Let him call you. It doesnt sound like he's going anywhere and no need to worry with this one. You two sound like you had the "fairytale perfect" date. ...Awesome...
As for the butterflies in the tummy,...its all part of this wonderful adventure in a new relationship. And if you worry about the "destination", you run the risk of missing out on enjoying the "Journey". Keep expectations at a bare minimum, take it slow and let it "go where it goes".
I wish you well, Love and hope I've been of some help....
Ron
2010-11-07 15:38:05 UTC
Honesty is always the best policy. We can only make good decisions with honest information. I would say if you want to call and talk then you should. Try to avoid games no matter how small they are at all cost, and you should request the same. If you really want to know where this can go you both have to be completely honest and up front with each other. Let your heart GUIDE you but don't make decisions based from emotion. Sorry, Yes. call. He is probably thinking the same thing.
?
2010-11-07 15:34:30 UTC
i think you should wait a few days to see if he calls you, if not then call him.
he might not want to seem too eager and might even be waiting for you to ring him..
K
2010-11-07 15:32:32 UTC
That's good
Sounds like you really like this guy ;)
I'd wait for him to call you. Unless he's shy, then you will probably have to call him. But it sounds like things went well, so i'd wait a few days to see if he calls first.
Phantom
2010-11-07 15:32:12 UTC
Its nothing wrong with feeling butterflys and if you felt that close of a connection than its nothing wrong with you calling him
anonymous
2010-11-07 15:32:04 UTC
There is nothing wrong with you calling first. I would wait until tomorrow night to call him though, don't ever be too hasty with a guy. He may think you are desperate. Though 2 days is long enough and it shows that you aren't afraid to take control of a situation. Most guys like that because they get sick of doing all the work!
schallsj
2010-11-07 15:31:18 UTC
Sounds like the begining of something good. Let him call you, he might not want to rush things mess up your current friendship. However, since you are friends and you do call him make it about something light or fun..be quick. Plus he might be just as nervous as you and doesn't want to mess it up. It's hard to read too early.
?
2010-11-07 15:31:00 UTC
Let him call you or call him on Tuesday. Just so its not one sided and you seem eager..Answer mine?
PLEASE let him call you. Guys like a chase. And if he isn't man enough to call you, I know this is harsh, then he isn't man enough to go out with anymore. This sounds like a cute lil' love story waiting to happen, so don't be all like "This is the 21st century... it's FINE the girl calling the guy. It's FINE if she asks him out on a date. It's FINE if she asks if he'll be her boyfriend." No, it's not. 'cause if the guy doesn't do it himself, either he's just not that into you or isn't man enough to call you OR have a relationship.
Next thing ya know the girls will be asking the guy's hand in marriage! It's all going to that, I'm afraid...
?
2010-11-07 15:32:03 UTC
send him a blank text. He'll probably send back a question mark. Then you say "I think my phone misses you". Then if he doesn't text or call back just ask him to call you. Guys are OK with that, and it sounds like he would be.
anonymous
2010-11-07 15:32:25 UTC
Let him call you. Sounds like the start of something good... ;)
luckyjessi
2010-11-07 15:37:21 UTC
Dont call him. Girls need to be chased. If you call him he''ll think he has you. If he calls you he's showing interest! That when you got him : D
?
2010-11-07 15:35:51 UTC
Call him, guys are lazy.
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