My friend sarah kissed a girl but she is not homosexual...what should she do?

Question

it was at a girls slumber party and now the girl that kissed sarah loves her and wants to date her but sarah is not homosexual.

Answer 1

well...if she just kissed them with no feelings attached then she isn't lesbian/bisexual. but if she is attracted to other females, then she is either one or the other. you don't have to date girls to be homosexual, if she is attracted to them, then that's just it; she can't deny it and she can't fight it; it's what her body wants. but if she is like one of my friends, who can just kiss girls and not care at all (not be attracted to them/the kiss) then she is not either.

Answer 2

She's probably just confused.

I make out with my best friend all the time and we aren't homosexual...well, we do things together but we wouldn't do them with other girls. It's kind of wierd. But maybe this girl that kissed sarah is just confused. Just give it some time. Maybe Sarah should go talk to her and tell her she does not feel the same way. You can leave her in the dark. It's not fair.

Answer 3

if she kissed a girl and wants to date her than she is homosexual she cant say shes not because than shes living in denial so tell her just to date her

Answer 4

tell sarah to let her know that she's not homosexual and she's sorry, but its never going to work out between them.

Answer 5

Tell the other girl to back off but in a nice way.

Answer 6

seems simple enough.

tell her shes not gay.

it goes like this...

"im not gay"

"but we kissed"

"i know. it was innocent slumber party fun, but im not gay"



and the girl doesnt lover her, shes just infatuated.

she'll get over it.

Answer 7

shes bi or shes curious. kissing girls doesnt mean you care for them you just like them

Answer 8

She's just exploring her sexuality or did it jokingly. Were tongues involved?

Answer 9

well she know that but that doesn't make some one homo. I'v done things with girl but im not homo.

Answer 10

She should do nothing, but don't let it happen again.

Answer 11

tell her she's not into fisting... :)