Pressured to send dirty pics?

Question

My guy friend Andrew likes me a lot and I like him too. Last night, he was begging me to send him pics of myself with my shirt off and I said no. 10 min later, my other guy friend Shane asked the same thing. They both hang out but Andrew doesn't like Shane at all. Maybe it was pure coincidence they were both asking me at the same time?

Well I use to like Shane and now he admits to liking me but I only like Andrew. Andrew said,"You just don't trust sending me a pic, do you?" I can't trust anyone, no matter how close we are. So I never sent either one of them a pic. Do you think they were both secretly ganging up on me?

Answer 1

i definitely think something's up! don't do it, i'm sure they have every intention of showing other people! best wishes

Answer 2

I would not send pictures like that to anyone- you did the right thing.



How do you know what they are going to do with your picture? (they can send it to all the guys in school)



Besides why do they want a picture of you with your top off. That is not cool. That is wrong and disrespectful.



You like the guy and he is trying to pressure you to doing something you don't want to do, not fair.



I wouldn't trust Andrew or Shane since both asked you for the same thing at about the same time.



Besides you think they don't like each other you don't know that for sure, they could talk online or over the phone at home.



Think about it - anyways, don't ever send anyone any dirty pic's of yourself that could always come and slap hard in the face later on.

Answer 3

Hey, once the pics are out there, no matter what these two jokers say, they will be out there forever. You will never know IF or WHEN they may turn up again. You will have NO control over copies or where they are sent or posted. You will always be looking over your shoulder wondering if they will turn up again.



Lets put it this way, would you take a topless picture of yourself and post a copy on a store window somewhere for the world to see? Now, imagine that same photo being duplicated with the touch of a computer key and then being sent all over with the stroke of a "send" key.



I think the answer to your question is clear. Don't do it. You will live to regret it. Especially since these two obviously can't be trusted.

Answer 4

Here's the thing: If you can't trust the one you like, then you can be sure that he's not your true love. =] So, lucky you, that means that you have a chance that your love won't be a nasty perverted pig like Andrew and Shane! If you really need to, you can talk to them. It may be awkward, but it'll help. I think its best just to stay friends if they really make you feel uncomfortable or ask you for dirty pictures. If they ask you for pictures, its a sign that they don't respect you. I wouldn't be worried if they were both ganging up on you, I would be worried if they didn't respect you. And don't go against your morals. Good luck!

Answer 5

first of all dont ever send a naked picture of yourself to anyone. no matter how much you like or trust them things can happen and then your picture could get in the wrong hands or seen by the wrong person. it seems pretty weird that they both asked. i think andrew may have said something to shane about you not sending one and shane asked to see if he could get it. it seems like they were in it together. but never ever do that. no matter how much they try and convince you. it's just not a good idea.

Answer 6

Do not do it! I hate it when guys ask that question. Even if the guy has good intentions, the pic could fall into the wrong hands and cause you a lot of pain and embarassment.



I have been in the same situation. The guy was asked me to send him a "nice" picture of me. So I went to Victoria's Secret and copied a pic of a model who had on a similar outfit and said "Here you go!"

Answer 7

It doesn't matter if they were ganging up on you or not. They were trying to see how far you would go. You did the right thing by not sending them a picture like that. Then they would think of you as a slutt (even if they were the ones who asked for it). They would have lost respect for you and asked for more after that. They're just being a typical guy by asking but you were being a mature woman by not falling for it. That's great!

Answer 8

I think it doesn't really matter whether or not they were ganging up on you. The real issue is that if you don't want to send "dirty" pictures of yourself to them, then don't. They should respect that.





Personally, I don't even know what you would see in a guy who would even ask that you do this...



Obviously he really cares about you and is interested in you as a person...

Answer 9

Those boys are playing a game with you. they both most likely knew they were on-line and have each others screen names and were talking. They were competing to see who could get pics of you first, nothing more than that. Be a lady and don't send any. you wouldn't want them circulating if either got mad at you. Revenge is a dirty thing.

