Question:
Why did he see me for a month, ask me to see him again, ditch me 2 days later and start a relationship?
Amy
2011-03-03 13:42:11 UTC
I was seeing this guy for a month between January and February. He took me out quite a few times, and I did sleep with him. But I thought it was going well, he was always texting me saying things like 'sleep well x' or 'have a good day x' and he told me he thought I was nice, sweet, funny and that he wanted to see me again. I went home from uni for a week, came back and he asked to see me the same day. A few days later he was telling me to forget him, and that he didn't want to see me again. I still can't understand it now because it was right at the point I had feelings for him :( Afterwards I was so upset about it because I know I'm a good person, and if it was just for s*x I can't believe he would do that because he told me hes not like other guys, that he wanted a relationship and that I should trust him. A week later after he had wanted to see me/then told me he didn't want to, he was in a relationship on facebook. I don't know how he could be seeing me for a month and slept with me, and now hes in a relationship? His friend told me early on that he dances around girls and tries it on with girls but isn't after a serious relationship. Did he ditch me because I wasn't good enough? I put alot in to being nice and sweet to him!
Three answers:
Maybaby
2011-03-03 13:45:37 UTC
Guys can seem amazing and really just be major dicks! I know it might hurt and you feel like your the problem but your not. One day you will meet a guy who accepts you and loves you just the way you are! This guy clearly wasn't him, so move on and forget him... your better off without him!
2011-03-03 13:50:28 UTC
Of course you are good. he is the jerk. The one who does not deserves your attention. He is messing around. And don't trust when someone tells you "im not like the other guys" because they usually are worse than the other guys.
2011-03-03 13:46:33 UTC
.....it isnt you. There are a lot of men who cant commit to one woman and use them. It does seem like he used you for sex. Not judging, but you shouldnt have slept with him in the first place. I do hope everything works out for you!!!!!


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