be with them when they want/need it. For example, girls love to cuddle with guys, and if the guy's not into that, that could potentially make some girls unhappy. Girls also want to feel loved. That means telling her how beautiful and valuable she is to you. If you compliment her, she'll compliment you back.



Mainly that's it, but really be yourself. I know that's what everyone tells you, but if you pretend to be someone your not, she's going to fall in love with someone you aren't. That's bad cause firstly it's exhausting for you to have to faking who you are, plus there is nothing worse than finding out the one you love has been lying to you.



Hope this helps! :D

Answer 37

I think that it's always good to surround yourself with positive people, which makes positivity my number one feature in a guy. I want them to be sweet and caring and always up for a laugh. I love guys who work out, as there are two plus sides to this: they will be healthy and have a nice body. They would have to make an effort and not complicate situations, for example if a guy liked me I'd rather they just said "hey wanna go out sometime?" instead of sending hints - keep it simple!

Answer 38

Look at these lying bitches. Ok. This is what a girl wants in a guy.

1. Looks

2. Money

3. Looks

4. Money

5. Looks

Answer 39

1) Their smile, it warms my heart and brings confidence. It makes a girl happy, and comfortable.

2) Smartness, a girl doesn't want a dumb guy by their side(most of them).

3) Confidence, yeah I'm sure when you type "how to make a girl like you" (or something similar) it's going to be in one of those steps.

It's a famous word, an completely true.



Ha! So yeah only those 3 things. :')

Answer 40

I think you should look these things in a guy which are as under.



1.Honesty

2.Loving & Caring

3.Sincerity

4.Good Looks

5.Intelligent

6.Sense of Humor

7.Money (in terms to financial support in married life)



These are important things to be seen in guy

Answer 41

i don't know about others girls but in my opinion, if a guy respects everybody (guy,girl) it's very attractive, also if a guy is with a good sense of humor. Sometimes he have to be tough and sometimes he have to be kind so girl doesn't get tried of a one mood.

Answer 42

Honestly, someone that is a little bit different than me. Someone who I can talk to at the end of the day, and someone who will listen in which I will do the same. I won't expect anything from him other than to be respectful of my body and my feelings and I will do the same. I don't want someone who will put me on a pedestal, I want someone who is brutally honest and someone who I can feel comfortable just being around. I need someone that can ground me. I don't really want to be treated like a girlfriend per say, just a really good friend with benefits.

Answer 43

1. good personality

2. good sense of humour

3. intelligence

4. sporty (i love sport haha, and all the guys I've liked have been sporty….)

5. isn't a druggo

6. appearance (that makes me sound like such a b*tch…)

7. they have to be honest lol

8. respecful

9. confident, but not too confident (as in, doesn't brag about how freaking awesome he is)

10. their hair sometimes, i just like to run my fingers through their hair sometimes XD

Answer 44

I would like a guy who is taller than I am, and I would like that guy who's sitting in the corner of a room, his hair covering his face, and drawing. he would definitely have to have a good sense of humour, be kind, and not loud or obnoxious and DEFINITELY NOT FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS. I think I am looking for the perfect guy and that is why I never had a boyfriend, I guess I just gotta lower my expectations. also I like a guy who has like a... its hard to explain sort of like a warmth around him. no not literally warm, but like a warm, positive energy.

Answer 45

Personality.

Answer 46

I'm just going to answer this completely truthfully because I'm sure you want honesty.



-A guy who makes an effort but isn't clingy. Someone who actually wants to talk to you but doesn't get mad if you don't reply and stuff.

-A guy with good hygiene. Showers daily, brushes their teeth, wears deodorant. Nobody wants to kiss and cuddle someone with bad hygiene.

-A guy who takes care of themselves and their appearance. I'm not saying you have to work out in a gym every day but eat healthy and take pride in yourself. Get regular haircuts, wear nice clothes, just keep yourself approachable by like chewing gum throughout the day or something.

-A guy who's FUNNY!

-A guy who isn't all about sex. At least when you're talking to them for the first couple of weeks, don't mention sex.

-Friendly. Sounds kinda obvious, but I want to date someone who is liked by the majority of people!



I think those are my main points.

Answer 47

I look for smarts and humour, but also looks and if he has a big head. If a guy has a big head then i wouldn t go out with him, but if he was smart and good- looking, of course i would. Right now i have a crush on this super cute guy who is smart and, hopefully, he likes me back. Mainly, though, if the guy respects u he s a winner ;)

Answer 48

Well, I usually LIKE a guy if he wears certain clothes that I think are nice and his hair and I usually end up liking the confidence/cocky type.. confidence is key.. but not *********.. but most importantly he has to be nice and have a good personality. I would only date a guy if he had a good personality, it wouldn't matter how he looks

Answer 49

I look for someone who I can look in the eyes and see that he has a good heart. Someone who isn't afraid to tell how he feels and who is kind of romantic... would chase a girl... :) Someone who is faithful, easy to talk to, intelligent, has a good sense of humor and has ambition... Someone who well treat everyone with respect and who doesn't find it hard to meet new people, who is social... who has other activities of his own as well... Someone who can make me fall n love genuinely and who will love me in return... :) I love it when a guy just grabs my hand when we're together in public and stuff like that...



