My boyfriend lied...?

Question

Today I was on my boyfriend computer to see if he looked at the website I sent and I went to his history and all I saw was porn. He promised me he never watched it because he had everything he needs right here and that it was gross. I feel betrayed. I feel like I'm not good enough to look at already and him doing this is killing my self-esteem. I don't know what to do. He's looking up things like "big tit college girl" and "facefucking" like honestly it disgusted me. I don't want to have sex with him anymore. I don't know what to do. Any thoughts ??

Answer 1

Your boyfriend lied about you about the porn. Honesty is all in a relationship. You should first confront him. If he seems well enough for you, try giving him another chance, but I doubt it will last. If he does anything weird, than break up with him for good.



And don't have sex with him. Don't have sex with a loser who lied to his girlfriend about not seeing porn. Besides the lying, that is somewhat disloyal, I guess. I mean, those girls are real. If he went to a strip club it's basically the same except he's looking at pictures.

Answer 2

Boys will be boys. They're going to look at porn. He's probably embarrassed about it first of all, and second, he knew you wouldn't understand. (You yourself said you find it disgusting). I don't know if I would confront him about it, since you were kind of snooping, but you have to realize all boys look at porn. They realize they're never going to have it for real, so don't worry too much about it, unless he starts wanting to reenact "scenes". Then, get worried lol. If he's with you right now, then he likes you. You might want to talk to him about it in the future, but don't accuse him of doing anything wrong, it could end in a huge fight/breakup. You just might want to admit you found it on his computer while looking for a site you clicked out of. Ask him to be honest about things for now on, no matter what they are, but don't accuse him.

Answer 3

Trust me people dont change ever