Is it worth it to date a co-worker?

Question

Is it worth it to date a co-worker?

Answer 1

when considering whether or not to date a co-worker, you should always consider the worst-case scenario and ask yourself if you're okay with that.



if there's a huge power differential, i'd probably say no, unless you're completely sure about this person. i.e. if he/she is your boss. that could turn ugly if things go south.



if it's a small company and you really love your job, i'd also be very careful about getting involved with a co-worker. there again, if things sour between you two, it could potentially make your daily working life awkward and unpleasant for a time.

Answer 2

You should look for any company policies that restrict interoffice relationships. Look out for company rules on disclosure and possible results of trying to hide relationships. I know at our company you cannot date anyone that you work with on a regular basis. I've known people that had to switch teams within the company in order to be allowed to date. A few of those couples are now married and still working at the same company.



I've also known someone that tried an office romance and it didn't work and it has made for extremely awkward work environment even if they only see each other once a month and pass each other in the hall. He lied to her and treated my friend really poorly when they were dating, but she still has to be cordial in the business setting and at corporate events.