It seemed like a great date, but now she won't call me back. HELP!!!?

Question

OK so I went on this date with this girl that I have been talking to online for about a month. I talked to her on the phone and everything was going great. So we went out about 2 weeks ago and the date was great. there wasn't a dull moment throughout the night. We were talking about anything and everything. We started to open up and talked about personal problems in our life. She was talking about taking me out to the bars and stuff. The date ended with a hug and seemed it went great. So I call her 2 days later on Friday and no answer. I figured she was out with her friends. I call her on Sunday. No answer. I call her again on Wed. and no answer. I haven't received a call back either. She was on AIM and I tried talking to her but again no answer. She was on again yesterday and no answer. Now I'm just forgetting about her and am gonna move on. If she decides to call me I'm not sure if I even wanna talk to her. I just want to get some incite from other people and see what you think.

Answer 1

I agree with you, forget it. Some people are so phoney, it's pathetic. If she was interested, she would have called you. Sorry, there are better ones out there for you, just keep looking!! Good Luck!!

Answer 2

I guess I've been in a similar situation, I went out with this guy and the date was fun and we talked and the guy was really nice but I knew once I met him that therewas no spark and never was going to be one. Since I thought that maybe he'd be a good friend I discussed potential outings we might go on later and we left the date with a hug. After I got home I thought about it, I could tell the guy was really into me and was not going to be OK with just being friends. So he called a few times and I didn't pick up, eventually I answered to tell him I just couldn't date him.



Unfortunately in your situation this girl doesn't have the guts to own up to the decision she has made. Ignoring someone doesn't do anything.



In response to your question... she's just not into you.. and shes a coward for not admitting it.



Good luck on your dating adventures. I am sure you'll find the right girl soon :)

Answer 3

If she does talk to you again, talk to her. Find out why she didnt call you back.



I had a similar situation where I went out with the girl once, talked to her on the phone every other day (because I couldnt talk to her any other way), and one day she called me and said "I think its best if we just stay friends". I was fine with it, but she just stopped returning my emails. Her friends say that her email thingy was broke and when I see her in the halls of my school, she smiles and sometimes says hi. Im just not sure whats going on, but im kind of past that now.



It could very well be what happened to me. The date went great, but for some odd reason, she wants to brake up and doesnt know how to tell you. I hope that isnt the case, but it is a possibility. I hope I helped you out.

Answer 4

Hmm with this kind of situation you just never know from the outside looking in though it seems like she's ignoring you.. maybe she's found someone. I would just let her be and if she talks to you then talk to her and figure out why she has not been returning your calls and messages.. but don't bug her until then and just move on. There's plenty of girls out there.

Answer 5

properly possibly it wasn't one in all those super of a date as you thought :-) yet on the different hand you recognize she has a history of no longer calling on time, so quit stressing it and arranged with the help of the telephone. She's probable busy individual, or she in simple terms 4got. you should smash the ice with the help of calling her, or perhaps you should deliver her slightly some subject to permit her understand youre nonetheless thinkin approximately her and enjoyed her corporation.

Answer 6

Sounds like a dud to me. Give up and move on. If she was interested, she would have been in contact with you sometime soon after the date. Sorry my friend.

Answer 7

you are right..move on. Obviously the date only went well from your side.

Answer 8

the date may have been fun for you, but obviously she was not that into you and doesn't want a second date

Answer 9

that broad playing games

cancel that b***ch