Is my BF ashamed of me(pic)?

Question

I don’t get it, my bf acts like hes ashamed of me or something. I tell people we are going out… but its like he don’t like people to know.

And when it comes to being around his friends, he don’t like when I just randomly get to making out with him. Do yall guys not like that?? Another bf I had loved it. I normally love to make my guys feel really good informant of their friends. But I feel like he just wants to push me off. He loves it when we are alon. Idk. I guess I should just lay off.

But he makes me feel really bad about myself sometimes.

Do yall think he’s ashamed of me??
Is it just my attitude. I burp and fart, and pretty proud of it??
is he just shy??

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jordan-ski/2640704357/in/photostream/
im the girl in the red top with the red hair.

Thanks for your time <3

Answer 1

well, there are guys who not into public displays of affection...if this concerns you then tell him how you feel and get it straight from him... i mean it's not that easy to change guys so confront him first and maybe you'd both understand each other... cause by the looks of it, he has nothing to be ashamed off if he's with you :) good luck

Answer 2

I don't think he's ashamed of you. I think he might not just like too much PDA ( Public Displays of Affection) How do you act when your in public? Are you burping and farting in front of people? If you are i would be ashamed to. Maybe you just need to tone down the PDA and the burping and farting while your around friends and out in public and see if he feels more comfortable with you. And don't compare him to another bf not all guys are the same, one bf might have loved your burps and farts and your random making out but he may not. Good luck.

Answer 3

well doesn't sound like you are doing anything a girlfriend wouldn't do but some people just aren't into public displays of affection. I would be concerned about the fact that he doesn't want ppl to know you are dating though, that seems odd. Do you two go the same school? I would be worried that maybe he's interested in someone else and thats the reason he tries to keep it quiet. I really don't see what there is for him to be ashamed about, you are a good looking girl. If he keeps acting this way maybe you should find another dude. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

hey i dont think he is ashamed ... my bf did the same thing like the first

month we were dating he didnt want me kissing him in front of his friends or family he just said that he didn't want people to think that we couldnt just hang out with out being all about each other but now all that has changed after awhile so i wouldnt worry about it he is prolly just shy about the relationship and as far as the burping and farting i think he prolly is just shy or just maybe a little embarrassed lol

Answer 5

I think you're pretty, but I would warm up to his friends before you burp and fart in front of them. Also, I do those things too, but I also know that there is a time and a place for that (at home). You are a lady too. Most people don't like PDA, it may make him uncomfortable in front of his friends because they may make fun of him later.

Answer 6

LoL, nothing wrong here! Both gorgeous. My GF burps and farts as well. Whats wrong with a down to earth relationship? He's shy, but the private sexual things should really be kept in private.



Hope this helps

Answer 7

well ,first of all ,i think you are really attractive and pretty ,second of all ,i can tell because he treats you like **** he has taken your self confidence because you said he makes feel bad about your self,if he really loves you he wouldnt treat you like that,and third,you should not let him to do that with you ,im sorry but i wouold say he doesnt love you and he will leave you one day,not a good choice for you dont waste your time for him,you cant change him,good luck

Answer 8

It is always funny to read peoples cry for compliments and put up a pic.



So here's my compliment....



Absolutely!!!

Yikes, your a goblin!!!!!!



He is probably looking for a good bridge to pur you under, so that you can be the best troll that you can be.

You would have been perfect playing an org in the lord of the rings.



I've got to go now and wash my eyes....



With that all said...I guess you are ok. and don't think is is a shamed of you. That is unless he is gay.

Answer 9

Maybe you should talk to him about it. I don't know what he likes but my boyfriend really doesn't care if i pass gas in front of him. He thinks it's hilarious.

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On the other hand, I don't make out with him while he's with his friends, we all just hang out, so it's a matter of his taste.

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Ask him what's wrong and find out if he has a problem with public displays of affection.

Answer 10

dear, you should feel ashamed of you for not leaving the boy. is there any thing valuable than self respect in any relationship. put a fullstop to his drama. immediately. and shut the relationship for ever.

Answer 11

U look fiiiine - hot body!

if hes embarrased by going out with you, move on, im sure there are plenty more guys willing to go out wih you

Answer 12

Personally I wouldn't be ashamed of you at all, infact quite the reverse !



Really it sounds like he's not really "that into you" sorry.

Try and find someone else that's more deserving of you



Good luck

Answer 13

Some guys don't like public displays of affection they are shy and want that stuff to be private.

Answer 14

Oh come'on girl.. who's not gonna be ashamed if you fart and burp (in front of people?)... you yourself can answer your question.

Answer 15

Maybe he just doesnt like public displays of affection and is just more of a private person. If you really like him accept him the way he is. Dont compare him to your ex(s).

Answer 16

You are damn damn damn damn dam beautiful dear. breathtaking, true. MAyube ur guy wont be comfortable in public. thats all. I dont see any reason y u shudnt be treated like a princess. not just like one..cz u r one my dear. u r.....why a guy shudnt like u for ur looks? u dam pretty beautifull.

Answer 17

he's just intimated by you, in a good way, since your fairly pretty, he's likely slightly shy, that's not a bad thing btw, cuz that means he's sensitive, therefore nice, def keep this one :)

Answer 18

some guys are just like that... i guess he's shy. but you have no reason to be ashamed of yourself, any guy would be lucky to have a gf as caring and beautiful as you

Answer 19

Many people don't like public affection.

Answer 20

he may be shy ..... i know every one farts and stuff but some men just dont like to hear their GF doing that stuff he might find it a turn off ...your only way to know is to ask him !! =)





he has no reason to be ashamed of you !!!!!!

Answer 21

he is probably ashamed of you 4 farting and burping ewww

or he just does not like you as a gf

or maybe he just wants to spent time with his friends!?!?

Answer 22

Not everyone likes to be romantic in public. If you want a guy who does, I suggest you find yourself one. Specially if it's making you feel bad about yourself.

Answer 23

I would say you need to change your attitude.



Also, if by any chance you are a redneck,



Brad Paisly is directly responsible for the death of Dale Earnheart.

Answer 24

this is strange. If u were my gf i would not mind telling my friends who u were.

Talk to him about it? None of us here know u bf so we cannot help u that much

Answer 25

This guy is using you. If he won't admit to his friends that he's seeing you, then he is only using you until someone better comes along. Dump this jerk. You deserve to be treated better.

Answer 26

Your really hot, and if he is ashamed of you dump his *** and find someone who will treat you right. As for the public displays of affection that can be pretty annoying sometimes. hope this helps.

Answer 27

maybe he dosent like pda

Answer 28

He wants to be a player, nothing to do with you.

Answer 29

well u r attractive

Answer 30

you are a beautiful woman. youre boyfriend does not know what

he has..........sorry

Answer 31

i think he is just a *** just stop doing it and he will wonder y

Answer 32

maybe he doesn't like you farting! lmao. ;]

Answer 33

no its not ur looks

Answer 34

i dunno he is a jerk cuz u got a sexy body n no i m not a lesbo

Answer 35

he sounds gay