My girlfriend is Non Vegetarian and she love to eat chicken, but i m pure vegetarian. how should i convince her to stop eating chicken.?

Question

as i know that an innocent bird is killed cruelly to make those burgers and pizzas with chicken, but she love to eat chicken and also eggs, and i dont want her to be cruel to any innocent bird, so how to convince her to stop[ eating chicken and become pure vegetarian like me as it would also make her fat or even sick.

Answer 1

Hello



First of all chicken is very healthy, of course too much of any food can make someone put on weight, I am sure there are many vegetarians that are over weight.

I think that's it's great that you care so much about animals etc, but I don't think you should convince her to do anything. You can by all means share your passions and share why you are vegetarian, maybe even ask her if she has ever thought about being vegetarian. If she says no, that is also fine, it's her decision to eat whatever she likes. Something you can do is take her to a vegetarian restaurant for a date and see what she thinks. If she still doesn't want to be veggie don't be upset or angry as again it's up to her. I hope that her not being veggie doesn't finish the relationship, that'd be a shame if you let something like that ruin something good.

Answer 2

Aww sweetie, I'm really sorry to say this but you can't make her be vegetarian. If she wants to eat chicken then let her, it's her own choice. I'm a vegetarian too and have been for nearly 8 years and my whole family are huge meat eaters and always have been. I've even tried to convince them in the past to become vegetarian like me but they just laugh at the idea. They do love animals and they don't like that they're killed for food, they just love the taste of meat and can't give it up. There isn't anything you can do except for maybe find a vegetarian girlfriend? You can't change her habits or make her decisions on what she eats. It could only cause unnecessary arguments. Maybe ask her politely if she doesn't eat it around you. Good luck!

Answer 3

This is complicated issue. the whole concept of trying to change someone you are having a relationship with is thorny. You may need to spend the weekend watching rom coms to get a better handle on it. But basically it comes down to the "If you love me you should accept me for who i am?" and the "i only want whats best for you" arguments. Anyway if you figure this out you can write your own rom com.



Anyway, i guess the question is, have you actually discussed with her (for 5 minutes or longer) why You are a "pure vegetarian". If you haven't, its worth a shot. Bone up some of your statistics and maybe rehearse it once. I would keep it to a 5 to 10 minute lecture.



The other thing that might work is for you two to sit down and watch a movie. Food, inc attacks all of big ag but i think they do an especially good job on the poultry industry. Also its a very mainstream movie, interesting and well done. You could watch that and then have a good discusiion about it.



I haven't seen "**** Fight", but I am already convinced. Its available on line. Its very recent and may help. You should preview it first.



There is also a movie called Fowl Play. I think its just about the egg industry



If that doesn't work, give begging a try.

Answer 4

Well, just do what you believe in, you don't necessarily have to change her. If she needs to lose weight just kindly tell her about it, if she's healthy then it's alright. I know it would look weird in your eyes but she might take into consideration and eat less chicken. Also is chicken the only meat she eats? Are you going to ban her from eating steaks as well? Just wondering because if she doesn't like any type of meat except for chicken that's actually very good for a non vegetarian.

Answer 5

Chicken doesn't always make people fat but there's nothing you can really do about that and chickens are animals it's not like she's a cannibal. And if you try to force your habits on her you're gonna make yourself look like an *** and a control freak. Just let her be herself and opposites attract you don't have to have all the same habits as someone else or have every little thing in common to date them. If you're a hot headed person and if she was too it probably wouldn't go well or last when things aren't going good. You two can balance each other out and compromise on things like her not being a vegetarian but if she's not willing to do that it's something you'll have to let it go if you push people too hard you'll push them away trust me.

Answer 6

One, eating chicken does not make a person fat. Secondly, you cannot force your habits on others. Coming from a vegetarian, I understand your intentions. However, it's super obnoxious to shove your beliefs down someone's throat. It's only going to make him/her recede more. The best you can do is show your girlfriend how these animals are treated or if she isn't willing to make the switch, educate her about free-range eggs & meat. There's nothing much else I can tell ya here. This is all you. Good luck.

