Why do my friends say I'm acting weird ever since I got a bf.They also said i don't like the idea of me datein?

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I don't think,I changed since i got a bf.My friends do.They started getting curious about me,ever since they saw me and my bf doing something,over at my house.Well they came in,in the morning.My bf came over to my house late that night,and we started doing stuff like kissing more stuff but not sex.We ened up sleeping together in my bed cuddleing he was like shirtless and i just had my pj's on.The next thing you know its morning,I heard a nock on the door.And I didn't care who it was,when im sleeping I just say what ever i need to say to keep the noise down.So i said come in.My eyes were still closed.They came and say hey! I sat up and said what are you guys doing here?My bf sat up since i was being so loud...He said what the heck is going on?My friends just looked at us,and said oh my god were sorry they left.I got ready and stuff.My friends were in the kitchen 5 of them came in.My mom probably let them in...
I went into the kitchen and asked why are you guys here?They said remember cheerleading pratice?Then they said and we have soccor pratice later in the day.I told them i completely forgot.Then one them said yeah because of your bf.We don't like the idea of you dating him.I said why do you guys think that?They just shrugged.Then my best best friend were really close.She said I think hes going to use you,I mean like i been around you long enough to know that you let guys take control of you,they say what they need to say to get you to have sex.I said thats not true in a low voice.I told her we didn't have sex.So said so,but still i think later on he is.Then my bf came down the flight of staris and turned into the kitchen and said come on babe I have basket ball pratice.I told him I can't my friends came here to remind of my cheerleading pratice.He said oh,then he grabbed my hand softly and pulled me I was on the wall and he was leaning over me whispering in my ear.I was looking at my friends at the same time.I went over to them and said I can't make it to pratice today.They said why not?I said stuff just came up.They said alright,then my best friend said yeah so i guess your not going to make it to soccor pratice also?I said I'm making that.She said yeah okay.Then they left.
My bf said come over to my place tonight.I said okay.my friend text me and said what did he whisper in my ear,my best friend.I told her,my bf told me not to tell me anyone what he told me I don't know why.Then she text me she said oh,then she said just be careful that you don't lose yourself?I said okay.Okay im 15 and my friends are 15 my bf 17.This happen yesterday.Then she text saying just don't let him talk you into something that you don't want to do.Which i don't i think he does..I text her back'
saying okay.



So like why were they saying im changeing and stuff,acting weird.And said they don't like the fact I'm dating??I just don't belivive that they said hes useing me and stuff.That was our first time,sleeping together.

Answer 1

He seems a little clingy, it looks like your friends are a little annoyed at you for canceling your plans, and losing time with you since you have a bf now. I`d suggest paying more equally spread attention to both your bf AND your friends. Someday, maybe when you break up with your bf, you`re going to need your friends more than ever. Your friends feel second to your bf, which they`re not used to. But you also have to let your friends know that you love your bf a lot, and you need to set aside time for him too, but don`t cancel plans you already made for your friends. You always have to remember that in life, when the rest of the world walks out, a true friend walks in.



Goodluckk ! (:

-Sarah

Answer 2

well that was kinda weird and i would never say something like that to one of my guy frands because i'd be too afraid he''d get the wrong idea and get hurt but the fact that you even posted this kinda seems like to me that you maybe do like him like that. I mean what you said was true and honest meaning, the whole "i would tell yu my crush unless it was you thing" but it seems like one of those uneccessry peices of information. Hes probably acting weird because he thinks you like him and that way and maybe he doesnt or maybe he does and you should ask him whyhe's acting weird but i woukldnt suggest bringing up that conversation because refering to things in particular might make him think that you are lying. Just act like you dont iknow why he's acting weird when you ask him if that even is the reason in the frist place? Kay . Hope I Helped =)

Answer 3

WTF. What parent would actually allow for their teenage daughters boyfriend to stay the night. Open minded or not, restraint is a lesson that's needed here. There is a time & place for this behavior and 15 isn't it...



Yes you're blowing off your responsibilites and your friends are 100% correct to try and set you straight. (ie practice that you've dedicated yourself to being there since you are part of a team). You're not just hanging out with your bf... you're actually flaking off at the expense of your team(s).



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I'm rather alarmed at your other questions. Long story short, you have to respect yourself before you can expect any guy guy to respect you. As long as you are easy, you'll only attract garbage that will only be around for one thing: trying to get into your pants. At this rate (if any of these postings are the honest truth) you'll end up with an STD and/or a pregnancy all before the age of 18 when you're adult life just begins.

Answer 4

sorry but this is too long and i havent read it or but maybe ur friends miss seeing u all the time since u spead less time with and with ur bf

also how old r u?? cus they mite feel tht u and ur bf r moving too fast and u shud let them no how far ur willing too go with him



try and let them know how much u like him and how u wud like them to give him a chance and if they dnt get on with him tell them u do and ull like themto except tht u need to spead time with him as well as them

Answer 5

Your friends are just scared & are tying to look out for you. You should try spending equal amounts of time between your friends and your boyfriend.

Answer 6

essay.....