Do any ladies out there prefer a caring, kind hearted guy, instead of an asshole?

Question

The reason I ask is because it often seems like alot of ladies are drawn for some reason to assholes. Just curious.

Answer 1

I'm attracted to guys with some drive and ambition. Most guys who have that aren't exactly the sweet teddy bear types so it might look like to the casual observer that I want jerks but that's not true. If they do start crossing that admittedly fine line between driven and jerky, then I just let them go. Plus, I agree with another poster who said most women like money and looks over "caring" but they would probably never admit it. My advice to you would to focus on your goals and ambitions and don't bother writing poetry love letters etc.

Answer 2

I guess it depends sometimes on how the girl was raised in her family if she is attracted to an asshole. If her mom is with someone that is an ***, the girl sees that growing up and maybe thinks this is the type of guy to be around....



or sometimes the kind hearted guy is nice in the beginning then turn into assholes later.....

Answer 3

Some girls are attracted to the bad boys. Often though you will find that women grow out of that stage. The older we get the more we realize just what we really need and want. The same goes for men as well. Men seem to look only at what is on the outside and ignore the kind of person the woman really is inside. Men usually outgrow that as well.

Answer 4

there are different types of girls some like assholes and some like the caring, sweet, kind harted guys and some like a little bit of both. some girls are drawn to assholes because thay think it is very sexy. good luck hope i helped!

Answer 5

I prefer caring, kind hearted guys. Course based on first sight it's what you're attracted to. And most girls like the hot sexy assholes. Whatever girl ends up with guys like you will be lucky!

Answer 6

My brother has said that too before, i think it has to do with are you manly other then caring?, strong "I AM A MAN" attitude seems to be what all women want. Not saying you don't have to stop being a caring,kind hearted guy, Girls love a man in control. not men who hit and swear at em. hope i made sense.

Answer 7

Yes, women DO prefer caring, kind hearted guys...but not whiners. I only added that because some men think they are one and the same. That's not the case. A woman WANTS a confident man, who has high enough self esteem that he doesn't NEED to treat her like crap, to feel manly.

Answer 8

i think all ladies will preffer a caring ,kind harted guy...why woul some one take care of an asshole..!!?

ladies/women are more bothered about their self dignity, rspect.

Hence i dont think any woman would go for an asshole

Answer 9

I want the kind hearted guys I have things in common with. If they have a little attitude, depend on their other parts, I might go for them. My ex was sweet and for a long time was Mr. Right

Answer 10

It's the women with no self esteem that love being treated like crap. A confident woman loves the kind-hearted guy.

Keep searching..she's out there.

Answer 11

The assholes are usually abnormally good looking. We dump them within hours. Then seek out the caring good looking person. :)

Answer 12

I laugh at that to and wonder the same thing. Its funny how women know they are dealing with assholes and yet they still hook up with them

Answer 13

I personally am attracted to the "nice guy" No assholes for me. I snagged myself one as well.... and married him. : ) What is the point in hooking up with an asshole... it makes no sense.

Answer 14

Ladies like GOOD LOOKING and/or RICH guys regardless of personality. Like I told my hapless single friend who thought he didn't have anyone because he "a nice guy", which I replied..."it's not because you're a nice guy, it's because you're an UGLY nice guy" Hey, I know it was mean but I'm just being real.

Answer 15

Woman are not happy unless they are complaining.If a woman has a perfect mate then they have nothing to complain about when they are at work.But if the mate is a jerk who puts his woman down then she can complain all day to her coworkers which makes her happy.Hey fatso takes some cooking lessons because your cooking stinks,i am going to mcdonalds they cook bettter than you .

Answer 16

Most of it has to do with personality and upbringing.



There are just some women who are attracted to bums and this is what they have chosen to accept.



There are some other women who don't take much non-sense and find themselves independent in choosing the man who she admires to be her companion.

Answer 17

no. caring and sensetive is really what most of us want but we think that those apples are too high for us to reach so instead of getting a ladder to climb to the top most girls just waste there time with the fallen undeveloped green apples.

Answer 18

Girls /women are often infatuated with bad boy types ..

Looks & charisma are primary attractants to many women...

Looks & Charisma don't pay the bills and Bad boys don't make

good husbands....Lots of girls learn the hard way...

And find themselves unmarried, no support, kids and on the street.

Wise women are looking to be "Trophy Wives"...

Answer 19

Nope assholes are assholes even if they do have a cute face.

Answer 20

ofcoz I wont fall in w' a asshole unless he act like a caring and kind hearted guy...

Answer 21

if the asshole had a face that looked like one. then no

Answer 22

Yes some women are drawn to those kind but they have low self asteem. don't love themselves so why do they want someone else to love them.

Answer 23

Good luck Bud! I always thought that too!



I hope that you can find a lady to Love you too!

Answer 24

Honestly? No. Caring kind-hearted guys can't handle me, and I can't put up with them. It would be a match made in hell.

Answer 25

yes i like like a caring kind hearted guy

Answer 26

I would orefer a caring, kind-hearted guy. Just wish I could find one.

Answer 27

ido id rather have kind warm hearted guy over any thing else

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Answer 28

I TRULY WOULD LOVE A CARING.KIND HEARTED GUY AND HNEST TOO..ARE THERE ANY ABOUT??I HATE ASSHOLE TYPE MEN

Answer 29

yeah its cuz girls most always go for the "hott" guys who turn out to be jerks

me personaly i like sensitive and romantic guys

Answer 30

Yes I prefer the nice ones'...I am blessed to have one on my life!

Answer 31

well people who fool around at my school are popular, even tough they get C's and D's. Girls like them.

Answer 32

They often say they do. Let us know if you actually find one. of either.

Answer 33

Yes! I do. Can you email me I would like to talk to you?

Answer 34

i want a ladies man.

Answer 35

are you insane???





that is why you see so many questions about men being abusive or cheating.....they love that kind of stuff.

Answer 36

i guess girls like that challenge. they really want the caring guys

Answer 37

Only if he has no hidden intentions

Answer 38

It is according who has the most money...

Answer 39

no i dont likeasses i like the sweet type =]

Answer 40

i would go for the caring guy...

Answer 41

I can't stand them.