Answer 7

It really isn't your place to tell her what she can and cannot eat. I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate it if she tried to convince you to start eating chicken because you need protein, or whatever the argument. And either way, eating chicken does not reflect her "being cruel" to any bird; she's not the one slaughtering chickens. And whether or not she becomes a vegetarian, that won't stop the meatpacking industry from treating chickens the way they do.



IN CONCLUSION, it's messed up to convince someone to do something they love, so don't do it. Period.

Answer 8

I am not going to say that you're wrong just for putting your views out there. I am a non-vegetarian too, and I feel really guilty whenever I think of what you just said. But I always find it impossible to stop eating meat, for some reason.. I must tell you, telling her to stop eating non-veg won't work. You can try just casually putting your ideas out there, and see how she reacts. However, you must prepare yourself for the worst, as I know for a fact that it is indeed very difficult to just stop eating chicken. Also, I recommend you be open to negotiate. Ask her if she can avoid eating chicken in front of you, as that will avoid your discomfort. Hope this helps, good luck...!

Answer 9

From a meat eaters perspective: I honestly do not see anything wrong with eating certain animals that has been proven to provide nutrition to the human body as bad. I am not fat and I am rarely ill. I also eat fruits and veggies along with meat. I also do not love pets the way some people do (providing a background for my skewed opinion). When I follow a vegan or vegetarian, I am happy for their choices in diet but I do not feel the urge to tell them to eat meat. Also why do we as people feel the need to thrust our values onto someone else. You should look within yourself and see if this is a long term deal breaker for you. Can you deal with her eating chicken at your dinner table? Talking someone (especially a woman) into diet changes can come across as shaming. If she wanted to be a vegetarian, she would have become one. She ultimately makes the decision. If you allow her the right be be free and to naturally do it on her own, then it will be much more special for her. Talking her into that is basically you pressuring her and forcing her to not be herself. I think the best approach is asking her questions and talking with her about her preference for chicken. At that moment, don't talk about changing her but more so trying to understand her. Then, you can reflect and look and see if this is okay with you.

Answer 10

Hmm... I don't know why what she eats should bother you, it's part of her culture. I think you should respect that the same way she should respect that you don't eat meat. If you're still set on convincing her, maybe take her to a farm and let her watch chickens get decapitated and see if that changes her mind (still wouldn't recommend, she'd probably hate you for even bothering to show her this, so I'd suggest just let it be, if seeing her eat chicken bothers you still then just politely ask her not to eat chicken in front of you because of how sad it makes you feel. Assuming that's the case.)

Answer 11

Tell her that if everyone in the world was a vegetarian, then there wouldn't be any world starvation as to 9kg of corn with 22500 calories it creates only 1kg of chicken with only 1000 calories. So 1 meal of chicken that feeds one person could have instead been over 22 meals of corn/veg that feeds 22 people. Eating meat is doomed as we all hate a middle man and that is the chicken using up most of the food!

Answer 12

You're gonna hear this from an ex vegan and go ahead and say I never was but you can't say I didn't give it a shot. I've done vegetarian for 2 years and vegan for about 2 years.



What I have learned is that you have no chance of getting people to change if you are gonna try the "meat is murder" tactic. I've gotten more people to listen what veganism has to offer by sharing wondrous recipes and talking about health benefits. To make people feel like dirt for their decision only turns them away and nothing was accomplished. This also becomes a detriment to the mission.



Just take that to consideration.

Answer 13

I'm pretty sure you wouldn't appreciate her telling you to eat chicken just because she does, same as she wouldn't appreciate you telling her to become a vegetarian. What she eats is her choice, and if you want a vegetarian girlfriend, dump her and find someone else, because you can't change what a person likes and doesn't like.

