When should you call it quits?

Question

When the communication has turned into fighting and the love has been pushed so far back that you need some time away from the other person. We are calling it quits at this point (or trying to at least) my heart is just not accepting that love has to say "I'm tired." I have found this stong sexual connection with a man and formed a great friendship which has turned into a two yr relationship. We have gotten so tired of fighting to trying to get the other to understand our point of view that it turns into a screaming match. The part I'm having a hard time understanding is...when someone says that they are in love with you,,,shouldn't that mean they are willing to go teh extremes to fight for your love? How far is extreme? I know I will not find the answer my heart needs here, I would just love some great insight on a very confusing day. We are both 29 and have had plenty of relationships to know what is really feels like to connect with someone. When is it really time to go?

Answer 1

it comes down to "when is enough really enough when you love someone?"



there are a few things you can do

1. call it quits and move on

2. call it quits and see if fate brings you back together.

3. work it out



if you try to work it out, you both need to pick your battles. is it really worth getting into a screaming match? be grown, and stop your self if it is getting rediculous. no relationship is perfect, believe me i know. you need to agree to disagree and the biggest thing to remember is never go to bed mad.



if you want to work it out. then do someting extra special for him, to ease the tension. then end the night with some lovin (guys love head) if you don't like to do that candy works wonders on it. pixie sticks with take the nasty out your mouth



good luck in all you do and remember



you will never become who you want to be by remaining who you are.

Answer 2

From what you have said, you seem to have accepted that your present relationship completely and totally sucks the way it is right now. I would say that yes, you both should break up or take a break and let time help things reach an equilibrium. It's possible to be in love with somebody but not be able to get along.....and this makes it really hard to accept. But yeah, get away from the relationship.

Answer 3

dayum....u are going thru the exact same thing as myself...try counseling, but both of u have to really want to the extra mile during couseling sessions. As for me........been there done that, and I'm tired of arguing and I'm over it. Love him til death but I can't risk having a heart attack or going gray just because he doesnt understand where i'm coming from....good luck and I wish u more success than I had.