When it comes to looks: someone who is taller than me, amazing eyes... and just kind of confident... :) a good attitude and a good sense when it comes to clothes is a big plus.

Answer 50

a guy who wakes up my feminine side. i am a strong, confident and independent woman, but when a man sees beyond that and knows how to bring out my softness and sensuality, I become very very interested.I like when a man opens the door for me, compliments me, asks me how I feel, and makes the world a better place for me. Never trust a woman who says she doesn't want flowers and attention.



as far as traits: 1. personality. A guy who is smart, successful and confident but doesn't show off and is not arrogant is VERY sexy. You know, the kind of guy who treats everyone with respect and is friendly with the janitor and the waitress, but then you find out that he's a CEO or a director or something. I also like guys who see imperfection and failure as part of life and doesn't let them stand in his way. I like guys who take charge, but in a respectful, non-intimidating way.

2. A good lover. And that doesn't mean someone who is super muscular or a big size. Rather, someone who can make a woman relax by telling her that she is beautiful and by being fascinated with her body. Also, someone who cares about the woman's pleasure and feelings.

3. A non-whiner/complainer. I like to discuss life, challenges and emotions, but I am not looking to be anyone's therapist. I don't think I can be with someone who is self-pitying, or complaining of how the world is unfair and how he is the victim. Yep, life sucks sometimes. Be a man, suck it up and move on.

4. A man who can control himself - someone who can control money and who doesn't give into addictions. A gambler, alcoholic or drug user is a looser in my eyes and I could never trust myself to such a man. On the other hand, I admire self-made men, who overcame difficult situations with dignity, hard work and perseverance.

5. a neat man. not someone who goes to the salon, but someone who showers and grooms, wears well-fitting clean clothes and smells good.

Answer 51

Here so many people had said. this will vary individual choice however very common things might be::



Looks and a good physique(nothing crazy just fit)

Ability to fix things.

Strong, driven, ambitious.

Good with money.

Good work ethic, has a good job.

Good sense of humour.

Is a good friend.

A good listener, and thinks about others.

Shows compassion and always stands up for me.

Thinks I am special and funny and talented. Also a good sized(you know).

Answer 52

Opening gambits (What attracts my eye's)

1/ A man who stands straight, who does not slough.

2/ Good body, by which I mean: not fat, Not skinny, body builder types NO WAY, slim, and reasonably athletic is nice.

3/ Clean shaven is a must for me. Hate stubble, hate beards, hate mustaches. Yuk!

4/ Nice hair cut, short, smart, clean and groomed.

These are a must for me.

NEXT (if you pass the first criteria) I check out

5/ Hands and fingernails are they clean. Cuts and burns etcetera go with some jobs but they can still be kept clean.

6/ Teeth.CLEAN! and no I do not mean the (omg where are my sunglasses) stop smiling your blinding me white; just clean! (even if you've got dentures, many have, clean them)

7/ Cloths (unless your approaching me on a naturist beach or club) Please wear some lol. Preferably smart casual. Cheep tat never looks good, even when new; if your going for the jeans, and Tee shirt look buy quality it makes a difference guys; it really does!

Shoes, clean polished, If trainers (really) then I don't care if you paid £180 ($240) for them, I don't care if they fit like gloves, if there muck, if there scruffy then so are you: sorry!

YOU PASSED THE AFOREMENTIONED (congratulations your well on your way to a date)

NEXT (where getting closer)

8/ Breath. Fresh; use some mouthwash, and be careful what you eat if your going out on the pull guys, it comes back to haunt you often at critical moments! (burps and farts) no guys its not funny and its not becoming. Don't! not on first meeting or second or third just trust me on this guys don't!

9/ BO No! use a good deodorant (not one that promises you "The girls will fall at your feet" we wont!) Use a good one, and then some nice Aftershave but not to much!

YOU PASSED WELL DONE! YOU ARE WORTHY OF ATTENTION.

and if you think I am being picky well step back and look at all the things you guy demand from us girls!!!!

SO NOW

Sense of humour yes, but not an idiot, not a clown or a fool. Clever word play smart quick thinking, it can be a bit cheeky just as long as you don't try to push it into smut!

Intelligent yes don't have to be An Albert Einstein, Steven Hawkins or Brian Cox etcetera. However know what you are talking about. Plus talking sport no matter how much you know about Football (English or American)

it is not regarded as intellectual or stimulation conversation by the female gender guys! (Boring) I would not rant on to you about some slapper dress that some bimbo actress wore to some galore.

Don't try to own me

Really don't try to dominate me in any way (any way)

Be my partner as equals in all things

Listen to me, trust me, love me, don't try to buy me with wild gifts just show me you care.

Don't play or try to play mental games with me. You will be out of your depth anyway and you WILL loose.