Answer 14

lol @ eating non vegetarian food will make her fat. So well yeah then you need to split up. Because that sounds like grounds for going your separate ways.

But truthfully, if these 2 lifestyles are that much of an issue for you then you need to split up and the next person you connect with for a real deep meaningful relationship will need to be a vegetarian.

It's a question that is valid to discuss about relationship similarities for sure. It's not just a matter of I like chicken and she likes fish when we go out eating. It's going to be pretty tough to make any relationship work if you feel so strongly about this, and it doesn't bother her.

Her beliefs and her lifestyle are both her choice, and you have no business trying to convert her. No one has any business trying to convert anyone. Either learn to love the person you are with, if you feel it's too much of a dealbreaker, then time to go your separate ways. You knew she was a meat eater when you got together. You can't change people. Time to split. She doesn't want to stay with someone who is going to be constantly judging her and breathing his agenda down her throat and trying to make her change. And how do you expect to play house with someone who you don't share lifestyle values with. I've talked to people who eat different every day. Try cooking one meal for you and one meal for her, or going out to restaurants and making sure you're both happy. I can tell you now it's not going to work.

Answer 15

You should not try to push your beliefs on her. You are not equipped with canines to eat apples. Eating meat is natural. Nearly every mammal does it. You are the oddity not her. There has been evidence that plants may feel pain. At the moment we can't find a nervous system, but that does not mean it doesn't exist. Lots of evidence has been collected since 50s. What are you going to do then? At least with an animal, we can prevent it feeling pain. We won't be able to do that with plants. It would then be hypocritical for you to continue eating plants. I take it you will roll over and die? Of course not. So get off her case.

Answer 16

You don't. You either live with it or your get another girlfriend. Going into a relationship with the intentions of changing someone is wrong and almost always ends badly. If you feel that strongly about being a vegetarian then you need to find a girlfriend who is already a vegetarian. If you have to change someone to make them compatible with you then they are not really compatible with you.

Answer 17

As a 5th generation cattle rancher, let me suggest you should be dating vegetarians, and leave meat eaters to their own choices. Actually, you are what makes vegetarians a nuisance to so many others, since animals provide food to way more humans than young men who want to demand a woman eat his selected variety of celery or beans. Fact is, chicken is a tasty meal, and they eat corn mesh, which is...you guessed it, a vegetable and some say a grain. Meat rocks the world.

Answer 18

What she eats is her choice. Humans are built to process meat, and she can be perfectly healthy eating it in good portion sizes. Animals eat animals, it is the circle of life. Consumption in EXCESS however is what's bad. The constant every-meal-pounds-of-meat-a-day is what cause inhumane treatment of farm animals and mass breeding.

All of this said, I would like to point out that there is nothing wrong with being a vegetarian. It's a very healthy and rewarding lifestyle. If you are happy, enjoy that diet. It's just not for her.

Answer 19

It looks like the general consensus is that you cannot tell her what to eat, you can't force her to change and I agree with that.



Furthermore, telling her lies to further your agenda is going to push her away and make her dig in her heels more.



Meat does not make people fat or sick. Overeating and not burning the calories makes people fat (and some medical issues also such as thyroid disease).



Bacteria, viruses, molds, and other pathogens make people sick. Meat does NOT cause illness. Humans would never have evolved beyond throwing rocks at each other without meat. Meat is responsible for allowing our brains to get bigger and more complex.



Next, how is she being cruel to birds? Have you caught her beating a bird? Does she pull their wings off? Is she waterboarding them? I'm suspecting that she is NOT being cruel to birds.

Telling her that chickens are "innocent" is a specious argument. Birds to not have the mental capacity to be innocent or guilty. Telling her that they're killed cruelly is another lie. Farmers and butchers work hard to minimise stress because bruised and broken animals cannot be sold and result in a financial loss to the business. It is in their best interest to make sure that any animals sold for food are handled carefully.