Answer 10

Doesn't matter if they were ganging up or not. They were out-of-line for asking, and insulting you by assuming you're fool enough to put your image out there not knowing what might be done with it.



Bravo you for refusing. Once you send such a picture to someone, you've no control over when or how it's used. It could haunt you for years...

Answer 11

Sounds like it; either they're both filthy guys or Andrew asked Shane to get you to do it.



I don't think they're the right friends for you; nobody should try to pressure you into doing things like that, especially if you don't feel comfortable doing them.

Answer 12

Respect yourself and others will respect you. Don't give in to the pressure to do something you know is not in your best interest. Andrew and Shane are not being your friends. Friends don't pressure friends to things they don't want to do. Do yourself a favor and find new friends.

Answer 13

Don't ever ever send dirty pictures to anyone not even yourself. You are a women and were not made to show anyone but your husband your body. Trust what your heart tells you and it should tell you there is something wrong with the whole thing.

Answer 14

Don't send him any pics. They are probably both in it together. Don't let Andrew play the guilt card on you. Ignore those Qs and change the subject

Answer 15

This is a prelude to group sex, then these two are trying you but think that you don't know. Now send them a pic of some one else's breast! Then the joke will be on them!!

Answer 16

I would NOT do it. There has go to be a reason that the two of them asked you the same question so close in time to one another. That's not even something the I have ever been asked!!

DON'T DO IT!!!

Answer 17

I'm glad you didn't send either of them a pic. They could have been ganging up on you but I really don't know.

Answer 18

Of course they were. Think really hard before you do anything like sending naked pics of yourself to anyone. You dont want to be THAT girl at school tomorrow do you?

Answer 19

I looked at a lot of your answers and am happy to see so many smart young people out here

I will add my 2 cants worth and suggest that you reevaluate you relationship with these losers

Answer 20

i think so...sounds too much of a coincidence to be just that...they were either talking to each other or both signed in and the same place and hope u would have said yes to one of them so that they both could see...

Answer 21

Do not EVER send or give anyone anything that can be embarrasing to you later!!!!!!!!! It is for sure that eventually it will be seen by not only someone but EVERYONE. Don't put yourself in that situation ever. If it happens, it will not go away overnight.

Answer 22

Yeah they were probably trying to get you a pic so they could look at it and laugh that they got you to do it. Good idea not sending it! Ignore their requests. If there's anything to be learned from celebrities, it's that naked pictures ALWAYS get out. Don't distribute them!

Answer 23

Sounds like it could be a set up.. don't go sending guys out pics of yourself... have them send them shots first.. so how quick they are to show you their little willie... keep your shirt on and your integrity intact.

Answer 24

yes, I am sure they were both talking, it is too coincidental- I would never send naked pictures to anyone, they can always use it against you no matter how good a friend the person is to you now

Answer 25

Yes, and I think you would be crazy to send them anything that you didn't want blasted all over the internet. Make new friends!

Answer 26

There probably ganging up on you but evan if they arent dont send dirtty pics its not good and they probably will show lots of people.

Answer 27

yes.i think they were teaming up on you to see if they can trust you =) dont send any one oics. im a guy and i would never ask any of my girl friends to send pics of them selfes. especially online were things get hacked into.

Answer 28

Yeah, they want to run a train on you. Don't send the pics, it will only lead to woe later.



At best, you will find them one day spanking off to it (probably together).

Answer 29

Absolutely. The best thing you could do is forget about them and find someone else. Because as long as you associate with them they're going to bother you relentlessly.

Answer 30

I would not send either of them nude/topless pictures! You have no idea what they might do with them (pass them around to their friends, etc). Anyone who uses peer pressure (the trust comment) to convince you to do something, isn't worthy of your friendship, let alone worth doing something you're uncomfortable with. Stick to your guns!

Answer 31

Send nothing it will only coming back to haunt you. Sounds like typical young guy behavior.

Answer 32

Yes, they were ganging up. You are wise not to send it. You never know where it could end up, even years from now. If they cared about you, they wouldn't want you to risk that.