THERE THAT WAS NOT TOO DIFFICULT WAS IT (it was? then don't apply to me)



Edit note :- Too young guys who may read this please pay attention, Careful attention. You will notice that in 99% of all these answers which come from genuine women, note; not one mention about penis size or shape, Why because it is so far down our list of things that it is not worth a mention. Yes we do joke about such things just as guys make jokes about boobs but this is just humour do not mix humour with reality. The reality is that what is in your pants we will deal with when the time comes (if it gets that far) and for 99.9% of us whatever is down there it will not effect how we feel about the man it is attached too.

So make me smile, show me that you want to know ME not just my body and first and foremost come and say HI because without that it is never going to get beyond the visual is it?

Who dares wins; to win the prize you have to join the game! and the answers you need on how to be successful are right here in these honest female answer:we are not all money grabbing (bytches) just as not all guys are players.

Bye good luck and hope this helped you!

Answer 53

Physical attraction is important to me, I have to find him hot – like if his hair is sexy/fluffy or he has a cute smile or he has nice features like strong jawline/chin etc, any of those are good. Taller than me (but not too tall), and older than me but not more than 10 years. He has to smell good, doesn't have to be cologne - just clean laundry is fine. I would rather guys don’t smoke or be unfit, that’s a turn off because not only is it unhealthy but it shows he doesn't care about himself



It’s cute if he has some hobbies, whether its video games or music or whatever…it’s fun to see him be really into something/be good at something. I also love it if he’s a little outdoorsy or energetic – like he finds it fun to go on a picnic or go skateboarding. Creativity is a good trait too, and he also has to be smart. I like honesty, confidence...I'm not really into guys who are overemotional or have aggression issues. If he’s kind to animals or has a pet, that’s so cute. I also love guys who aren't obsessed with sex - not a cold fish, but not a skirt chaser...there are other things that are more/equally important in a relationship than just sex, imo. I like it if he can make me feel special and different and unique, not just like any other girl...that's really important to me.



Loyalty is important, but at the same time I like someone who values their and my freedom…definitely not a cheater, but not a guy who is possessive or who is thinking of marriage



Most of all, he has to be himself…don’t try to be someone else







*Someone Else – pls tone it down, you sound like the next Isla Vista shooter. Don’t go down the dangerous path of misogyny/Caucasian-hatred. Women date men no matter what their skin color, wealth level, height, race or status. I don't usually do this, but your attitude is misguided, so here's an explanation:



Where in my answer did I mention wealth, social status, race or skin color? That’s right - I didn’t. What I did mention was being into guys who are kind to animals, are not aggressive, and don’t want girls just for sex. As for your own answer below claiming that women are vain – for most people, physical appearance is 50% of the attraction, you just have to learn to deal with that, it’s a natural part of our evolution. It doesn’t mean all girls only want men who look like models; it just means that they would rather date a man that they personally find attractive. A guy can look hot to one girl and plain to another, it’s all about personal preference. I am clueless as to why you picked my answer to comment on when there are plenty shallower out of the other 190. Take the mansion-sized chip off your shoulder.

Answer 54

the biggest things for me are

1- humor, guys who can change my day and make me laugh for so long my cheeks hurt after seeing them every time are a complete winner. The goofy sense of humor makes me fall for them every time.

2- Intrest, i hate waiting forever for a guy to show any signs of caring, is a girl texts u, don't pretend to be all cool and take a long time to answer u don't make us like u more you just get us slightly pissed off

3- Im gonna sound super shallow here but its part looks. I don't care if they are really attractive or only slightly ok looking but I can't make myself go for an ugggglllllyyyyyy guy no matter how nice they are, i could be friends, but I mostly go for they hilarious guys who are really sweet and decent looking. I have never really liked a super hot guy.

4-Bravery This is the second biggest thing that makes my affection soar. A guy who doesn't care what others think of him and if people are being nasty to you he will jump in and stand up for you. Even if he is taking away some of his cool by doing it





or...

1. PERSONALiTY - this is the first thing that girls can attract to any sort guy.

2. PHYSiCAL - a guy who has a beautiful features that can blushed to the girls .

3. SENSE OF HUMOR- yes ! most of the girls really want their relationship stay stronger if the guy could know the feelings of the girls and being humorous is the one that the girls really needed just like a friend that you can treat to each other .

4. HEiGHT - is it so cute to see a couple that a guy is the tallest than a girl bcoz most of the girls also need a guy that tallest to the girl.. safly im 5'6'' to tall for my age

5. AGE - people says "AGE DOESN'T MATTER" and yes it is ! but a guy that's not too much older to a girl . it is okay if a guy 3 yrs older to the girl

Answer 55

Honesty

Trustworthy

Knows want he wants in a relationship and knows what he wants in a partner

Don't do drugs or smokes, etc

Shows me that he loves me, not just with words

Makes time for me

Makes me laugh and smile

Loves me for me and only me

Doesn't use me for sex and doesn't just love me for my body

Intelligent

Charming

Smiles a lot

Loving

Sweet

Smart

Respectful

Tall

Mature

Humorous

Friendly

Kind

Confidence of course is a big turn on for me in a guy

Answer 56

being honest, I dont care what guy looks like most of the time. His personality should shine through his looks.