So, you have a lot of strikes against you - telling lies, being manipulative, and bullying your girlfriend to further your agenda. I suggest you end it immediately. If you care about her at all, you'll let her go. She deserves a boyfriend who is going to love her for who she is and obviously, you're not it.

Answer 20

Eating chicken is her choice .You cannot convince her to give up eating chicken and take to a vegitarian diet .Let her read some articles on benifits of vegitarian diet and convince herself on the health and other benifits of a vegitarian diet . If it is not possible you will have to accept as a non vegitarian partner if you are in love with her . Her food habit should not be an obstacle to your affair with her .At the same time you cannot expect your partner to fall in line with all your requirements .She is an indepedent person and she has the right to decide her personal matters . So long she is a faithful wife by trying to unnecessarily interfear with her personal freedom avoid creating bitterness between the two .

Answer 21

Ever since man first walked the earth he has always eaten meat, and almost every other animal in the world eats meat. It is not cruel to eat chicken because it was killed innocently. Chickens are not sentient, which means they are not aware of themselves or their surrounding almost exactly like ants.



Second, if you love her, you will not make her change who she is just to agree with your opinions.



Finally, chicken is probably in the top 3 foods I eat the most of, and I am at 10% bodyfat where 18-24 is the average for males, and I am only 15 years old, and have 125 lbs of lean muscle. So I would have to disagree with the part where eating chicken makes you fat.

Answer 22

First of all you cannot convince her to become anything based on misinformation. Stating that eating chicken will make her either sick or fat is untrue as there is nothing unhealthy about including meat in your diet. In fact since certain nutrients required by humans for a long and healthy life are only naturally available through meat and animal products such as dairy and eggs a person who eats them is getting these nutrients naturally rather than artificially.

Answer 23

I am a vegetarian too and i dated people that werent and it is weird. I hate it too so i totally know where you are coming from. I would say try convincing her but dont be annoying about it. Tell her that it bothers you and that it makes you uncomfortable. Tell her the facts and the benefits of being a vegetarian. (dont tell her she is going to loose weight because then she will hunt you down and kill you and your relationship will be dead if you say that) tell her the health benefits and the costs benefit and try using pathos show her a video of a slaughter house and how the chickens used to cook meat with are being treated and say that her buying that stuff supports that industry. Convince her by just showing her the reality of it all.

Answer 24

You do not have the right to make others follow your narrow minded views. You think you are "pure", but you are in fact a hypocrite and a fanatic - the source of all the ills of the world. You appoint yourself an animal lover and conveniently overlook the fact that to grow your vegetables, land has to be taken away from animals that once lived there. What do you suppose happened to all the animals that were displaced? You think they moved into condo's paid for by vegetarians like you? You think dying from hunger or being eaten by prey because there is no place to hide is not cruel? Like I said, you are a hypocrite.

Answer 25

If you want to date a vegetarian, find a vegetarian to date.



You could show your girlfriend information on vegetarianism (e.g. health, environment, benefits of vegetarianism, recipes) but it's her choice to whether she becomes vegetarian.



You can't force someone to follow your lifestyle if they don't want to. Being in a relationship with someone means respecting their choices, beliefs, autonomy and freedom.



If after showing your girlfriend information about vegetarianism, she says she prefers eating meat or could never become vegetarian, then you need to decide whether it's more important to you to date a vegetarian or whether you can live happily with your girlfriend, even if she's not a vegetarian.

Answer 26

Your statement "i know that an innocent bird is killed cruelly". You do realize that experiments with plant dating dating back the early 50's show that plants react when leaves or flowers are cut of with electrochemical signals equivalent to human pain receptors. No matter what you eat animal or plant you are eating it as a result of its own pain.



So don't sit there and judge with what appears to be your high and mighty viewpoint that your diet is less harmful to life than that of your girlfriend's choice... !



If it's such a deal breaker leave her or more to the point why are you with her in the first place?

