Do I have daddy issues? I'm so confused?

Question

So I'm in high school and I'm adopted. I've had a father figure my whole life but I feel so rejected by my biological dad and he never tried contacting me wheareas my biological mom always has. I know it shouldn't be that big of a deal but I just feel like he doesn't care about me at all. I just feel so damaged and unhappy. Anyways, I like older men, and when I say older men, I mean men up to their fifties. I feel so much more safe and secure around them, and they make me feel so special. I feel wanted. I cant STAND guys my age, they're much too immature for me. I've recently started talking to an older guy and I think we're gonna hook up(it's officially legal in my state). A huge turn on for me is calling older men "daddy" and having them completely dominate me in the bedroom. I'm not a whore though, I don't sleep around or anything. When people find out I like older men they say I have "daddy issues", but I thought daddy issues only applied to girls who don't have a father? My current dad isn't very close to me, we can't really connect but we still love each other a lot and he shows me love. My question is, do I have daddy issues? And is there something wrong with me? Why do I like older men?

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with you. Many will say there is, but your personality and preferences are yours and different from others.

In order to make a mistake or if something is wrong for you, is to first TRY IT.

Be careful how you approach it, but trying it, will give you, your answer for YOU.



People are doing incredible things on the internet all over the world. Sometimes their video flops, sometimes it virals. You won't know unless you try.



You don't have Daddy Issues, you have a Preference. Maybe it's for a little while, maybe it's for life. Maybe it's the biggest mistake you make, maybe it's the best choice EVER. Curiosity and Desire won't let you rest, until you get an answer.

Just ask anyone WHO NEVER told their Crush, they liked them.

They are still dealing with Regret and Curiosity.

Some people, for years after school.



FIND OUT!!! You won't have any more questions, just new decisions to make.

Answer 2

A man who would take advantage of someone so much younger isn't someone to feel safe and secure with. I know this question is phony as hell, but it has to be said. Only way to have people in your life you can trust is by being someone whose judgement you can trust first. Otherwise you will always make the wrong choice.

Answer 3

YES ;;you have daddy issues

I would go in therapy to find out why I am so attract to much older men [ 50 ties ] he can be your grandpa