If opposites attract, does that mean that I should act like a *****?

Question

If opposites attract and I want a nice guy, does that mean that I should act like a *****?

Bad boys go after nice girls, so why wouldn't work the other way around.

Answer 1

That's not what the phrase means. It means like a guy who's shy and likes being indoors is attracted to outgoing females who like to see the town.



Opposites attract, but people who have commonalities are the couples who stay together.



You shouldn't change who you are to get someone else. There's only so long you can keep up the facade and then show your true self.

Answer 2

Ok, bad guys like good women because they tend to be taken as weak or seem corruptible.

I am one of the nicest guys you will ever meet and love good girls. I dont even drink or smoke and wont date a girl who drinks or smokes. What a nice guy such as myself wants is a girl who is confident and not afraid to get in people's faces. That doesnt mean a ***** or anything of that nature. Just not afraid to stand up for herself. Sometimes being a ***** can be mistaken for confidence which is why bad guys tend to stay away from them. When being nice you seem approachable and easily taken advantage of.

The moment you start acting in a way you are not is the moment you will pick up guys who are fake themselves and will only attract losers.

Also keep in mind when they say opposite attracts it means that weak parts of your personality are complimented by strong parts in your partners personality. Which is why as a reserved guy I like a girl who is a little more out there because she improves me as a person in a matter which I can appreciate.

Answer 3

No, opposites don't always attract. People do tend to go for bad girls/bad boys, but those relationships are less likely to work out. If you want to meet a nice guy, act nice, look for nice guys, and won't waste your time with jerks.

Answer 4

No, usually it means opposites such as emotional and intellectual, calm and quiet vs. fiery and temperamental, outgoing vs. introvert. Not really jerk and nice person. Look into astrology compatibility signs. It will make more sense.



Not that jerks and nice people dont get together, but that's not what the idea of "opposites attract" means.

Who better to tolerate the jerks but the nice people? But it is when the nice people realize that they don't need to put up with people treating them poorly that things change.



Attract a nice guy by being nice.

Answer 5

No opposite don't attract. every couple does have something in common.



Dont act mean cause I had taken a guy I love for granted and now I am just the one miserable. Love someone with all your heart.

Answer 6

of course not

plus opposites attract in science, only

but in math two negative=positive and vice versa

just be nice. sit, talk, text, flirt with him everyday

nice guys go for the nice girls anyway

Answer 7

No you shouldn't act like ***** to make someone like you. That's looks kind of desperate from my point of view. Be yourself is the best thing to do. If some guy's don't like your personality that screw them. You'll find guys that will like you.

Answer 8

Opposites attract, yeah. But it seems you didn't quite get the meaning of that saying.

Answer 9

no nice guys like nice woman so if you act like that than u will just scare him away but don't change your personality if the guy does like you if you change then old you will come out.

Answer 10

because theres either the bad boy, who likes nice girls

or the nice guy, who likes nice girls

acting like a btich just makes you seem stuck up and no one wants that

Answer 11

Because nice boys have an actual brain

Answer 12

how about, you just act like yourself.. if acting like yourself means acting like a bxtch then so be it. Some guy out there will probably love you enough to put up with your bxtchy attitude.

Answer 13

no .. if you act bad chances are the nice guy wont want you .. most nice guys i kno like nice girls .. you should be who you are.. not someone else

Answer 14

I like a bad girl.

Answer 15

you will be treated according to how you act! if you act with low class then this is how u will be treated, if you act like you are worth something then this is how you illl be treated

Answer 16

no. of course not. that expression doesn't apply to every single situation. just be yourself and u'll find the right guy.

Answer 17

idk are u that way? cuz it'll b hard to front like that plus guys dont want fakes but hey if u think that can work than go for it and if it pushes him away than u got ur answer

Answer 18

because when you're a ***** every guy taps that and leaves.

Answer 19

No



just be yourself and like what you like.

Answer 20

im a ******** and i like good girls

Answer 21

WOMEN LOVE TO BE TREATED LIKE TRASH