Answer 27

To be honest you don't, she's your

Girlfriend, you live her etc, but what right would you have telling her what she can or can't eat just because your a vegetarian? My girlfriend loves going out with her friends a lot, she goes out to restaurants, friends houses whatever, I go sometimes but I would never tell her she can't see her friends or stop her from doing what she likes doing, you love her yes, but you've gotta let her be herself and respect what she likes to do/eat. I go and play football with my work mates, if she said I couldn't go I would go crazy, like what right would she have sayings that.

Answer 28

You're trying to IMPOSE your personal convictions & lifestyle choice onto her. That is pointless and selfish on your part. You would find it pushy & offensive if she tried to force you to eat meat. She has the right to make her own decisions, the same as you. If you can't tolerate her eating meat, then she is not the right girl for you in all respects. You chose to be with her, as she is. Don't go into a relationship expecting to 'convert' anyone else to your lifestyle. You wouldn't like it done to you..(if the shoe was on the other foot).

Answer 29

You don't. Its like shoving a religion down somebody's throat. They are your beliefs, not your girlfriends, and you can't tell her SHE can't do something because of what YOU believe in. You're a person who gives vegetarians a bad name. If she was forcing you to eat meat you would think differently. You can't change girls to be how you want them, you take them as they are and if you aren't happy with that you leave. Accept your differences. This isn't build-a-bear workshop, you can't customize your girlfriend as you please.

Answer 30

You don't make her stop eating what she wants to eat.

I am vegetarian, and have been for over 3 years now. I am primarily because of the ethics regarding how the animals are raised and treated.

None of my friends or guys I've dated have been vegetarians. Do I care? No. I'm not set out to change their minds, and hope that they respect my decisions and don't try to make me eat meat. One thing I cannot deal with it someone trying to force me to eat meat.

Chicken isn't unhealthy. If she chooses to eat it, good for her. If you don't choose to eat it, good for you. You need to respect her decisions though.

Answer 31

You can't. She has to make her own decisions.



You're not going to convince her that eating meat will make her sick...because it won't. She knows that. Humans have been eating meat for thousands of years and we've become the dominant species on the planet.



I'd suggest you have a serious talk. If she's not willing to go veg, find another girlfriend. Life is too short to waste trying to force your opinion on others.

Answer 32

I'm not sure if forcing your girlfriend to change her views to match yours is a healthy basis for a relationship.



You can provide her with some facts about vegetarians and explain why YOU feel that eating meat is wrong - but ultimately its her decision.

Answer 33

The same way that she should convince you to eat chicken. In other words, you don't. She has a right to choose what she eats just as you have a right to choose what you eat. End of story. Or, end of relationship.

Answer 34

I'm sorry but you can't just go around trying to get all your girlfriends to stop eating what they like... if it bothers you that much then look for a girlfriend who's vegetarian as well... what a toss o_O

Answer 35

First off, calling someone a "non-vegetarian" is like saying a male is a "non-female" or someone that is short is "non-tall". If she eats meat and vegetables, she is an omnivore. Which is what the vast majority of humans are. We are born with teeth known as incisors and canines because our bodies have evolved to eat meat. You have made a choice to not eat meat. And that is a choice that I hope was not forced upon you. I'm sure you have your reasons, but I'm not sure they are based on scientific fact. Humans are the only species that chooses its diet. So let her choose hers.

Answer 36

Im like you I have never eaten meat I was brought up in a vegetarian household and turned vegan when I was 15, and I do look at people as murderers when they siot there and tear there teeth into a birds leg .... but anyway yes back the pointttt .... theres no way ti change a person because deep down they will always be the same, I mean you could try showing her some of the awful videos of how they keep the animals that end up on her plate ,,, teach her that eggs are essentially a birds miscarriage .... educate her on how goddam wrong it is .... chances are she will be upset at how cruel it is and then go order kfc but theres nothing to really do .... although if she really loves you she will eat meat etc when away from you as to not cause you distress

Good luck !! :)

Answer 37

I love animals and can't possibly imagine killing one without almost crying, but I love beef, venison, duck, chicken and fish, especially fish. We were designed to eat animals and plants, who's right is it to deny a lion his lamb?

