My girlfriend dumped me?

Question

My girlfriend of two years dumped me for absolutely no reason> The only reasoning behind it is that i'm away for college and we fight too much.... which we hardly do at all. She joined a sorority (we are both freshman) and i can't handle her being at parties so i got mad when she went to them. Every since she broke up with me i've been crying myself to sleep for a week and i cant bring myself to throw away anything that she gave me (stuffed animal, pictures, pictures she drew, cd's) and can't get over her. I dont want to be with anyone else i thought she was the one for me, we talked about getting married and raising a family, and we thought our relationship was strong because we lasted the first five months of college without any problems. She dumped me over text which killed me, and i told myself that i will not be with her ever again, but i just cant picture myself being happy with anyone else but her. I dont know what do you:( I never went out on weekends i always stayed in my dorm to skype with her, and i called her whenever i walked to class, i was not attracted to any girls, i couldn't have treated her any better, and i have no reason to be mad at her so that is why i can't get over her. Help me:(

Answer 1

you need to throw out all that stuff, go out to parties or anything happening that involves being around other people. your not going to get over her if you dont

she dumped you through a text which is really sad ecspecially if you were together for 2 years. my ex dumped me without even letting me know LOL be happy it wasnt like that with you



seriously..... go out and have fun, forget about her

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I'm really sorry that this happened to you! But the only way you can stop feeling like this is to hate her! You have reason to be mad at her because she made up a bunch if excuses just to get away from you! And think about it.... While you're lying in your bed at night, upset over the fact that she's not there anymore, do you think shes doing the same? Or is she out partying with her friends?? It's heartless to say this but dude she's over you! And shes Not coming back! And you don't want someone like that in your life anyways! She's nothing but trouble and you should be glad you got rid of her! Don't worry there's another girl out there for you, just wait and see! Your ex is a ***** and she didn't deserve a great guy like you :/

Answer 4

Go out. Meet other girls. If youre in college, this definitely should not be hard.

Take up a new hobby. Write a book. Listen to Paramore's Riot! CD over and over again.

List all the things you like about yourself and glue macaroni bits around it...

I don't know. Do what everyone else does to get over breakups.

Answer 5

Maybe she felt smothered. College is a time for exploration for a lot of people, so perhaps you're not what she's looking for. You're at college, time to meet some new people because people change, and clearly it's time to move on. You'll find yourself happier once you start meeting new people. What are you passionate about? Go to a club. Don't make this one girl take over your whole life, because it's your own responsibility to make your life meaningful.

Answer 6

Girls dump boys without reasons its universal truth.

Answer 7

ok fine wait for sometime, maybe she will realize that she is mistaken with this decision. dont beg her because she dumped for nothing.

Answer 8

hey anychance we could chat about things on my question? sorry to ask on here

Answer 9

i know how your feel