Question:
My girlfriend watches p*rn and lies about. Help me bust her!?
2014-08-17 00:00:44 UTC
My girlfriend and I have sex atleast 3 times a week and we have dirty talks on the regular. Every time we dirty talk she brings up these words that are related to porn such as "cream pie and deep throat" and so on and even talked about guys who like getting their assh*le licked, out of nowhere, this obviously is suspicious. She said she hasn't watched porn since she was 11. She's now 19 and I can't imagine somebody remembering something as random as that out of nowhere. We were also just talking dirty talking and joking around and she said something about p*rn tags and the p*rn layout. She even said she wants me to j*zz in her so the j*zz will leak out of her vagina. Enough proof right? But I'm not done, she also deletes her history on her phone and laughs and tries to change the subject when I ask why. She acts shady when I borrow her phone. Every time i ask her if she does she gets mad saying "you never believe me". I get upset with her ofc because she banned me from it with the reason of it being related to cheating in a way. So if she watches it that's complete bullsh*t. Anyways is there any way I can catch her or atleast make her confess?

Now I know a lot of people are going to be saying that it's normal and healthy but her lying and telling me no more porn and her watching is just not fair. So I'd like to you know, prove a point and finally catch her.

Please help and try to understand thanks
Seven answers:
?
2014-08-17 00:08:23 UTC
So, how do YOU know what these words mean? Do you watch porn? You must do or how would you know what they mean?



So, you just want to apply a double standard? YOU can watch porn, but she can't? Is that it?



Well, even though she's your girlfriend, what she watches is none of your business. You'll either have to accept her as she is, or decide you want a different girlfriend, although I have to say that you'd be mad to lose her because she sounds like great fun both in bed and outside it!



So, instead of spoiling the great thing you've got going - accept that your girlfriend is free to watch what she wants, and accept you're wrong in applying the double standard to her. If she want to tell you that she doesn't watch porn, then that's fine.
Patricia
2014-08-17 00:12:17 UTC
I"m not going to say it's normal and healthy but what i am going to say is - it's none of your business what your girlfriend does in her personal, private time. She is also an adult and is free to watch whatever she wants to watch, without needing a babysitter. I'm sure you watch porn, too. So what?



I don't understand why you're making a big deal out of something that's virtually none of your business. This is something she can tell you she does IF she feels like it. Otherwise her personal time is just that -- personal...!



Good grief.
mel
2014-08-17 00:13:24 UTC
Ask her to watch it with you and if she says okay ask if she's ever seen it before and say it's okay if she has (cause it is ok), my bf and I always watch porn together. He thinks I've never seen it before but secretly I watch it all the time and have been since I was 13, girls aren't as open about masturbating and stuff like that like guys are, we tend to keep it to ourselves more. Don't push it out of her.
2014-08-17 00:28:52 UTC
If this is a problem for you, then dump her!

No worries, she will surely find a better guy!

Her status is of a girlfriend, not a slave!

Stop controlling and spying on your girlfriend/wife, unless you want to live a miserable life, full of obsessions and unpleasant stuff!

I NEVER check my wife's telephone, or purse, just as she never checks my telephone or wallet!

If you don't trust your partner, the relationship is doomed!
2014-08-17 00:16:34 UTC
Well, if you don't wanna lie, and you wanna follow her wishes then I ... and angry, and that is NOT gonna help the relationship any- trust me! ... and need to bust a nut...so in my book go right a head and have fun while you are at it.
2014-08-17 00:07:52 UTC
You need to talk to her about this. Relationships are built on trust, and if you can't trust her then this relationship is going to crash and burn. If she says she doesn't then you can either trust her words or break up. Simple as that.
?
2014-08-17 00:03:34 UTC
you got a get her phone


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