You can ask the most pagan of people and they will tell you that plants are as much alive as animals, sometimes if I accidentally step on a flower I would feel bad and bury it, even if I step on grass, the thing is, it's not the action that is "wrong" but the intention, killing an animal to survive and gain food is perfectly fine in my book, but killing an animal for sport is as vile and no different from a serial killer.

Answer 38

Get her some Tasty Vegetarian Foods, French Fries?

Answer 39

Eating meat doesn't mean you support animal cruelty nor does it mean you are being cruel to the animal. I'm sure you knew she ate meat when you met her, so why not date her for who she is and accept she doesn't want to live the same lifestyle as you? The fact you probably frown upon her eating meat might make her feel awkward to even around you. If her being a meat eater is such a huge problem, then you either need to get over it or leave her (as douchey as that sounds). That's it.

Answer 40

Chicken is actually healthy for you and won't make you fat unless you eat too much (like any food)... Also, either deal with the fact that she eats meat or leave her. I don't know why you dated her in the first place if eating chicken is such a problem

Answer 41

You shouldn't. Face it Humans beings need a balanced diet. That means they need some meat. And since you're worried about the innocent animals just remember this. All animal are all to happy to devour each other for food. If we are to take your reasoning that animals can be innocent, then there's no such thing as an innocent animal on this planet.

Answer 42

How would you feel if she asked or tried to convince you to stop being a Vegetarian all together. Yep that's my point. Need not say more than that.

Answer 43

Why don't you just respect her and let her be her own person.. if her eating meat causes you so much distress find a vegetarian girlfriend.

Answer 44

If you love her you won't change her, she is not trying to convince you to eat chicken is she? So why would you want to make her stop eating chicken? If you love her you won't try to change her she is not doing any harm to anybody.

Answer 45

How many innocent plants did you kill on your endeavor to become a pure vegetarian?



Humans are omnivores, not herbivores. And like all other animals in the animal kingdom, we survive by consuming other organisms, be they plants or animals (both are living beings).



So unless you are some weirdo who only eats supplementary, synthetic foods, your argument of "innocent bird getting killed" is non-sequitur because you, as a vegetarian, also kill innocent plants for food.

Answer 46

You don't have to and shouldn't convince her of what she should eat. She's free to eat what she wants. There's nothing wrong with your being a vegetarian and her being a meat-eater.

Answer 47

The answer is simple you wouldnt want her to try and change you to eat chicken and other foods you dont like right ? Then why do you think you can change her? You can suggest for her to try something different but i wouldnt say try to convince her!! She is who she is and you are who you are and you should be able to accept her how she is with every single deffect she has from the smallest to the biggest trying to change someone never works, so my advice to you is just see past that and just love her just the way she is! And just to be clear anything can make you sick!!!!

Answer 48

you don't. Let her eat what she wants or find a another girlfriends who shares all of your interests. Do you want her to convince you to not be a vegetarian.

Answer 49

You shouldn't want to. Accept her as she is, just as she is you. Do you want her to try and convince you to each chick or any red meat? Probably not.



I'm a "meatetarian", my husband is a vegetarian. Neither of us tries to sway the other, we just eat different versions of the same meals.

Answer 50

Wow these Vegetarianphobes. Sorry for the bad answers you are getting, but maybe you could ask her to go vegetarian for a week, and you will cook all her meals. This way you are doing something for her. During this time you could talk to her, but a decision like this is something that she would have to decide on her own.

Answer 51

You can't force someone to eat the same way as you, just like you can't force someone to be the same religion as you etc. I think it is just best that you both respect each other's different eating habits. It shouldn't be such a big deal that your girlfriend eats meat and eggs and that you don't - just live and let live.

