Does she fancy me and what does she want? PLEASE REPLY!!?

Question

ok this is a longggggg story, but thanks for reading. I am going insane wondering if this girl likes me. I have known her for about 6 months and I work with her but she has a boyfriend :( I don't think telling her I like her is a good idea and it's against my morals. I would however like to know your thoughts on this please.

Well, we have very strong chemistry and we are always flirting and bantering with each other. She always tells me she loves me, always breaks the touch barrier- touching my stomach, hands, regularly puts her arms around me and kissing me on the cheeks. She always says I cheer her up and that she couldn't live without me and is pleased I entered her life and that she loves it when I work with her. She is always desperate for me to attend parties that work colleagues throw as well.

She also said it makes her sad seeing me upset. She was saying the other day that there are several people she would like to **** and not to take it the wrong way, but I am one of them. (so i know that at least she finds me attractive). I had just gotten out of a 3 year relationship with a girl.

She gets really interested in girls that I fancy (celebrities) and if I tell her that a girl has hit on me then she just ignores it or moves on to another subject. She gets very jealous when I banter with other girls and always tries to get my attention when this is happening by talking to me about one of our private jokes or hugging me or teasing me. Sometimes she makes snide comments and passes them off as a joke.

She also said in front of one of our work colleagues that she loved me and I was like her work girlfriend! I'm so confused by her behaviour. However, when she is with her boyfriend, she doesn't reply to any of my messages or gives me one word answers. When she is with us both in person (I try to avoid this situation as it kills me) she acts like I'm not there.

I don't understand her behaviour- it is really frustrating me. I know I shouldn't be sniffing around her when she is in a relationship, but you can't help who you like. Recently she has started saying 'friend' alot to me but still acting very flirtatious. Why is she giving me such mixed signals? Please reply I would really appreciate it :)

Thanks!

Answer 1

well thats what girls ar elike... seh likes you its so obv.. shes giving you these mixed signals because girls like to do that.. they dont want to be too obv or anything,, or maybe she doesnt know if she like you or not? idk have a talk to her but first flirt a bit to see how she acts and ask about her boyfriend and questions that hint about your feelings towards her.

PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION I AM SO CONFUSED D:

Answer 2

She might like you but because she has a boyfriend you should probably not interfere with that. Just keep being nice to her and if things are meant to be they will happen in time.

Answer 3

My guess is she really likes you and probably wants to get out of her relationship to be with you.

Answer 4

yes she does