i think im being bullied?

Question

theres this guy in my class who thinks hes all that, not a lot of people like him but for some reason he has something against me... he keeps making fun of me and whenever i see him i dont excatly laugh or anything cuz he really ruins my mood... and then hes like ur always sad and stuff.. which is soo not true cuz im a very cheery person.. it pisses me off how he keeps on saying stuff about me and he doesnt even know me! Today he said some **** infront of this other guy and i sware to god i was going to punch him! but i cant do that cuz il probably get suspended, so what should i do about it? thanks in advance

Answer 1

just tell him to get a life and find someone who cares about his opinion.



i had that same problem in junior high. i went to the teachers, councilors, told my parents, it was so bad i even tried to have my classes changed (which they wouldn't do). i wound up throwing a chair at him (you know the ones that have the desk attached). unfortunately that's what it took for it to stop. i hope your bullie is not as bad as mine was. I DO NOT RECOMMEND WHAT I DID!



bullies become bullies because their parents don't teach them right.

Answer 2

He Likes U Its Not Bullying Its Just His Way Of Showing His Feelings 4 U. Thats Quite Similar To How Me And My Boyfriend Got 2gether

Answer 3

This is probably more "teasing" than "bullying" - bullying implies some threat of harm or an attempt to intimidate. This guy is just being a jerk.

Go ahead and talk to a teacher or counselor or principal. They need to know this sort of thing is going on, and they can discreetly talk to the guy about being nicer to people. Your teacher can keep an eye on him in class and move your seats farther apart.

Answer 4

as much as i would love to say "just ignore it" that obviously won't work. ....MAYBE you should talk to him, he seems to be a bit moody, sometimes he's nice but most of the time he's mean. well on those times he's somewhat nice, you should ask him about it. and get some answers, but of course you definetely should talk alone, away from his friends. .....and possibly in a twisted way he's trying to get your attention, and he's just a total knuckle head that needs to be more respectful. so maybe you should give him a taste of his own medicine. i'm stateing all these options for you to decide which one will work best. since i'm not you i don't know the whole story. since you know, pick one, or a few and see which one works. good luck 8)

Answer 5

Boys do tend to extract the urine from girls they fancy. He wants a reaction from you because he cant work out if you would turn him down or not IF he asked you out. OR he thinks you would turn him down so he's gutted and wants to upset you coz you turning him down would hurt his feelings. He won't realise that is why he is doing it though. His main want is to be noticed by you.



The question is do you like him?

Try start a conversation with him coz you'll get to see a different and hopefully nicer side to him.



Hope this helps



Julie.

Answer 6

depends on how badly hes making fun of you. He might just be teasing because he fancies you, as its something a lot of guys do. if he really out of order then just ignore him n dont worry about it. or jus laugh with him, n who knows u could end up goin out Lol

Answer 7

Just ask him if he has a problem with you, & then ask him what you ever did to him. Tell him it is time to start acting like an adult not a little kid who likes to tease & pick on others because he feels low about himself.

Answer 8

Maybe he likes u. This guy in my class pushes me around, and the other day he asked me on a date.



good luck

Answer 9

If he attacks you with words you should do the same, but without swearing.

Answer 10

I ALSO THINKS HE LIKES YOU TOO BUT HE JUST DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO EXPRESS IS FEELING TOWARDS YOU SO HE DOES THE MOST OBNOXIOUS THING TO GET YOUR ATTENTION. TYPICALLY BOYS!!!

Answer 11

Let it go because he problary likes you and if he don't knock the hell out of him.

Answer 12

yep he wants hold your hand

Answer 13

he has a crush on youu!

Answer 14

i think he likes you.