My Girlfriend Is Fat And Lazy. Should I Dump Her?

Question

My Girlfriend Is Fat And Lazy. Should I Dump Her?

Answer 1

I think that you should start with yourself. Try losing some weight and only eat healthy foods and go to the track and work out yourself. It might inspire her to go along with you and get healthier too! If that doesn't work, you can always try planning some fun physically strenuous activities, like rock climbing (which depending on how heavy she is might not be fun so you might want to save that for later), ice skating/roller skating, kayaking, biking, hiking. You also should let her know in the gentlest way possible that you'd like her to get healthy with you- don't say it's because she's fat or overweight, but that you're concerned about her health and you don't want her to get like her mother where she needs to take insulin shots. Also, try to keep her continuously full with healthy snacks like nuts which will keep her from getting late night cravings and from getting too hungry inbetween meals when she's at your house (so hopefully she doesn't go to taco bell). Good luck!! Otherwise, if she isn't going to lead the same lifestyle as you and share the same life goals as you then you can tell her that and that you don't feel like it's going to work out anymore.

Answer 2

Look, if you are not attracted to her and you're not compatible because you have different interests / goals, break up.



In a long-term relationship, there are always times when we are not so attracted to the other person. But this sounds like something more serious. It sounds like you don't want to be with her. Also, if you're just dating (you don't have kids or a house, you haven't been together for years), then you may as well move on. Good luck.

Answer 3

i would dump her bt not because she fat cuz dats fucked up, i would dump her cuz she has no job and oesn do anythin wit her life which means if yall start livin together u will have to clean everythin and pay 4 anythin and dats not a healthy relationship, if i was u i would tell her dat i felt like she is usin me for money since im payin 4 everythin and dat if she doesn find a job im leavin her, if she loves u she will understand

Answer 4

Tell her you love her but you want her to get in shape.

But find a very nice way to say it.

I'm sure you do love her and you don't want to just dump her cause shes 'fat'.



But if she honestly doesn't want to get healthy tell her why you have a problem with that.



And if shes like 10-30lbs overweight then she is fine and you need to relax.

Answer 5

yep, not because she IS fat or lazy, but because you think she is and you asked the question that way.



Also dump her because she has no plans and no job...unless you are both 10 years old, and then I would say you are both being retarded, and then move on.

Answer 6

Talk to her

Answer 7

beauty is in the eye of beholder...

don't dump her because of her outside

follow ur intuition

look at her inside :D

Answer 8

I would dump her. I can garentee she will end up like her mom ewww

Answer 9

Who do you think you are? I can't believe I have just read this. Let me tell you now, If you really loved her,

1) You wouldn't LOOK at other girls.

2) You would love her whatever she looked like;It's what's in the inside that counts.

3) You would stand by her and not be so offensive even if you felt that way.



You need to end it with her. You're not inlove with her, and this is no healthy relationship.

Answer 10

I dont think you are being shallow,,If someone was ugly and you liked everything else about them but wouldnt be with them because of their looks i would call that shallow. Weight is a differant thing in my opinion. I know some people put on weight due to medical conditions and other reasons..but it seems like your gf has just gotten lazy and likes herself a bit of junk food. The fact that you also said she has no job and is going nowhere..and that she doesnt seem to want to lose the weight whatsoever, are all things that would definatly turn me off someone. We all have specific things we want in a mate..and it seems these are not characteristics you want in yours. I love my bf and i tell him that i wouldnt care what he looked like, but he still goes to the gym and keeps himself healthy, firstly for himself,and also he says to look good for me. And im in no way a health freak but i believe in looking after myself, And i do believe that attraction and sex is a big part of relationships. Its not everything..but it is a big part. If she doesnt have respect and love for herself she cant expect someone else to. ...I think you should talk to her seriously about your concerns for her health, and how her eating habits are also starting to rub off on you and you dont want that because putting on weight is making you unhappy. If you love her and want to be with her tell her that..but if you dont then dont use her weight as an excuse, just end it.

If you want to make it work tell her you are serious about losing weight and you'd like if she tried so the both of you can be healthy and happy.good luck to you both!

Answer 11

she doesn't sound like someone i'd want to stay with.



how does she afford the brownies

Answer 12

Bro... Easy. Dump her. Well done for getting this far. I genuinely vomit, sometimes projectile when I see fat lazy chicks.

Answer 13

sometimes you have to free willy

Answer 14

So you would leave someone just because of how they look ?



Just remember why you loved her in the first place....

Answer 15

Dump her, because she deserves someone better than you.