Question:
Is this guy playing hard to get?
2018-02-11 16:02:59 UTC
So I met this guy off tinder the other day. We went on a date and I thought the date went well. Nothing was awkward and we talked for a LONG time. After the date, he walked me to my car and gave me a hug. The next day I texted him just telling him "thanks" and basically that I hope I didn't keep him up late because he worked early that next day. He doesn't respond. I wait for hours and just got so annoyed. I texted him again and was just straight up asking if I did something wrong on the date. I told him if he had a bad time I was sorry. He texts me back an hour later saying "sorry" because he forgot to text me back while he was at work and felt like a jerk. Then he continues to text me saying like "how are you" and just small talk. Then he stops responding all together. Also I should mention that he was on instagram and snapchat during the time he wasn't texting me. Is this guy playing games with me? Is he talking to someone else? I am so confused.
Six answers:
?
2018-02-11 18:13:59 UTC
Well, nothing like acting desperate, and you did.
dr.pepper106
2018-02-11 18:06:04 UTC
I think you made a mistake by not letting him chase you. You texed him twice before he contacted you, and I am afraid you have come across as desperate.

Don't take away the thrill of the pursuit for a man.
2018-02-11 17:51:41 UTC
He’s not interested
2018-02-11 16:47:47 UTC
He's not interested in taking this further!
Court
2018-02-11 16:30:15 UTC
It seems like he isn’t wanting to talk to you. Maybe you’re not his type? I would just forget him and move on, there’s always someone else out there!



Just imagine it the other way around- What if you didn’t like him after the date and no longer wanted to talk to him? Then if he texted you then you wouldn’t want to respond either.
?
2018-02-11 16:21:33 UTC
Give time to know .


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