A little self conscious about down there. Want female opinion, but open to male opinion also?

Question

Ok, up until a while ago, I was pretty confident as far as my male endowment goes. I won't get into too many indulgent details, except to say; I thought I was the bees knees.

I now unfortunately have lost some of that confidence.

A while back I was dating a girl who I was intimate with. After one such of these intimate episodes while she was just playing around with my penis, she discovered the little bumps on the rim of my penis head. She wanted to know if they were to do with an STD or genital warts or something along those lines. I was quite taken a back to hear her say this, because I thought all penises had them. I explained this to her and she said that they were weird, but was relieved it wasn't an STD.

We've since split (for different reasons), and I haven't had any girl talk to me about them since. But I did a little research and found out that they were called "pearly penile papules". A completely benign condition, that appears on anywhere between 8-48% of penises (statistics are sketchy) and is treatable if the man so desires. If you would like to see an example look up pearly penile papules at your own risk (NSFW obviously).

My question is whether or not I should consider removal. This ex seemed quite overt to them, and I want to know if other girls would feel that way, or if the ex was just being a proverbial B****. I would like honest opinions of; if you were in a situation with a member like this, would you be made uncomfortable by it, be it the thought of it, or just aesthetic unpleasantness?

Please no "just be happy with yourself", and "whoever you're with should love you for who you are" answers. They sound good on day time television, but lack any sustenance in real life.

Thanks in advance. Merry Christmas.

Answer 1

I don't think she was being a b****, she was just unfamiliar with them. You could always point out to women that they make condoms with bumps and ridges to heighten satisfaction, but god just gave you yours naturally!

It's normal. Why would you want surgery, or worse, burning them off of such a delicate area when there's nothing wrong with them? B)

Answer 2

Hi there!



you really have nothing to worry about, they are completely natural and in all reality your ex was being a proverbial B. another common thing many guys have is fordyce spots, which again is very natural. you'll find (with the more experience you have) and more partners that this will be confirmed as in all likehood all men have these to some degree!



Have a good xmas!

Answer 3

If you are willing to remove them surgically , do it. You never know who is your "The one" and if your "The one" will be afraid of them or not even after all your explanations.. you dont want those tiny things to destroy your love/sex life and your own confidence... do you? Personally i feel uncomfortable about it .



Can you help me out. You replied to my question just now on the christmas message thingy.. i have added the additional details . Can you answer it again by editing your answer? thanks



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Btw which part of my english is terrible? please tell me so that i can improve my english.. i dont want to fail my english essay.. i dont understand what you mean by re-read my questions ... you mean there is something wrong with my question or the things i wrote have lots of grammer mistakes , etc ? thanks

Answer 4

have them removed to make life simple... or you might end up having to explain almost everyone what these really are