well my gf is going to let me bang her im ready but im kind of nervous.Its gonna happend later this week?

Question

i got the condom but im nervous because this is my first time we are 15 years old we are going to lose our verginity i dont know what position to use and etc.........last week i asked her she said yes but i couldnt do it right that time because i had no condom and i dont know if shes gonna like the type of condom i got her its her pleasure trojan and im nervous if the condom rips.And that time the next day she told her cousin and her cousin told me that she said i was scraed and i told her that im not scared but i was kind of nervous and i said later this week im going to take her for a good time in that bed please help i really want to have sex with her and she is letting me also please help and im serious

Answer 1

Max your stressing too much. In my opinion you two are too too young for any sexual activity at this time. Save your first time when you are physically and mentally ready. It's a good thing you are taking the proper precaution to protect you and your girlfriend from unwanted pregnancy and STD's which I'm sure u both don't have, but it's possible. Write me back with any more questions I'll be happy to answer.

Answer 2

Hold on! Just because the opportunity is present doesn't mean you have to jump at the chance. I know, at 15, this could be the highlight of the summer but it's really not. Why don't you just try to get to know her a little more.



It looks like both of you aren't ready, her especially. Listen, sometimes, girls will say yes because they want to get to a special bond with you. That could be problematic if something goes wrong, and believe me I know from friend experiences.



My advice would be to hold off until you know, without a shadow of doubt, it's time. Being a virgin isn't a curse, it's actually a gift that given at the right time could be the best experience of your life. So really, really think. This is a BIG deal.



Good Luck

Answer 3

I'm not really sure what your question is, however if you are scared to have sex you are not ready to do so. There is no way to put it lightly. I've had friends who have gotten pregnant at your age, and believe me you don't want a baby. I strongly suggest you reconsider this. When you get older you'll know exactly when the time is right, and everything will fall into place. There's no way to change your mind if you are really set on this, but I hope you'll think about it.

Answer 4

FOR THE LOVE OF A CONTINUED HUMANITY WITH INTELLIGENCE PLEASE LISTEN, if you are not ready yourself to have sex then don't, as for the condom ripping well that is a chance but not usually a problem if you are smart about it and don't stretch it out A LOT before putting it on or keep going after the first salvo in the same condom. Just be smart

Answer 5

Well tell her its your first time too, im prettysure 15 is a bit young but if you guys think your ready, talk it through with each other, tell her your a bit nervous.How long have you been going out for?



Cause if its not long then dont.



Tell her your pleased she feels confident that shes letting you, but if you dont think your ready, tell her.





when you do, take it slow and ask her if it hurts, and for help like what feels good or whatever.



good luck! xo

Answer 6

You are definitely too young, especially if you are asking all these questions.



I can tell you from experience, it is not worth having sex at this age, it sucks anyways...When you are older and look back, you will regret the choice you are making. I certainly did...All I remember about the guy was his name....It was not memorable at all....



Both of you are too young, and your apprehensions are telling you so, you are nervous, because it is not what you should be doing....Always go with your gut, it will never get you in trouble...

Answer 7

you need to shake off christina. Be really nasty towards her. make known to her that she's an interference to you and rachel's relationship. tell her she is an irritant and that you no longer want to have anything to do with her. delete her from your msn. block her. do not make any more contacts with her even if she email you or text you. Treat her as a computer virus. Do that to show rachel that you're serious about her and do that if you want to make her feel secure beside you. DO THAT IF YOU WANT HER STILL TO BE BY YOUR SIDE!

Answer 8

well dont be scared. use a condom that is not to tight, u get on top of her and go slow because u are going to hurt her cuz she is a virgin, and u have to get her really wet too, and try not 2 miss da hole.

Answer 9

15 is too young. if the condom breaks and she gets preggers, you will have too much to deal with at 15. best to wait until you are old enough to deal with the consequences of your decision to make love, emotionally, physically and financially.

Answer 10

its a bad idea cause im 13 and i lost my verginity and got caught..... my big bro caught me but didnt tell. and one ur first time dont just start watch a movie turn her on do something cause what is sex without itimicy....

Answer 11

very younge, very clueless.

-sex isnt scary if its with the right person. you are very long, has anyone even seen your penis before? its probably not the right time if you guys are scared. because for that reason if your scared going into sex for your first time. its not going to be a fun expirience, its going to be akward and uncomfortable.

-goodluck though youngen.

Answer 12

first of all...if you state "my gf is going to let me bang her" then you ARE NOT READY for sex. Secondly, your too young...you obviously dont understand the responsibility of sexual intercourse . You cant even spell virginity right.....here's a position for you....say NO, and abstain. Wait until your old enough to appreciate wthat sex is....and not just refer to it as some game....dont forget...there are MANY sexually transmitted diseases...and dont think you are immune.....

Answer 13

dude im 13 im a virgin ive never even had my first kiss very sad sob sob sob for me but dude ur only 15 just wait if u and ur gf really like each other you can wait a while

Answer 14

You'll probably be on top. Just do what you usually do when you are intimate (kiss where you know she likes it etc) Don't worry about the condom breaking, just read the directions on how to put it on properly. (don't unroll it before you try to put it on, duh)

Answer 15

unless you want to end up a 16 year old daddy i would just not bang her buddy

Answer 16

Go to the movies, you are to young to be doing that.

Answer 17

i you're so nervous, your definitely not ready.

you should be completely comfortable doing it or you're going to regret it.



but i'm very glad that you're responsible enough to be safe!

Answer 18

bring some spare connies. try slip it in her *** half way thru girls love suprises

Answer 19

Keep it in your pants.