What's wrong with my boyfriend? How do I fix it?

Question

My boyfriend does this thing where he gets all mopey and depressed and then refuses to tell me what's wrong. I swear sometimes I feel like he's more of a "chick" when it comes to emotional stability than I am. All my life I have always had to be the strong one, and just for once I want to be able to cry on somebody else's shoulder, but I love him way too much to leave him for anyone else, so I need wear the pants here and find a way to make this situation better. If he actually were a chick, I'd bring home flowers, and set up a romantic dinner with candles and soft music, but that would just be silly for a girl to do, wouldn't it? I hate seeing him like this, but I don't know how to fix it. Heck, most of the time, I don't even know what I did to make him shut down in the first place. What should I do?

Answer 1

Maybe he didn't get enough attention as a child and is looking for you to be more of a "Mommy" to him. If you are not up for dragging the info out of him and babying him I would move on, he may be emotionally too immature for you. I had a guy like this once, truthfully there was really never anything wrong he just wanted the attention.

Answer 2

Confront him. Tell him that you feel like the man in the relationship because he is so emotional all the time and that if the relationship is going to work, he needs to be open with you and tell you whats wrong. He might feel better about it after he has spoken to someone about it too. He might even just be doing it for attention from you. Speak to him.

Answer 3

When he gets sad you need to tell him to go out and get some ice cream from the store. While he's gone strip naked and lay out on the table with whipped cream all over. When he gets home he'll *** home to a sweet surprise. And you can have ice cream!

Answer 4

Skip the flowers and bring home a fix up car instead?

Answer 5

He's probably like that from stuff other than you... Anyway to fix it, you can just make his life more exciting ;)... You can make out with him or go however far you would for him... Just make things exciting for him and he'll cheer up... Hope it helps and goodluck

Answer 6

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Answer 7

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