No one answered this last time please help how do I get girl to date me after I acted creepy towards her?

Question

I like a girl and have for almost a year and we have talked and such and I get a little "obsessive" about people sometimes so I would screenshot her when she was on webcam and cut out her yearbook pic to put on my fridge and stuff.
Well last night I made the mistake of telling her I did this stuff (I thought it was an intimate moment) and she got creeped out.

Then I said this:
"WAIT DON'T GO WE ARE PERFECT FOR EACH OTHER!!! I AM 6FT AND YOU ARE 5,9 AND WE WOULD MAKE AN AMAZING COUPLE, WE BELONG TOGETHER, YOU ARE ALL I EVER THINK ABOUT"

Then she went offline and I haven't talked to her since :( What can I do to say sorry but still make her like me, because I think she may have. I don't want things to be awkward at school tomorrow.

But you must admit, we would be an amazing couple she is my dream height (5,9) and I'm 6ft and she is the dream weight and dream face and dream personality and I love her hands and her movements and how she talks to people and sits and how she answers questions in class and dresses and her hair colour and her friends and her behaviour..you get it. I love her. I need her. Please help me get her.

Answer 1

ok dude

1. calm down

2. breath

3. and dont be offend

4. if she doesn't feel the same your going to have to move on ok...

5. the next time u like a girl dont tell her all the obsessive crap u do ur just getting urself attached and scaring her away kk

Answer 2

Tell her you were just kidding. I know my profile says I'm a 13 year old male, but truth is I'm a 17 year old girl. If a guy told me that, I'd probably laugh and think its kinda sweet in a creepy way cause I'm just creepy like that too. BUT if I were in her shoes, a "just kidding" would break the ice. It's okay to be obsessive when she's not looking, but try to act normal around her. Don't tell her ANYMORE of ANY SORT behind the scenes. Actually obsessiveness is unhealthy. I know what it's like. It's an uncomfortable feeling, isn't TIT? I was like that when I was younger but not anymore. I'm new to all this question and answering thing on yahoo. It's fun! Helping each other out and such...awesome! I got yo back, son!

Answer 3

Obsessive is the right word and your feelings sound unhealthy to say the least. I think you need to let it go mate. Height, weight and lookss etc and so on are superficial and are the basis of attraction, not a perfect relationship.

Your behaviorr to her will seem scary, hell if a girl said those sort of things to me i would run a mile no matter how pretty she was.

You sound young, there will be plenty more dating opportunities arise if so and i think you have scared the hell out of this one.

My advice, leave her alone or you will probably end up on the wrong side of the law.

Answer 4

You can't make someone like you, but you can try to change their minds. Apologize to her by text and tell her you got a little carried away, but hope you didn't scare her. I hope we can still be friends. That way she will have time to think about forgiving you before tomorrow. You may think she is perfect for you, but she must have a say in this decision. Slow down and be her friend first and then when she gets to know the great guy you are she will decide if she wants to be your girlfriend. Good luck

Answer 5

Dude,



I know love is hard and tough and I know love hurts.



Trust me I have seen it all.



It is time you backed off this girl and gave her some space. I understand you like her and believe you are the perfect match, but the obsessiveness needs to stop.



I can see that you are obsessive, possessive and very easily jealous, this is a massive NO-GO for girls. Sort those areas out first, that is your priority.



Back away a little. You're nearly getting the the stage of becoming a stalker, which will get you in very serious trouble.



;)

Answer 6

Ummm...wow.



First, you need to have a discussion with yourself.

It's good that you realize you probably kind of creeped her out.

Now, you have to make a commitment to being a little less obsessed.



You seem like a sweet guy. Just put it in perspective. You say you love her, but do you really know her that well. I mean, I believe there can be love at first sight, but to truly love someone, you really have got to spend a lot of time with them and love their inner beauty (not just "their dream weight" "their dream height," and their "dream movements."



I would be sure to be a little more casual with this girl.

Don't treat her as a goddess.

First treat her as a friend.

Apologize for possibly creeping her out.

Say you didn't mean to. You just like her a lot, and that you will try to not behave that way.

Take things slow. And if you feel too intense toward this girl, it will be hard, but if you truly care about her, you will not be with her.

I know, it would be super hard. But please, don't do anything too crazy.

Relax, realize that she is just a human being, like you, and take things slow.

Good luck!!

Answer 7

Hi uh I'm gonna be brave and try to help you.....Lets see your best bet is to apologize. I mean yeah that's really creepy. Not A lot of people do this if someone did this to me id be sincerely freaked out. You just cant do that to people i mean how old are you you cant go around doing this and telling people shes the one...you creeped me out just give it time and tell her this exactly."im sorry for freaking you out, I just really liked you and well you are just soBeautifull i wanted to be surrounded by you. And yes it was really weird but i never thought about it that way. All i knew is that i liked you. And i know you probably dont want to talk to me after but if yo ever want to i'll listen IDC what time i just want to be there for you i mean ill take the pictures down. again sorry i just realized id be Really freaked out too but i just want a chance to prove im not that wierd Lol Please i dont want you to go on thinking im some freakish stalker.." ok thats what you need to say. Unless you are a freaky stalker then you dont talk to her ok

Answer 8

Your not a 'little bit obsessive', your completely 'around the bend' obsessed. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but before she even had a chance to find out if your boyfriend material your blew it. You need to give it up and back off before she has to get a restraining order or a 6-4 guy to kick your ....well you get my point. Why you think your relative heights is relevant to your possible compatibility seems rather strange. I suggest that if your want school to be tolerable for both of you, you quietly apologize and back off.

Answer 9

ok well first off all. its ok to feel this way about someone (obsessive) but you need to wait to tell her these things until you are closer and she'll want to say it back and she will understand why your saying it. so drop all the soul mate stuff until you actually get her. For now, just say sorry i got carried away its just i really like you and i would love to have a chance with you." but again, you CAN say these things, just wait until you have a deeper sense of intimacy

Answer 10

Awww, you really do love her! You should first start off by saying that you are sorry for acting that way and that she makes you nervous when you talk to her. Tell her first, if she likes you because she might not feel the same way. Good luck!

Answer 11

i'm afraid this is pretty irreparable. if i was in her shoes i'd be petrified, because the way you've acted is very stalker-like and disturbing. also, movies and other shows may influence this, because the comment that you made to her, might make her scared that you'll take the "if i can't have her no one can" path. you just have to learn from this mistake

Answer 12

That's quite a story... to be honest I don't know if she'll look past this one. I don't think girls want the obsessive type.so good luck.

Answer 13

Um... she's probably really REALLY scared right now. I'd bet that it isn't going to work out...sorry...

Answer 14

dude...you ****** up....bad, and honestly reading what you wrote up there is ******* creepy, if i was that girl and i was hanging around you, id have 911 on ******* speed dial

Answer 15

I think you lost your chance.

Answer 16

be mature in your conversations