I like guys that can makeme laugh

guys that have a sensible sense of style

athletic guys

friendly guys

someone that is a good infuence on me and my friends

etc just be yourself

Answer 57

Showing they are interested in me!!!

Being supportive of my dreams and dramas

A good sense of humour

Being taller than me

A nice smile

Respectful to women

Good with children and animals (works even if the girl doesn't have either)

Answer 58

I like a guy that can lift me up when I am having a not so good day. someone who is not afraid to stick up for his girl. Someone who can commit to having a family. A man who is capable of holding down a job to support his family. A man who likes adventure. Strong willed. Most important a man who loves you for you and doesn't expect you to change who you are.

Answer 59

Looks, it sounds shallow but it s a kind of first impression thing so... for me good hair, smile and eyes are great. Personality is so important, like if they have some cocky attitude then what a turn offff. Girls like somebody sweet and understanding, who will listen to them and maybe playful. Humour is so important, like if you can make me laugh till I m crying then BAM heart thumpinnnn... intelligence and concern over studies is attractive too, but for me humour and looks are most important.

Answer 60

I do want someone that I'm physically attracted to, but I want a guy that has a great personality as well. He has to love God, be kind,intelligent, and definitely confident. I NEVER want to feel like the man in the relationship.

Answer 61

I ve never had a set personality trait in which I ve gone for, and looks cant tell you well a person will treat you.

Personally, I have always been attracted to someone who can doesn t take themselves too seriously, is honest and treats others with respect. I don t think you can ask for much for from anyone.

Answer 62

Personality; funny, kind, confident (not arrogant), a little protective and polite

How he acts; not always sexually, instead of materialistic gifts maybe do things instead that help me (ie clean the dishes or cook dinner). Polite around family and friends.

Looks: tall, some muscle, nice smile, well groomed

Answer 63

I dont really look for fit and hot guy coz Im not even that hot either. I want tall, smart and funny guy who can see something beautiful in me that no one else can see. I really wanna a guy who do really like me and show it to me. I think every girls want this kinda of man. btw I like beards so that´s awesome too ;)

Answer 64

1. Personality - this is key. I refuse to be attracted to any guy who is cocky/conceited, rude, mean, abusive, or anything related to those. I like nice guys who make you feel good about yourself and who aren t doing or saying anything to try and get into your pants. A good sense of humor is nice and a deep voice lol

2. Height - this is just me, because I m 5 11 and the guys I like are over 6 0. I can t imagine myself dating someone shorter than me or I d feel like a man.

3. Body - for the body, I feel like I d enjoy dating someone who isn t toned/ripped. It s ok to have an average body, to have a little belly (idk about a huge I m-4-months-pregnant-belly)

4. Confidence - Like I said, not too cocky but I wouldn t want a very insecure guy constantly complaining

5. I agree with halle, someone who cares about me and my personality enough to not care where I stand in the social pool.

Answer 65

This is my own personal opinion which some may agree with and some may not.



Body:

-I don't like someone too muscular.

-Not too much cologne.

-Tall

-Nice eyes



Smile:

-Clean, straight teeth

-Broad

-Dimples



Clothes:

-Badass

-Old-fashioned

-Not like a tramp.



Personality:

-Intelligent

-Kind

-Independent

-Deep thinker

-Somewhat caring

-Funny



Of course I don't look for all these things, but if any of the things I listed really strike me, then I will more than likely fall for them.

Answer 66

It depends on the age of the male. The younger the lady the more she's interested in your car and looks. The older she is the more she looks at your reputation, personality, stability, etc.



I'm 19 years of age and I look for personality. I am purely interested in physical relationships only but that is something I need.

Answer 67

You have to be funny and attractive which means having confidence but not being cocky. For body type I dont care for muscles or abs. I think they look weird and unnatural Idc if ur skinny or a thick guy I like them all but you cant be an unhealthy size. For height I prefer you to be the same size as me or taller idc about height as long as your not obvious shorter than me. You have to be fun and not too serious a lot. Just live life and have fun with me lol. Idc about race I like dating outside of my race. Idc if you have tatoos or piercings Im down with that. You have to be dominant i like that. We have to have some of the same interest to talk about if not thats okay. I like clingy but not too clingy just act as if we were best friends forever but not like a "if i cant have you then no one else can" type of guy. You can laugh and make fun of urself. Communication has to be on point. I like guys who dresses nice thats a good way to get my attention. Or a guy who takes care of themselves or at least looks like it.

Answer 68

1. A good sense of humor

2. Good looking (everyone has their own opinion on looks) keep that in mind.

3. Someone who truly believes you are one of the most beautiful woman they ever seen.

4. Someone who is committed to you to the point they would hurt their own self before evening thinking of hurting you.

5. Someone who has the same beliefs and at least some of the same points of views as you.

AND FINALLY: Someone who will fight for you and your relationship even though it may seem there is nothing to fight for.

