Well my boyfriend gets mad when i barely say i love him and when he calls me i reject his call.?
Kia
2009-03-17 05:57:08 UTC
I do barely say i love him and i do reject hi calls. I love him i guess i don't express it enough. Can someone give me some advice on how to tell and show him my one and only that i care and love him!
Ten answers:
DJhopskotch
2009-03-17 06:02:56 UTC
don't say you love him, if you don't feel that way 'cause you're just lying to him then.
and why would you reject his call? if you don't want to talk to him then you probably don't love him. if you love someone you'd want to spend every minute with them, so im guessing what you've got there isn't love, k?
sondra
2016-05-22 11:49:12 UTC
You basically crossed a no-no line. You never come between a parent and his or her child and/or give them an ultimatum like that. You will always lose. Unless the parent is a complete loser. How do I know? My husband had a daughter from his first marriage when we got together.. and I was young and stupid and didn't understand what it meant to have a child. I gave him the old "it's her or me" ultimatum, and he of course chose her (that's what a DECENT parent would do). I learned my lesson. We got over that bump because I just got over myself really fast. And now that I have my own kids, I understand completely. If you can't handle him having a child, then you need to move on. "He" is now "them" and will always be that way. It wasn't her fault the relationship fell apart.. it was really yours for not accepting her. Take it or leave it, that's the way it is. It may take you some time to realize it... or you may not realize it at all. Only when you accept her will he ever even consider getting back with you. This may have been a good thing.. maybe you weren't meant to be together in the end. ? Wishing you luck.
anonymous
2009-03-17 06:24:09 UTC
Saying I Love you .. Sounds nice but means nothing in the long run. Showing you care but doing things for him, putting yourself out for him means more. Why do you reject his call? this usually means you dont want to speak to him.. & it sounds like theres an underlying problem there? Sort that out before wastign your time with someone you dont want to be with.. you may love him.. but are you in love with him.. can you see yourselves as old people who no longer have interest for sex, having a good convo's...?Bing interested in what he has to say.. & not ignoring him..
Anamika
2009-03-17 06:08:50 UTC
It is natural to feel ignored if you do not pick up his calls. Start answering his calls and there are several other ways to show your love to him. Do something special for him like cooking him a nice dinner or giving him a surprise.
lolbpc
2009-03-17 06:03:35 UTC
WELL...IF U LOVE HIM U WOULD ANSWER HIS CALLS N TELL HIM U LOVE HIM WHEN U LEAVE N HUG HIM. THT POOR FELLER! IF I WER HIM I WOULD THINK THE SAME THING! BUT YA JUST SMILE @ HIM N SPEND MORE TIME W/HIM N ALSO U HAVE GOTTA SAY I LOOOOOVE U!
(trust me im not crazy lol just hiper)
~Mommy of 2 BEAUTIFUL daughters~
2009-03-17 06:09:21 UTC
you have to answer his calls, and be sure to say you love him *but only if you really do.* you can also spend more time with him, it seems like he feels like he's getting pushed to the side.
anonymous
2009-03-17 06:06:08 UTC
umm why are yall going out if you dont answer his calls and you dont show affection?? maybe you should think bout if you really like him and if it is worth it.
Sierra
2009-03-17 06:00:20 UTC
well for one u could stop ignoring his calls. and say i love you more?
!
2009-03-17 06:00:26 UTC
well... start by answering his calls!
jecka
2009-03-17 06:06:08 UTC
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