Answer 52

I'm a vegetarian too and it's hard because my family's not. When they make food that has meat in it with no concideration for me I sit down with them and ask them if they could try to make a vegetarian section of the meal for me. I don't try to make them stop defiant meat because it's their choice and we should respect thet, but I do ask very kindly for them to confided me when they're making meals. I think is a good solution and it's worked for me for six years.

Answer 53

you don't convince anyone to do something they don't want to do. i'd straight up be very pissed off if you started to control my eating habits. you're vegetarian, cool, but your girlfriend IS NOT. either get over it or find a girl that's vegetarian

Answer 54

First of all, did you ever think your girlfriend might be thinking, "How can I get my girlfriend to stop being a vegetarian and get her to eat meat, like chicken"?

Answer 55

Those innocent birds are going to be killed either way . . . if your girlfriend doesn't eat them, someone else will. They're not going to kill less chickens just because one person stopped earring them.



Secondly, I'm not sure if you're aware but chickens don't really care if you take their eggs.

Answer 56

Im vegetarian but stop forcing your views on the meateaters. That the same stupid **** the dumbass vegans always try to pull that leads people away from being vegetarian rather than for it. The vegans actually attack me for being vegetarian so I understand what meateaters suffer through. Its called bullying and it helps noone. Just dont bother her. If she asks you can explain your diet and why you have it to her but otherwise be respectful as long as shes respectful.

Answer 57

You dont.,Its none of your business.You eat what you want and she eats what she wants. I think you are both incompatible just because you both have different needs regards food. You might want to think about the relationship.If you're determined that you would prefer someone had similar food intake as you then you and your girlfriend need to talk then break up.

Answer 58

Look for a vegetarian girlfriend

Answer 59

You don't.



I'm a vegan and have been for two years, and I have absolutely no problem with my boyfriend eating meat. He takes care of himself and has been a carnivore for his whole life, and he's healthy & in good shape. What he is doesn't matter to me. What matters is how he is. It should be the same for you and your girlfriend.

Answer 60

PLEASE try to get over it. She likes what she likes, eats what she wants, etc.

It would be different if you didn't eat something because of religion, but being a vegetarian is kind of different.

For example, my family is muslim and don't eat pork. I am not very religious, so I eat pork, sometimes.

HOWEVER, I refrain from eating pork around my muslim family out of respect.

You could ask her not to eat it around her, but it's not fair for you to try to change her.

Answer 61

Chickens aren't innocent, no animals are! Compared to most animals humans are the new kids on earth and we have to continue establishing our dominance or they will rise against us. We should put ***** vegetarians in camps, continue feasting on meat fellow normal people. FOR HUMANS

Answer 62

Dude, take her or leave her. It's not your choice to make her vegan. You're just going to upset her by trying to cram your lifestyle down her throat. If you don't like that she's omni, then you have to decide if that's a make-or-break point in the relationship. But, trying to convert someone to veganism is like being religious and trying to convert your atheist partner to your religion. It's going to blow up in your face and you're going to come across as a jerk. Women want to be liked "as they are". When a man starts trying to change them, it goes sour real fast.

Answer 63

If you wanted a vegetarian girlfriend then you should have asked a vegetarian out

Answer 64

Brother you see it's her choice.. If she eats chicken.. It doesn't make her cruel.. It may seem like that to you because maybe that's how you were bought up.. Anyway if you really feel talk to her... Don't tell her to stop.. Just tell her how you feel about it and you'll see the magic..

Answer 65

How about not being a terrible person?



I'll blow a months worth of dieting and eat a bucket of KFC in front of the vegan who told me eating meat is wrong.

If she's interested in being a veggie then she'll ask you.

