Should I post this private note on Facebook?

Question

I'm in love with my best guy friend and he told me the he feels the same. But he got a new girlfriend after promising me that we would go out. I'm heartbroken and I have been this way for a few months now. I've had about all I can take now and I want him to know how I feel, just I don't want to say it to his face. I'm not mentioning his name in the note, but maybe give a few hints that its him. Should I post it?? If I post it, I will make the privacy settings just for him to see the note cause I don't wanna embarrass him and I don't want his girlfriend to see it. I'm not trying to steal him from her, I just want him to see how much he hurt me.

Answer 1

No screw him, just find another guy, he will get his justice, maybe not from you. He might not get it today or tomorrow but someday he will realize he is a jerk and fall apart.

Answer 2

I would Not post anything on Facebook it only causes problems.. Maybe he really does like you but didn't want to cross the friendship line. When that happens things can get very complicated and you can never go back to the way it used to be.. I think maybe he got scared and jumped into a relationship with this other girl.. or maybe he doesn't feel the same way and didn't want to hurt you so he said he felt the same way and then didnt know what to do about it.. I really thing that if you are good friends that you should talk to him about it and ask him what changed? If he really is a good friend he will respect you enough to talk to you about it and give you the truth. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

I wouldn't tell him because the answer your probably gonna get is I'm dating someone and that's that although maybe you should send him a MESSAGE not note so it's for sure private but just to see what he'd say and mention that you don't wanna break him and his gf up you just want him to know ow you felt.

Answer 4

woah woah woah, posting anything like this on facebook, when the guy has a gf especially, will embaress yoou in the end, not him. not to mention he may get upset or annoyed. honestly just ignore him for a bit with a slightly annoyed/angry attitude and let him come to you. dont be too over-the-top with it but give him hints that youre upset with him. if he doesnt come to you, then babes dont even worry about him. hes not pleased with just one girl or a commitment. and trust me, with a little edgy ignorance hell get the message. when guys like girls they pay more attention to some of that small stuff

Answer 5

dont post it on fb private just to him, because me being a guy i would over react and not realize that it was private and just go off without listening, just call or text him and tell him how u feel and let it be done

Answer 6

If you don't want them to c it, why post it? If I was in your position I would keep it moving. He may not even last long with the girl he is with so don't sweat it, if anything it's his lost, u go n make someone else happy

Answer 7

You better get over that " don't wanna say it to his face" stuff, because that's rude and if your gonna be rude then be rude. Don't question it just go for it. Stop being a wimp. Ask him why did he do that?

Answer 8

Be confident. Say it to his face. I believe he'll respect you more and know that he really hurt you by not picking you to be his girlfriend.

Answer 9

Do not post anything Private on facebook!!!

Answer 10

Didn't you just post this question a minute ago? Why are you reposting it again?

Answer 11

Post it on tumblr. It's good for venting rage

Answer 12

Send it as a message

Answer 13

Unless you don't mind everyone knowing your talking about him then no just inbox it to him.



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Answer 14

so send him a message that way only he will c it

Answer 15

It is private so not

Answer 16

I don't think that Facebook is a good place. I think you should send it to his email. :) Or ask him thru fone. :)



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Answer 17

no