how to make him feel good?

Question

we are going through a stormy time, long distance. but we will be moving together in about a month. each day away seems to be getting harder though, because we knew what we wanted two years ago. he lives in the US, i live in the UK. we have so much together, but days are feeling so long. and i just wanna make him feel good while he's waiting.

Answer 1

ok -how do you make him feel good? if he is a man-its his job to ask how can he make you feel good after 2 years this is a joke-be real -reality check-first let Jesus into your heart to be able to deal with anything and then let Jesus direct and lead you to deal with the situation. in His amazing grace and thanks

Answer 2

Well, for starters, you can write him emails or call, whatever is what you can either afford or feel more comfortable with.... I know that if I lived along way away from somone, it would mean the world to me, to get email, or a phone call from that special somone.... You don't have to be mushy in your messages, just tell him about your day, or week or whatever... Make him feel like he is part of your life, becuse infact thats what you are, but right now it doesn't feel like it, becuse of the distance... And you can tell him the mushy stuff too, but ..It's not always the mushy stuff that holds poeple together, somtimes it takes some rocky times to make a relationship strong.. And when you talk to him, ask him how he is doing, and what his thoughts on this or that are... It's important to have both sides giving the equaly (?) but somtimes somone has to start the cycle going first.. And by example show the other person how you would like to be treated.... And the days will feel long, and they will feel lonley, but that is what will make seeing him again worth the wait...

Answer 3

Way back when I was stationed in Germany and my wife was in the states. I made a rule to never no matter what, argue on the phone! And never never any personal stuff like "I can't take it conversations. Those are letter subjects The only thing that should be talked about is your love for each other, hows the family and stuff like that. If you must talk about any problems, just talk about how you have solved or are going to solve them, PERIOD. Realize the day to day problems that usually pollute an overseas call cannot be solved by each other and only clutters your call. To this day even if it's a call to each other at work we follow this rule. If you can discipline yourselves to do this you will make it until your face to face. Then it's all out. also patients patience patience.

Answer 4

Long distance relationships don't work, so I'd leave him, and find someone in the UK

Answer 5

talk to him