Answer 69

for me I like guys who have a skate punk style like dickies pants or cutoff pants and high socks and T shirts. they can't be shorter than I am other than that looks are no big deal as long as he can make me laugh show me a good time and respectful and be able to have an intellectual conversation like to be active and share similar interests and be able to protect me and be intimidating if some other guy is trying to get weird and close and touchy

Answer 70

Loyalty

Answer 71

TBH i think that a really sexy thing about a guy is when they're not too muscular, but they have some definition.

another one is jawlines <3

when they're not rude ingorant douchebags with their pants at their ankles and just hav a general respect towards others.

Answer 72

To be a real man, and that means a strong character, smart, confident, respect women,

and ACT like a man NOT like a boy or worse like a little girl.



Physical appearance comes after personality check.

Answer 73

someone who has a good sense of humor, and trustworthy, smart, confident but not too much, responsible, NEAT and organized with his work and personal belongings and MOST importantly, someone who listens and understands for we girls are emotional (at times) we do not stick to guys who only sees himself. Physically, a bit of muscle wouldn't be bad and a great smile.:)

Answer 74

Well considering im a guy, its kinda hard to explain but for me it just all of the sudden hits me, its like a gut feeling i get when i see a girl that attracts me. Its hard to explain but hopefully you get what i mean, you'll know when you see the right guy for sure.

Answer 75

What do I look for in a guy?

- I look for someone who is spiritually in tune with me, for the Bible says in 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers." I've seen the problems this can cause through my own parent's marriage.

- I look for someone who is caring and is willing to give up all of their time in the world for me.

- I look for someone who is attractive (obviously).

- I look for someone who doesn't do drugs, drink or smoke. (It IS possible to find guys like that).

And finally....

- I search for the man that God has chosen for me to spend my life with. I pray that we will stay pure for each other, and that we will be led to one another. Amen.

Answer 76

Usually a guy that likes me back haha, but someone who smiles a lot and guys that aren't afraid to be with you around their friends.

Answer 77

Intelligent

Handsome

Sweet

Loving

Caring

Black hair

Loves Africa

Understands me

Playful and many other things but I know I will run into someone that will be mines

:D

Answer 78

1: TAKE SHOWERS REGULARLY!!! No one will want to be around you if you smell bad. It doesn't make you any less masculine to smell good and actually try.



2: DON'T BE A DOUCHE!!! Plain and simple.



3: DON'T BE NEGATIVE ALL THE TIME!!! Its OK to get upset about things and talk about it, but don't just sit there every day and complain and whine about everything.

Answer 79

1. The fact that he cares about me

2. Money (sorry, not sorry)

3. Has stuff in common with me

4. Is sexual

5. Is an overall good person

Answer 80

confidence. I look for does he have relationship with the Lord. many of us want a good looking guy who's smart and successful but what really matters is your heart.

Answer 81

1) physical appearance anyone who says that they dont care about it is a liar.

2) Great personality is a must

3) confidence, dont get it mixed up with being cocky though

4)smart, its always great to connect with someone on an intellectual level

5) hygiene, speaks for itself.

6)ambitious, the bigger the goals the better

7)spontaneous

Answer 82

1. Respect (for me and everyone else :) )

2. has self confidence

3. Caring

4. Happiness

5. Intelligence

Answer 83

well first off i liked my crush because of this Physical appearance but as i got to know him better I got to see how is is so polite and kind. He has a really cute smile and hes just so polite to everyone. And I feel like when I get married I want to be with someone who is kind and caring like him.

Answer 84

I look for a friend in a guy. i don't "friendzone" them so get over that. if he can be my friend then he can be my partner and my husband. At first i didn't really find my boyfriend attractive, but once we became friends i started noticing all his good features.

Answer 85

Looks and personality

Answer 86

Physically, i love a guys eyes, nose and lips. Mostly facial, but not if they look perfect or magazine worthy. Currently im crushing over a guy who has red curly hair, matching eyes, freckles and ( literally) kissable lips (in my opinion). Not magazine worthy, including his height, but why would i want someone way out of my league without brains? Okay there was a slight stereotype there, my bad.

But i dont like him just because of his looks.



I love funny guys who crack corny jokes, not rude ones. Smart is a thing for me, i dont know why. Nice, caring, considerate, that kind of thing.

And yes, the dude is him. Shut up. His corny jokes crack me up, okay?



I cant help but be attracted to shy, smart, cute guys (oh wait, that just summed him up! Damn). I dont know, i guess its just my type. But he isnt hot, or sexy, and i dont look for the biggest muscles in a guy (though i totally underestimated his strength...). I dont check for how cool he is, or popular, i just see him for who he is (in my opinion).



But eyes, i have a thing for guys' eyes.

And the guy im crushing on? His eyes- theyre a mesmerising pair that shift with his mood and emotions. A pair where you could just see the intelligence and thoughts running through his mind, but have a tinge of insecurity- and im going to shut up. See waht i mean? Eyes are just amazing for me.



