Do you think I should add her on myspace?

Question

There's this freshman (I'm a Sophomore) girl in my Spanish class that I think I have a crush on. We both always find ourselves staring at each other, all the time. Since she sits right across from me, I can see her looking at me through the corner of her eyes. And every time I look back, she looks away! I was gonna talk to her on Friday but she didn't go to school, now it's break, and I won't be seeing her for 2 weeks. Should I just add her on myspace? Or just wait till school starts and approach her? Also, I've never spoken to her in person because I'm a shy guy, especially when it comes to approaching girls. I'd really appreciate some advice, thank you guys :)

Answer 1

Myspace today in person tomorrow.

Answer 2

Im a shy guy too, I added a girl on myspace and messaged her a few times and eventually asked her out. We have now been dating for almost a year and a half (I'm 16). Just make sure you are yourself when it comes to myspace, be confident but be you. It helps when you talk about school too, so when you go back you can say something to her instead of drawing blanks lol. Good Luck Bro!

Answer 3

You should approach her in real life first and become at least acquaintances to the point where you know each other's names. Try and overcome your fear and go up to her and talk. That way when you add her on myspace, it won't be as awkward and you can continue talking to her there if its more comfortable for you.



Alternatively, you can just add her on myspace, saying "hi remember me from spanish?" or something like that and get to know her from there on. That way your conversations online can bring up topics to talk about at school. She probably won't reject you or anything since exchanging glances (even if she looks away) is a sign that she probably likes you too.

Answer 4

No way, don't wait!!!!! ADD HER! It'll be a great ice-breaker for you guys to keep in touch, chit-chat, get to know each other a little better (obviously you don't know her, since you've never talked to her). If she's giving you the eyes a little longer than is politely necessary, and you've caught her checking you out in her periphs, then I'm positive she is interested in you. Myspace, like I said, is a great ice breaker...it's easier to start talking that way than going up face to face in some random situation and just saying "whats up?", which I could totally never do, because I'm so painfully shy that it's just borderline retarded haha!! (Of course, couple drinks always helps me loosen up some, but you're still too young! =P)



Anyway, good luck!!!!!!!! I'm excited for you! I have no doubt that it'll work out for ya!

Answer 5

Ohmygosh! This is the sweetest thing! Oh. Sorry. Didn't mean to get all girly. Aha.

Okay, you can add her on myspace, but DO NOT write something in that message thing when you add a person. If you don't have a picture on default of you, then add a message, otherwise DON'T!

Don't ask why, just don't do it, boy.

When she adds you, look through her pictures and find one that you like and think she looks really pretty in. Comment it. Say something like "I like this one. (say something about her eyes) You're beautiful."

Yep yep. It's a lady killer line. Aha. Jkay.

I hope this helps, bud!

Good Luck!

Answer 6

In two weeks you are still going to be shy ,so add her now.She will ask if it was you or let you know one way or the other if it was right.



What do you got to lose? She can only say no .She not going to eat you or hurt you ! She might be waiting on you to make a move of sorts this way you have shown her you like her



Tell her about your self ,don't be a jerk or a jackass .try to be honest, not all telling and silly .don't fall over yourself trying to impress her .



She might even be shy too ,so be careful and gentle you never know she night be the one . Ask her to help you with some sort of home work or class project ?

Answer 7

Add her on myspace and begin a simple conversation and get to know her. Once you've settled in as a friend then at school, in person, try showing or expressing your feelings for her.

Answer 8

Just add her, I mean. What's the worse that could happen? From how you explained it, it sure seems like she does like you. Soo I'm pretty sure things will work out. Here's an advice though, once you add her, DON'T send her a message until a day or two later. It'll make her think that you just wanted to be friends so she'll be running to you. :)

Answer 9

if she likes you too she will love getting your friend request on myspace! but wait until you see her person to approach her and start a real conversation. after you talk to her in person and have a face to face relationship with her she will be more open to going out of her way to talk to you too and maybe something will come out of that... like dating. hope this helped. good luck! :)

Answer 10

I say add her b/c whats the worst that can happen its not like something bads going to happen and she cant really assume anything from a myspace add trust me.

Answer 11

hmm ; sounds qood ;

she miqht like you, you should definately ask before assuminq tho

cause somebody could most definately qet hurt . love is a crazy thinq and its corrupt ;

just be careful .but i believe you should spill your feelings to her . so she doesnt feel [if she likes you )

that you dont like her . i had this happen to me before. i would never thought that this girl liked me . so i told her i like you alot and it turns out she liked me to . we've been together for a YEAR now (:

hope all is well

& uhm tell her in person .

like in a note or something or wait if your shy you could do it over aim or somethinq .

thats what i did (: & it worked.







All that advice makes really no sense but i didnt type it for nothinq so .

try it out (:



GOOD LUCK :D

Answer 12

Yeah, add her on myspace, its the best place to break the ice since she won't notice you're hyperventilating and sweating like crazy.

Answer 13

Truthly bro dont add her trust ive done it million times not smart if you add her you will seem desprate go up to her in class talk to her, there aint a better way then face to face trust me just talk to her face to face forget my space and take it nice easy and slow

Answer 14

awww. you should add her i think so she get a point you like her since you a shy guy this will bring you a step closer. if she accepts yeah defiantly talk to her at school at if she doesn't, (but she probley will accept) then theres plenty of other fish in the sea :)

Answer 15

Hey dude definitely wait until school starts and ask her. If you catch her alone that is the best time and no matter what don't send your friend to talk to her. You could though talk to her good friends, it is up to you. Good Luck :)

Answer 16

ok well if your shy i personally think you should just go on myspace and add her and talk to her to start a brief convo and continue talking in school... good luck sweety!

Answer 17

wait til you see her in person. adding her on myspace seems kinda creepy if you dont know someone. just make a joke about the class or something, make her laugh, and then add her later on dude

Answer 18

most girls just want the guy to make the first move.

you can add her, but you might want to get to know her in person a little first.

if you have confidence and just talk to her she will notice.

based on what you are saying, she might like you.

take a chance, and go for it.

Answer 19

well just add her not a big deal dude its just myspace! once well couple days ago there is this guy who works at petro Canada who always flirts with me and i don't know him well anyways i added him on face book, so if i can do that with a dude who i don't know you can do that with a classmate!

Answer 20

Of course you should add her !!!!! This will give you a chance to get to know her during the break and it will help you because of your being shy!!!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 21

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Answer 22

You shouldn't add her until you get the chance to actually speak to her in person so just don't touch it at all.

Answer 23

it;s just myspace.. it's not a life commitment

don't think of it as your adding her to stalk (which you best not do!), just think of it as fadding another friend



..but you may want to talk to her first.. she may not know you?

so you might want to wait until school, if you really have never talked to her

Answer 24

add her on myspace to show her you notice her and then approach her at school.

Answer 25

Wait 'till next time you see her :)

Answer 26

Yes.

Answer 27

mos def wait til school starts again

Answer 28

Oh, c'mon, a girl wants a guy to talk to her in person, even with all this technology these days. Talk to her in person, first! Be brave!

Answer 29

wait till skool.

you'll seem desperate.

Answer 30

not much harm can be done by adding someone on a website.

Answer 31

I think you should, she is not that younger from you only by one year! SO YES.... Go speak to her dont me scared nothing will happen

Thanks for pts

Answer 32

Ya just try to be nice. It will work.

Answer 33

I think that you should add her!

Answer 34

i would add her and tel lher you like her.

Answer 35

dont add her, youll seem creepy.



stop being a pussy and wait to talk to her in person.

Answer 36

Yes.... Add her...

Answer 37

you should do it you're the man! :)