Is this normal?? MY BOYFRIEND forbids me to wear leggings to school and outside the house what do u think?

Question

So me and my bf are together for almost 6 months now this day is the 170th day which im really happy about.we love each other so much at least i really do love him kore than anything. And he is prety aggressive and he forbids me to go to the gym,to use makeup,towear leggings outside the house(school,street,shops.) And i stopped going to the gym but i would really like to continue because luckily i am motivated so much and now he doesnt lets me to he says if ill go back to the gym he will breakupwith me because we wont be together that much if ill go to the gym and guys will **** me there and that i am showing my butt he said these things..also with the leggings..and makeup he doesnt lieks me with makeup and he told me dont use makeup..so what is this is this normal?? Yesterday he almost broke up with me because i told him that i was in black leggings to school and he told me that boys probably stare at you and idk even if they **** you " i was begging to him for 2 hours to stay with me. P.s im 15 and he is 16 ...

Answer 1

This is not a healthy relationship for you at all! Do you really need a 16 year old BOY to tell you what you can or cannot do? What you can or cannot wear? or even go to the gym or wear make up? thought kids get enough of that from their mom and dad! Anyway, your BF is a control Freak and is mentally abusive to you! But what does it matter? You are begging him for two hours to not dump your desperate butt for just wearing leggings! You sound like you have no life of you own or mind of your own.. You may as well just STFU because you are the type that needs someone to tell you how to dress, how to act, where you can or cannot go and you need his permission to even wear makeup! You never eally wanted your own life or your own mind did you? All you ever wanted was a BF! How so F$%^ing sad! If I was your dad had heard how he was controlling my daughter, I would make that boy my little B itch!

Answer 2

That's messed up. Too much of telling what can or cannot do. He's your boyfriend, not your dad. I would never do that to my gf. I am not an overprotective boyfriend. Tha hell is wrong with women trying to be comfortable or embracing her physique? You want someone else to love you right? You gotta start loving yourself. Don't throw it all on this puppy love.



There's lots to learn in life. It's too early. Dump him. Do it in a calm manner. Kids these day are sensitive.

Answer 3

Him forbidding you to do things is abusive, if he starts telling you where you can go and who you can see then the best thing to do is break up with him. My girlfriend's ex used to tell her what she could do and then he progressed to physical abuse.