i want to punch him ?

Question

i have a feeling my bf of 2 years is lying and cheating on me. everytime i get soo close to the truth, its like god doesnt want me to know coz he thinks i'll do soemthing crazy. i have a right to know. all his mates and my mates know something. everyone knows something except me! its doing my head in. i askd his close mate and he was too scared to tell me. i keep telling them theyre going to have noting to do with it. its pissing me off. i know the truth always comes out, but i have a right to know so i can move on with my life. i hates suspecting i get so paranoid.
last night, i had proof and the slag he talks to told me he has a secret email adress on which he talks to her on. i wanted proof of this because my bf can be a convincing lier. but she wouldnt tell me the email address he has. so this made me suspicious that maybe shes lying, or covering up for him, because once this comes out he might not talk to her. i know he really loves me and doesnt wanna lose me. i know him very well. but i want to leave him if it all is true. i told him before hand if he ever was to do anything dodgy id leave him and not marry him, and i said that if you were to talk to, i hope he rots in hell. he told me nothing to worry about. i believed him.

now ive put the puzzles together by myself since nobody wants me to knw. i caught him out last night. i was talking o him on the phone and he sounded soo sleepy so i told him to go to sleep, he said ok. but i 4got to take my contacts out so i said to him, just wait 4 me. now, normally when i say this, when i get back onto the phone he falls asleep. but, he was wide awake and on the laptop. i know, coz when i got back onto the phone, i eard him typing and on msn. and then as soon as i sed "what you doing?" everything was quiet, and he was talking lyk he was wide awake. i asked him if he was on the laptop at 1:00 in morning. he said no. but i could hear him typing slowly and quietly. he failed to answer my questions, because his attention was somewhere else. and he said that he wasnt on it, then he changed his excuse to 5 minutes ago but he said it really quiet. then i asked him what he was doin 5 minutes ago and he said "i dont know" and thats all he kept saying! i knew he was still on it, and when i rang him bak after my battery died he wouldnt pick up! :@

Answer 1

WELL THE BEST THING TO DO IS MAKE A FAKE MYSPACE MSN FACE ECT.. WATEVER HE GOT IN PRETEND TO BE A GIRL IN TALK TO HIM IN SEE WAT HE SAYS OR HAVE A GIRL CALL HIM THAT HE DONT NO IN SEE IF HE TALKS TO HER IT ALWAYS WORKS 4 ME HOPE IT HELPS YOU

Answer 2

Your question presupposes that you need positive proof to move on with your life, when in reality, you can do that without the confirmation anytime you choose. It's obvious you're not happy, so what is to be gained by waiting for his subterfuge to be discovered when that may never happen? (Some folks are quite capable liars and can string you along for months....this still amounts to a waste of your time.) In most cases, once you instinctively "detect" something is wrong, there usually is. And if he has been unwilling to discuss the problem with you or work on making things better, "game over".

I'm guessing you're British? That's adorable. Some of what you say gets lost in translation, but I think we've been able to get the gist of it. Good luck doing what you must; I hope you feel better soon.

Answer 3

maybe hes gonna propose?





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