Girls: What should I do?

Question

So I'm a Sophomore and I recently got this crush on this girl who is in my Theatre class. So anyways I always see her in the hallways and in the mornings. I get plenty of time to talk to her if it's either passing her in the halls, in class or just in the mornings. I got sick last week and I ended up missing a several days of school and the Wednesday I came back in the morning she came up to hug me and asking where I was. (This is one of the first hints I figured out she liked me because she noticed that I was gone.) Then we walked to class together and talked along the way. The very next day I saw her in class, which was Theatre, and she kept looking at me and didn't talk to anyone at her table. Eventually later in class she came over to my table and asked me "if she could sit here?" I told her yes. (This was the second hint that I figured she liked me.) So throughout class we talked and she chatted with another girl at the table as well. We had to go and work in the blackbox theatre so we stood pretty close to each other talking back and forth. Then the next day on Friday morning I saw her and we got to talk a little bit in the morning until her ex boyfriend showed up and stole her right out of my hands and he hugged her.
Here is the thing about her ex. I found out the very next day from a friend that they have been broken up for two months because I saw them together all of Freshman year. He apparently had some problem with another girl that he likes. The rest of the story he refused to tell me. So right now I know they are broken up and her ex is trying to fix it but so far no luck, I never see the guy around with her. I always see him with other girls and having fun with them. (To me he doesn't care about the girl I like.)

So my questions are what should I do to prevent the guy getting her back and me having her? Or what can I do to make her like me more? Does it sound like she likes me? Any recommendations what I should do next?

Thanks please be detailed as possiable :)

Answer 1

Question #1 and 2 and 4- Obviously she is noticing you which is a good thing. Just be yourself because that's why she is hanging out with you in the first place. She probably really likes your personality. If things start getting on to the next level, maybe you can be more romantic. Compliment her and all that.

Question#3- I think she is starting to like you. Pay attention to the flirting though. That's when you know she is starting to have a little sweet spot for you.



I hope I helped a little. This is my first day using this by the way. Good luck!

Answer 2

OK I know this is scary and probably not your frist choice, but trust me it is the best choice, you need to tell her exactly how you feel. It's that simple, she's either going to say "yes, i like you too" or "no sorry i only see you as a friend" and what have you got to lose? Not friendship cause if she says no then continue being friends no problem, but if she says yes you'll have a beautiful girl who knows how much you care. She's going to be interested in the present not the past with her ex. So honestly just tell her how you feel in complete truth and she'll appreciate it :)

Answer 3

you should really start making a move and fast. My suggestion would be to touch her in a non-perverted way. Like touch the small of her back when you are walking with her or graze her hand with yours when you two are walking. When you hug her, make the hug as long and as comforting as possible. A good sign for girls is for them to feel like they are comfortable in your arms. Maybe buy her something small at the dollar store like a cheap teddy bear and say a cheesy line. Or write her a series of random notes for like a week or something. Anything creative attract girls like flies to a white light. I hope this helped! Good luck :)

Answer 4

good, judging by means of how she's all tousled in her relationships (2 boyfriends while) she could say sure and simply use you to cheer up after which sell off you. I'd say that is slightly of a grey subject. But for those who fairly feel she's that stunning and you do not brain what occurs later then yep you are correct two might be three weeks and your golden. the opposite one will regularly get jealous, however for those who men do not speak she'll recover from you and transfer on and you can not ever have that threat once more... which might suck if she truthfully is that beautiful :L You gotta come to a decision which woman you favor extra. seeing that for those who opt for one your gonna fail to see the opposite. the dancing factor: I for my part feel that might be fairly lovely xP however a few ladies might be like.. wtf?? i assume it is dependent upon the way you pull it off - like if you are a fairly humorous now not awkward man you are golden with that. But for those who come of tacky it is sport over. Hope i would aid :P

Answer 5

ask her out to something, if she says i don't like you like that say, oh i meant it as a friend. literally asking her out or seeing if she wants to do something outside of school (ie if you can go off campus for luch see if she wasnt to go somewhere if you have free periods or somthing.) if you like her and she is single grow a pair and make a move. its the only way to make sure they dont get back together. or you could do it slowly, like ask for her number, and risk getting friend zoned.

Answer 6

You need to flat out tell her how you feel. In person. She might get tired of waiting and go back to him. Sounds like you have a really good shot at it, and you have nothing to lose.



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Answer 7

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