Also the movements they do often, like tug at their jumper, look up at you with that look on their face (we all know that look) and OH MY GOD IM GOING TO SHUT UP NOW AND PRESS SUBMIT AND NOT READ BACK AT MY PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR AN ANSWER I AM SO SORRY KBYE

Answer 87

Under 35 years old - Looks

Over 35 years old - Money

Answer 88

What matters most to me is whether or not they're funny & intelligent. Then I notice physical features like lips & hair. Body doesn't really matter so much. If you're fit, it's just a bonus. 😏 clothes don't matter at all.

Answer 89

Honesty, Faithful, Kind to others, Respectful and caring, Good sense of humor, Fun to be around

Answer 90

Independence (nothing turns me off more than a needy man!)

Masculinity - someone who could look after me

Intelligence - I like a man who can teach me something

Humility - cocky know it alls are so not attractive!

Answer 91

1) sense of humor

2) someone who isn't full of themselves

3) a good listener

4) someone who doesn't flirt with every single girl

Answer 92

I really care about their personality. Why? well i don want to be dating a guy thats rude to my family or to me. I want to date a guy thats nice and caring. But at the same time is athletic. I want him to get along with my family. Because i don't want my family to hate him. After the personality has to be his smile. I want to alwa

Answer 93

Respect & a sense of humor

Cause I want them to be fun and a gentleman at the same time.

Caring & Loyalty

Cause I wanna know i have someone thats gonna be there for me and to know I have someone thats real.

Answer 94

what girls look for in a guy is loads of money

Answer 95

looks wise? ummm this is just me lol but herrreeee weee gooo:

-brown hair

-green or blue eyes

-i dont really care if he's pale or not tbh lol





body:

-broad shoulders

-strong jawline

-not too skinny but not too muscly either

-tall af



clothes:

-wears like jeans that actually fit him and wears, like, Raglan baseball shirt and plaid flannel button ups. Also beanies and like converse and such.



smile...i LOVE shy smiles. like i LOVE them.





personality:

kind, generous, honest, loyal, funny, smart









yo this is just me tho don't go changing tryna please some girl, bc im sure ur fantastic the way u r. keep on doin u :)

Answer 96

Have a good sense of humor, and make it clear to girls that you want more than just sex. And don t say "I love you" and crap 1 month after you date her. Be REALLY sweet and nice! Honestly, we don t want guys with the body of Channing Tatum (though it doesn t hurt!) Just take care of your physical looks and care about girls. We ll do the same.

Answer 97

Nice personality

Answer 98

Nice hair, Cute face, Nice smile, smells nice, tall, well dressed, Funny, gamer, cook, kinda sporty, cocky, Can stay up for 2 days texting and not feel tiered

Answer 99

To be honest if you want to look hotter just have no hair longer then flippy, and amazing style taste, like the my sons a lawyer look

Answer 100

I like sensitive guy and protective but not controlling





emo apple using Felicia account

Answer 101

I just look for a guy who cares. That's all.. and his face has to be cute lol

Answer 102

if he is good with kids

if he is respectful

eats healithly and dosent do stupid stuff like drugs and get drunk alot

cute

personality

funny

adorable

romantic

sweet

very kind to other people

likes my family

loves me and will never ever hurt me

strong, buff guy who will protect me, always

likes guns

likes football

likes the 49er team

likes animals

and if we connect or not

Answer 103

when I got married in the late 1960's I looked for a guy with clean hands and shined shoes. when my mother got married in the late 1930's her dad took my dad aside and said "he better support you or else" so mom looked for a good breadwinner. Mom told me I should choose someone of the nationality of my family and religion and who took good care of his mother and loved her because then he would take good care of me.

Answer 104

i like a guy that has a good sense of humor, someone who is confident but isn't too cocky. i also love a guy with a good smile and a cute voice lol

Answer 105

Women like men who are confident. Have their own job, apartment, car. We like men who groom themselves well. Keep themselves clean, and on top of all of that a college education would be a big plus. Be neat, nice and polite.. O and be a one woman man.

Answer 106

I look for a guy who is truly physically attracted to me, who won't cheat om ,who won't use me, who has confidence, who funny and some more things.

Answer 107

Smile, personality, not caring what other people think of him, able to make me laugh, can accept me for me, knows how to have a good time and goof around, loves sports as much as i do.

Answer 108

I always go for personality and I like to observe the way he interacts/behaves with other people...I also have a tendency for men with sunshine smiles (its a thing in my head, so never mind)

Answer 109

Someone who is funny, that guy who'd buy me a soda out of kindness. Someone who is a bit perverted, someone who isn't afraid to say they love me.

Answer 110

Him to be real with me

Common interests

To make me laugh

Eyelashes. Extra long eyelashes. I'm a sucker for those.

Answer 111

don't ask girls this. god their advice is cancerous. girls are naturally attracted to the dominant male in a social group. they like dominance, high social value. that means your cool, have a lot of friends, everyone likes you and listens to you, and all the girls like u. its science. if you ask a girl this question they're gonna tell u they like the sweet little boy who sucks up to them. i honestly don't understand how they don't know what they really like.

