is it ok to ask a gal out without really knowing her?

Question

i really like this gal ,v were work in same company and stay in the same apartment complex but in the company world and in the complex v dont interact, v just face each other in the parking lot..i really wanna take her to lunch or dinner...but i dont know how to proceed.. please help me

Answer 1

i suppose you could....



i mean, I really wouldnt know.

Answer 2

What better way to get to know her! Perhaps you should go out to lunch with some others from the company and ask her to go along, if you really feel awkward about asking her to go alone. However, if you have the nerve, ask her to lunch. Then when you go, you do have something in common - your work! That's how I met my husband! We met at work and he eventually got the nerve to ask me to a movie and to dinner. We went and the rest is history! HE IS NOW MY HUSBAND!

Answer 3

Of course it's ok! The worst she can do is say no, but as long as you're cool about it and don't make her uncomfortable by being pushy, then it's fine. You should start by talking to her more here and there for a few weeks. Then, when the time is right, ask her to do something witn you. If you seem confident, nothing can go wrong, and if she says no, on to someone who's right for you.

Answer 4

Everytime you see her, just smile and greet her and then when you feel comfortable with each other then try to invite her for lunch or dinner. just be polite so you will gain her trust. That will be the first move to know each other well. good luck!

Answer 5

If you don`t know her, how come you like her?? Get to know her first, then decide if she`s the type of person you`d want to go out w/.



Just ask her.

Answer 6

Take it easy at first and ask her out for lunch. Make sure it is not a restaurant where you will be seen by your colleagues!

Answer 7

start by gettin to know her...ask her some questions just general stuff like hey who does ur hair?...cuz it looks fabulous...n just give her comments n stuff...eventually it will evolve so u can talk bout more personal stuff then u ask her out

Answer 8

yes its okay to ask her out then you'll really get to know her. but no kissing on the first date.

Answer 9

You have to go out to get to know her.

Answer 10

yes it's okay - it's a great way to get to know her!