Answer 33

yes they are trying to get pics of you so they can use them for something , never show yourself on the net , you never know what will happen , your best bet would be to not have them as friends

Answer 34

Never send dirty pictures.

Answer 35

I think so since they were both asking at the same time.

Answer 36

Yea guys are like that, one of my friends tried to get me to get pics out of one of my friends that are girls. At first i was happy and wanted them to but then me and her talked and i just said that i couldnt get them. He was mad but got over it. So yea they probably are doing something.

Answer 37

Girl i must have low morals coz i done it so many times!! But only coz i wanted 2... If they are pushin u in2 it tell them to fvck off it's ur body ur choice not theirs... bOYS will be boys won't they lmao

Answer 38

yes they are conspiring together. Don't do it. You will only feel bad about yourself afterwards and give them something to hold over your head and show it to everyone else. Not a good reputation for yourself.

Answer 39

Yes, i think they were in it together...dont send a pic of yourself...they are not true friends..they dont respect you at all.

Answer 40

Could be, they might wanted to just be mean and spread them around and call you names. Good for you for standing your ground and not sending them.

Answer 41

i think they are... just watch your back... a real friend wouldnt pressure you to do something that made you feel uncomfortable...i dont know ho old you are but you should forgive them but if they put you on the spot again then find new friends

Answer 42

No, they were probably just fooling around and hoping to get a naughty picture out of you.



Good for you, not sending one though! Cheeky b*******!

Answer 43

yes and you did the right thing by not sending them the photos... dont send nude photos to anyone! they will eventually end up in the totally wrong place!!

Answer 44

They are wanting to expose you!

Don't lower yourself to their stupidity! They will just pass the picture on to other guys to brag amongst themselves!

Answer 45

Don't ever send pictures of yourself like that. It's obvious what they are all about.

Answer 46

Coincidence my Donkey! You're being used, OK?

Answer 47

ill check the pics out and make sure they are ok to send

Answer 48

Don't do it. Cauuuse, it's always gonna be a trick.

You might as well just show them in reality, so there won't be no scamming.

Answer 49

Do NOT send naked pictures of yourself - you never know who will end up with them or who will end up seeing them.

Answer 50

"Do you think they were both secretly ganging up on me?"



Yes. It's called a bet.

Answer 51

Dont send them. You know he is sitting around with his buddies showing them off!!

Answer 52

I definetly think so!

good for you, not sending the pictures!

Answer 53

NO DONT EVER SEND DIRTY PICS



they will be stored and remembered and will come back to haunt you

Answer 54

well, you cant really stop them asking you things like that...tell them it makes you uncomfortable...they both sound like those stupid perverted guys that only care about their own pleasure.....



i would jsut ignore it for now...

Answer 55

never send dirty pics!!!1

Answer 56

Just send me the pics, I won't tell. ;)

Answer 57

i think so.

they dont seem like respectble men/boys if you ask me.

i say leave them alone.

stop liking this guy,cause it seems like he likes what you have rather than you.

Answer 58

Most definately. Young men will do anything to see their crushes naked.

Answer 59

yeah if they think you a hoe but thn think about you said they can't stand each other right.

Answer 60

They were playing you big time,of course you know that.

Answer 61

Do not do that ever! They will end up in the wrong hands.

Answer 62

I don't think they were ganging up on you. Boys will be boys...pigs at that.

Answer 63

bottom line: don't send the pics.

Answer 64

don't send a pic... why would you... don't let him guilt trip you into it, and they prob were in "cohones"

Answer 65

I think you must have done something really slutty for two guys to all of a sudden think they could get away with asking you to send them dirty pics of yourself.....but that's just my opinion....



***Edit: LMFAO....I love all you r-tard thumbs downers...it's called MY opinion for a f*ckin reason you know!

Answer 66

Dont do it or your boobs will be all over your school cause sounds like you are still in school

Answer 67

dont send them pics at alll....

Answer 68

Yes... and PLEASE DON'T you can't UN-SCREW a VIRGIN, like you can a LIGHT BULB... and you can never TAKE BACK a picture once it's in cyberspace.

Answer 69

Hell yeah!