Answer 112

Respect from heart ... Simple living and high thinking :) he should be like that.....This is the only thing I expect and I look for.. :) if he is able to give this then he can give give me love, happiness, and everything :)

Answer 113

A trustable guy, and other thing making smart by life style,clothing.....etc we can change him.but first thing is he must be trustable because we are sharing privacy with him that he will look after us in difficult situation.

Answer 114

His heart must shine through the piece of skin that's covering him. That's all I need in a guy.

Answer 115

I like someone who is funny, and is willing to want me for who I am, and not what I can them. Someone who you can sit down and watch movies with, someone who is willing to just chill, and a sporty side them is awesome!! Smart is always good, smart but not too smart is good too. Good looking is a bonus, who cares about looks?!? It's the inside that counts. :)

Answer 116

His face but it's useless if the guy is beautiful outside if he is not inside. I mean he needs to be nice, funny, sincere, attentive, accomplice with me, protective with a minimum of intelligence for me to like him.

Answer 117

Someone who cares about me enough that he would date me just for me. Not because I'm "popular" or "hot" because he likes my personality. And wouldn't want to change me. I want to feel loved and not just wanted but needed by him. Like I'm the only one he cares about and would do absolutely anything to make me feel like the luckiest girl alive:-)

Answer 118

Chicks dig a guy with abs, bro. Put the work in and then walk around shirtless everywhere you go. Chicks dig it.

Answer 119

- A guy who is independent ( has a job or car)

- someone who is intelligent and keeps after himself

- Has to have a great smile and sense of humer

- someone who has respect for girls

Answer 120

Nature, Smartness and his Kindness towards relationship.

Answer 121

1.Someone who can make me smile with out and with trying.

2.Can make me laugh even if he's not making a joke or even if the jokes stupid.

3. Amazingly adorable to me.

4. Can be, a cutely, stupid and weird.

Answer 122

Looks, gentleness and a sense of humour

Answer 123

body: a little muscular and not too skinny

appearance: ginger hair (good haircut would be nice) and blue/green eyes

personality: understanding, honest, knows how to have fun but is mature, lots and lots of patience, compliments me because of my low self-esteem :P, smart, good job, loves kids.

Answer 124

Do not listen to the deceptive, manipulative, predictable, dishonest nonsense girls say.

They lie out of their scummy teeth.

Girls only look for:



*Tall height

*White skin

*Looks

*Social status

*Popularity

*Money



That is all they care about.

They are superficial, shallow, ignorant, narrow-minded, vain, cruel, heartless, scummy, degenerate,

bigoted, materialistic, selfish, racist creatures who judge and measure a guy's human worth by

his height, race, skin color, social status and income.

Answer 125

Mutually common feelings for each other, though with diverse interests and Mutual respect.

Answer 126

honestly i like when a guy is sensitive when he will do anything in his power to make me happy to make me feel loved he has to have dark hair and pretty eyes he has to be taller than me and be able to lift me up he has to be devoted to me but know that he can spend time with the guys he has to love me unconditionally and he has to be the one

Answer 127

1. Money

2. Money

3. Money

4. Money

5. Large penis

Answer 128

can i say i have found the gay that has everything iam looking for smarrt, funny, treaqts me with respect, conferts me when iam sad likes to spend time with me tall and very good looking he is also like my best friend when i need somone to talk 5to

Answer 129

Fidelity.

Answer 130

A guy who always cares me and love me.

Answer 131

I like funny, sensitive, attractive mature men who i have great chemistry with and someone who I can have good conversations with and is pleasant to be around.

Answer 132

friendly geeky sweet romantic

I don't really care for looks just as long as he is a bit chubby

Answer 133

Wow, I like the opposite of all these girls

Answer 134

Nice, respectful,caring, someone who would try to make things work no matter what and understand me, has a future.

Answer 135

Eyes because you can look into them and get lost and sometimes getting lost is what you need

Answer 136

Good qualities such as caring, honest, funny, faithful and loyal, active, outgoing, confidence, ect

Answer 137

I only have one

Their personality

Answer 138

Guy who is caring,loving,always there no matter what time,mature,knows what he wants,protective,helpful,great listener,know how to treat ladies,manners. Trust plays the huge part if you don't have trust you have NOTHING!

Answer 139

Lets turn this question on it's head; they aren't after anything like me. I am the definition of what women consider 'trash'.

Answer 140

just looking through some of the answers, Character, honesty, doesn't seem to be high on the list,

Answer 141

looks

Answer 142

A guy who appreciates , cool, cute, chat good, not sticky, not be lacking , with affinities.

Answer 143

has to be a dork, great smile, fun, accepting, cooperative, respectful of my feelings, dont want to make me sad, sweet, cute messages, tall, lean, cute, dark hair, stuff simple like that

Answer 144

Let's see... his loyalty and kindness. That's all. If he just abandons me for no reason, then that's not very good, is it?

