Please read..need advice..upset :(?

Question

I rarely see my boyfriend he goes work gym work.. this friday was ment to be mine and his day after work takeaway, movie night. He just texted me saying he won't be back until 9.30pm.. he is going gym. I feel upset I feel he could of atleast missed gym for just today..
How would you feel?
Am I being a child?
Should I still go his at that time or just cancel it and go out with friends :(
I'm going away in 4 days for two weeks also this would of been the last time I saw him..your thoughts?
I am 20 he is 24

Answer 1

Some guys take gyming very very seriously... like they have a routine that they are strict about following. so skipping a session really sets them back. If your friends have plans and invited you then go along, I mean he cancelled so he cant expect you to just sit at home. Don;t be sad, perhaps you guys can spend time together tomorrow

Answer 2

hi there its seems your bf had a very busy schedule. Don't cancel anything just be with him and express your feeling in proper way so that there wont be any misunderstandings let him also know how you miss him all the way. he will realize soon when he will come to know about your two weeks plan. Don't be upset cheer up. Those we Luv never go away, they walk beside us everyday... unseen & unheard, still near... still loved... still Missed & still very dear. Good Luck.

Answer 3

your not being at all childish if you like him say bye before if he likes you he wil say bye

Answer 4

i know the feeling and im in the sae boat !! & your not being childish at all , he needs to learn to make time for you as well ! I think you should see him before you leave just show him what hes gonna be missing for those two weeks ! ! ! Good luck Hun !

Answer 5

It sounds like he is being inconsiderate, and is also completely oblivious to your feelings.



You need to talk to him about it.



If you don't, how else will he know how you feel?



If you tell him you are upset, explain where you are coming from etc and if he still blows you off inconsiderately, then you need to start thinking about getting a new boyfriend.



Good luck :)

Answer 6

Go see him. If it is going to be the last time you see him for two weeks, put aside the fact he has annoyed you and just go see him and enjoy yourself. When you come back off your holiday, then maybe you should bring it up because if you do it before and fall out, it could ruin the whole holiday. Just mention that you want at least one night together in the week with him because you miss him and don't get to see him properly. There is no need for anyone to go to the gym every single night. One night off isn't going to kill him.

Answer 7

Sorry, he seems kinda uniterested...go out with your friends:) go shopping or something haha and you're not being a child it does sound fairly reasonable what you wouldve liked to have happened