I need help with more effin' boyfriend problems.? (sorry its long)?

Question

Okay, so his mom died when he was like six in January, so now hes being a complete douche. He had a knife last night while we were laying in bed and he was like trying to cut himself and he was going to cut me, so I took the knife away and we had a serious talk and I started to cry so he stopped. Then he got happy and decided he wanted to have sex. Like an hour after that we were in the living room in the basement and he took his knife back and when back into his room and I told him to calm down and he said he was calm and I replied back as "yeah and Im Obama's daughter". So he got really pissed and I went to bed. He woke me up and at first was apologizing to me about being a douche and hurting me and whatnot. Then he started flicking my cheek and that really pisses me of. So we went to his room so I could kick his ***; and he was really beginning to make me mad because he kept hitting me in the face and "choking" me.

So. I would like to know what to do in this situation?. Im only a teenager as well as him. I don't need this ****.

Answer 1

Something is deeply hurting him, I would suggest counseling for this as I suspect the problem is a regression back to the time where he lost his mother because it can do a lot to a person. I've seen it with my own eyes, other than that all I can say is leave him but break it to him softly because from what you've told me, holding a knife and saying he wants to cut himself will definetly be a danger to not only him but possibly you as well. Good luck, you deserve better in this world. You can get an honest man who can take good care of you. :)

Answer 2

Get out now!



Talking from experience.. I was with a guy when I was 16 that acted that EXACT same way. I stuck around because I was madly in love with him. 3 years of caring and understanding and trying to help and he was still the same. Worse even. He would stay out all night doing drugs, threaten to kill himself, beat his friends up, cut himself, call me disgusting, go out and do things with girls that were borderline cheating but nothing I could ever accuse him of. Then always come back and talk about how he was so sorry and loves me. The problem with these guys is they believe it, they believe they're sorry but they'll never change, and if they do they will do so on their own not with the girl that has already been taking their **** for a while



It has taken me 2 years to recover from the emotional damage.. For reals just get out of there. It'll hurt but it'll save sooo much future pain

Answer 3

You said it yourself hun, "I don't need this shhit" No one should be in a relationship where they get abused, mentally or physically. Especially since you are so young. My first serious boyfriend, we dated for over two years, and he was abusive. He had been arrested numerous of times for domestic violence, because the neighbors would call the cops. But i continued to go back to him. Until the last time, he chocked and beat me black and blue. I broke up with him immediately after, and went to my friend's house, who was having a small get together. And when all the men seen my black eye, fat lip and bruises, then went to his house and jumped him, and i still followed along to try and stop them. To this day, i am very happy i left him, because i have found a wonderful man who still treats me with respect and as if our love has stayed unaged. At first it was hard to get over my ex, but then when i realized there IS better out there, best believe i jumped on that chance. Plus, i had a two year old son who i had to put first, and i didn't want him growing up seeing his father beat his mother. And i was only 18 when i left him. So i know it is hard, but he has some harsh issues to work out on his own(because of his mother dying) and until he has made peace with the fact that she is gone, he will not change. Get out before it gets worse hun, or before you father his baby, which makes it even harder.

Answer 4

Well maybe u should tell him u need some space maybe there is a boyfriend out there that will treat u like a princess! Ur young and so is he, it seems like he needs to get his self together b4 he starts dating again!!! Hope this helps...also only urself can make the decision of being with him! Maybe talking with him may work!!

Answer 5

Dump him...he's got major issues and is immature on top of it. He'll probably threaten to hurt himself (or you), but don't fall for it. You do not deserve to be trapped in a horrible relationship, which is what this will become soon if you don't end it.

Answer 6

hi Kristina, this guy is clearly unstable and the sooner you get away from him the better, and if I were you I'd really make sure that I wouldn't get back into his life again, you must look to yourself and your safety. You say you don't need this and you certainly don't need him. I wish you well.

Answer 7

Im a guy but . i will still answer.I have a girlfriend too, but i don't hit her like that and **** so i say u break up with his ***

Answer 8

he likes sadistic sex.why is it that he only wants to cut himself when ur around.ur crying turns him on.there are girl that are dying for his type out there,even though they wont admit it.let him look for his type if u are tired.or better still help him search amongst ur friends.

Answer 9

obviously hes a bit bipolar on top of da fact that hes abusive. i wldnt stay with him, u deserve better than that!

Answer 10

leave him ,

if hes already hitting you and chokking , your going to end up died.



OR



he REALLLY misses his mom and he dosent no how to be with girls...



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Answer 11

dump his ***. he aint gonna change. u deserve a lot better thn him.

Answer 12

Honestly dump him coz those are serious issues he has but please do let him off easy for your own safety



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