Answer 145

Personality is all that matter its what they do and if they judge me by my looks forget about tryin to be with me... looks? pfft!! why do you judge girls on that? personality ,once again, is what truly matters!!

Answer 146

good shoulders and poster is v attractive. a good w a great smile, and an affectionate guy

Answer 147

A sweet heart, cutie pie.

Answer 148

Can't say coz I'm a guy!

Answer 149

Good looks, confidence, a good sense of humour and a huge d*ck.

Answer 150

someone like lee soo hyuk...tall.reallll man not boy,cute smile,have good taste in music movies books and open mind,super kind with me and notron with other ;)

Answer 151

His smartness and lovely caring nature.I want these two qualities in my guy

Answer 152

HONESTY. most important. then sense of humor, personality, atttractiveness.... height's a big one- i'm 5'10

Answer 153

great sense of humor, smile, fit but not hulked out, intelligent, kind, generous, loving, can hold a conversation, not shy.

Answer 154

Their hair, smile, eye color, smell, maturity, personality, interaction with socially unstable people, generosity, popularity, etc.

Answer 155

Sincerity, truthfulness, and he must be able to have a relationship. No players!

Answer 156

always look good, smell good, know how to treat a girl, honest

Answer 157

a guy that is respectful and don't call me names

Answer 158

Someone who is not shallow and someone who would not change anything about me other than my last name and a Christian.

Answer 159

Someone who is tall smells good and gives good hugs

Answer 160

My answers is so precise and to the point now this should be the best answers for ur question

Answer 161

I want a man that is hung like a mule

Answer 162

Honesty and kindness... Someone who is faithful and makes me laugh

Answer 163

personality,character,nature,loyalty , average looking,helpful n kind n above all funny

Answer 164

like john, i was looking for a guy like john...when he's with me, not his many lovers before me:))

Answer 165

Eyes of innocence.

Answer 166

I want someone who is kind, who genially cares about me, who treats me right, who makes me laugh and smile. I want someone who loves me for me flaws and all and not just someone who only wants me for sex.

Answer 167

faithfulness, a good personality and a sense of humor that cracks me up.

Answer 168

look for his kindness and the way he look like,good friend and thankful

Answer 169

Just care about be, and don't ever be a jerk

Answer 170

confidence, good hygiene nice shoes and a smile that melts

Answer 171

A pulse, usually.

Answer 172

well most of my things are said above but there's one thing i don't want one of those boys who just wanna sit on the couch and kiss (yuck!)

Answer 173

personality and physically appearacnce ans somemoney ans nomore

Answer 174

sense of humor, physical attraction, honesty, driven and motivated

Answer 175

i like guy who is willing to share everything with me.. soft-hearted.. just be himself, loyal n honest.. :) credit : good looking.. :)

Answer 176

i look to see if his buldge is sticking out of his shorts

Answer 177

humor cute kind smart intellangent

Answer 178

personality

Answer 179

being honest and never ever be ashamed of the girl

Answer 180

Dark hair, tall, good person, good humoured.

Answer 181

if he respects every women then nothing else matters he is perfect to me

Answer 182

Someone who never gets angry and never goes behind your back.

Answer 183

love

Answer 184

A really big Dick

Answer 185

honest, polite, handsome , easygoing , traveller

Answer 186

Stability, in all aspects.

Answer 187

usually if you are sweet funny im attracted to your personality it doesn't matter if your ugly. but i do tend to go for good looking guys anyways idk

Answer 188

HE CANT LIVE IN HIS MOMS BASEMENT

HE HAS TO HAVE A GOOD PAYING JOB

NOT A PHONE ADDICT

NOT A CHEATER

Answer 189

heart

Answer 190

kind hearted, hard working, and easy on the eyes

Answer 191

i like older guys, dark hair, dark eyes, giant dick

Answer 192

if there funny

if they look good,

good personality,

brave

Answer 193

humor

Answer 194

A vagina. And a tumblr.

Answer 195

happiness

Answer 196

honesty

Answer 197

confidence

Answer 198

i like talented guys...

Answer 199

honesty and sincerity first

Answer 200

someone who is polite and respectful.

Answer 201

honest, nice, deep, caring.

Answer 202

$omeone that lovs me for who i am

Answer 203

caring and henstly

Answer 204

se

Answer 205

nice p

Answer 206

look

Answer 207

money and looks duhh.

Answer 208

big heart

Answer 209

hopefully his insides

Answer 210

erm

Answer 211

gorgous looks-- physically fit aND LONG LONG HARD COCKS

Answer 212

charisma

Answer 213

charming

Answer 214

penis's

Answer 215

big bats

Answer 216

beastmode

Answer 217

genuine-ness

Answer 218

genuineness

Answer 219

personalty

Answer 220

personalita

Answer 221

me

Answer 222

non-judgemental

Answer 223

A vagina.

Answer 224

money

Answer 225

>Charecter...

Answer 226

MASSIVE penis

Answer 227

idk..

Answer 228

Idk