Question:
Does my guy best friend like me or is it just really good friendship?
ilove&&confused
2010-01-12 05:05:27 UTC
I am having trouble determining if my guy best friend likes me or if it is just really good friendship. We have known each other for 3 years now, but we just recently became best friends. I have liked him for a while now, and he knows due to some strange internet thingy between his guy best friend and me. So we are always together and nothing con separate us, its like we are joined at the hip. We talked about me liking him so many times before face-to-face and over myspace. He explained to me that I am his best friend and if we did date and things happened the chance of us being friends would be like 0% and he doesnt want to lose me. He also said that if I wasnt his best friend I would have had a chance. I didnt know how to react but just simply say ok. He is always talking about other girls, and making me feel bad, but once he notices I am upset he always knows how to cheer me up right away. He is always hugging me, and tickling me, and complimenting me, and just making me feel really good about myself. He tells me that if I am upset, he is going to be upset, and if I cry then he is going to cry. He is sacrificing all these girls to make me feel better, and I cant do that. Also he is always saying i love you to me, and he loves my mother, and my mother loves him. He is always putting his arm around me, but whenever someone brings up him dating me (not by my asking) he is always like "I cant date her, she is my best friend!!" Like there is some law keepin him from me. But just recently he has been playing with my hair, and he just recently told me to kiss him, and i didnt know what to do. Like when im not near him i feel like crying and the only person I think of is him. I try to imagine my life if I just gave up on him, but it never works, I imagine myself heartbroken and depressed....Someone please help me...
Six answers:
Genius by birth slacker by choic
2010-01-12 05:17:59 UTC
lol this dude is in LOVE with you. the reason why he's talking about other girls is because he doesn't want to mess up with you, so he he looks for someone he CAN mess up with.. let his love grow. Now because he's in love he's going to be doing some crazy things. Do NOT talk about dating, he's afraid to do that, and if YOU bring it up, he'll get scared and shut down. let him bring it up when he's ready. You got something good going here. but try to lead him away from the other girls, but also try your best to keep him from realizing that your doing that.

Do what i suggest, and keep me updated. i'll like to here about this. This is something cool, lol
MindOne
2010-01-12 13:20:44 UTC
I personally think he's just thinking if the long run when dating is brought up.. However it would be very confusing to determine whether he realy likes you when he's sending all these mixed messages! Try and figure out your stance with him. But be careful, I've known so many people that have dated their good friends and best friends, most of the time it can just end up awkward and losing a good friend because the whole relationship has gotten much more serious..
lolly25
2010-01-12 13:26:43 UTC
that genius guy is right, he so loves you, no man in my experience has acted they way as a "friend" unless gay of course. men dont like to be nagged though, let him come to the conclusion and be receptive when he makes that approach.
Vijaikumar B
2010-01-12 13:20:44 UTC
It has devloped love in friendship, try to be honest to each other that will carryout what you have in your mind and heart
Jeffery
2010-01-12 13:14:01 UTC
You are upsetting him.
the champ
2010-01-12 13:10:16 UTC
if i were him i'd kick ur asss !!!


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