Answer 66

All you can do is to educate her on the matter, ask her to watch some documentaries with you. Also you shouldnt expect her to go veggie but at least you can educate her and if she wants to change she will but you shouldn't let this affect your relationship if she doesn't want to stop eating meat

Answer 67

You can't and you shouldn't. Those are her decisions. It's like her trying to make you a non vegetarian

Answer 68

What makes you think she should stop just because you are a vegetarian....It's a free country here in the USA

Answer 69

I have 1 thing to say u can not make her do something she does not work also vegetarians die quicker than people who eat meat because they don't get enough variety and not enough nutrient and protein like u do from meat

Answer 70

If you loved her, you wouldn't worry about her eating chicken or getting fat. You should help her find a better boyfriend who won't judge her so harshly for having a preference that doesn't fit yours.

Answer 71

You know what girlfriend and boyfriend is? It's two people with their own differences, own minds who accept each other not try and fking change each other. Now stop trying to change her and just focus on your own diet and all that. Or sooner than you think she'll leave you.



There's so much more mate about your girl than food.



Look at those qualities. You're missing out on so much more about her and focusing on one thing and though it is important to you, it's not for her. It's about finding more about her thinking, appreciating, and if you had two life times it won't be enough to know everything about her and same with her with you.



You're taking about animals being killed, birds, and yet you are paying taxes, which gets millions of people killed around the world. We all do but we don't do anything about it.



Life is telling you something, when there are different people of colurs, beliefs, opinions, and the four seasons are not the same. That you embrace all of her not just part of her, but all of her and let her know you love all of her and not make her stressed out.



She has dreams,. goals, passion, and a lot more. Look at these. Get to know your goal and not let this come between you both. Forced judicary does not change anyone. It only makes them rebel. Let her see your example, and you live by your example, change your life, be excited about it and not talk about it. Just do, look good, feel good, and just live by example.



It's funny how we will take so much crap from work, from what we don't like from jobs, business, life, from government but when it comes to relationship, we so uptight about it, we want to change the person.



If you wanted a girl who is pure vegan then you needed to be honest with your core values from day one and date a girl who is pure vegan. And if transition happened afterwards - you live by example and let your example speak for you and not make her feel bad about it.



I am arab, my girlfriends are christains. I hate alcohol but I don't say that to her. Her family and her eats bacon and I don't. She knows I don't agree on this belief but I take all of her and her family. We still eat together, laugh together, it's ok. We even joke about what we believe and one guy called me Terroist to push his luck but no matter how hard he tried, I just smiled, joked and bantered back.



That made her love for me stronger. Showing her I'm stronger than all that I don't like and anything her family and world says, and our differences.

Answer 72

Let her eat what she wants,an animals are just animals,we need to care about children in the womb,stop abortions,not chickens. An Jesus loves you,an your girlfriend,us all,we just ask Jesus in our heart ,forgive our sins to be saved,He is Faithful and Just to forgive all our sins ,praise The LORD. An gooogle David Jeremiah an Charles Stanley,great Christian teachers to encourage you in Jesus an good to attend a Christian BIble based Church,an John is a great place to read in Bible. May The LORD Jesus speak to,save you,her,family,friends,us all, lost, here,give good Christians in your paths,by Jesus stripes we are healed saved,thank You Jesus amen shalom Israel,family. PTL

Have faith in God. Mark 11:22 God is a Refuge for us.Ps 62:8



ACLJ.org Persecution.org CBN.com more about Jesus

Answer 73

Its her wish. Let her eat whatever she wants. If your a vegetarian, doesn't mean you can make her into one. Don't be a control freak. I know this girl at YWLA she tries controlling me.

Answer 74

If you can't be together without you feeling like you have to convince her, then you shouldn't be together. You have a fundamental moral disagreement.



Either break up or don't try to convince her.

Answer 75

Uhhh nope you don't we all have different views of things and if she likes it leave her the **** alone about it, chicken is very good for u and won't make u fat unless your eating a **** load of it,and ab innocent beard isn't being killed to make that it's a ******* bird that is bread to be eaten and it's whole life is being fed to be eaten

Answer 76

I'm a girl, and not a good lover yet. But I believe, when one is in love, he/she starts honoring the angle of view and thoughts of their partner from a super-positive angle of view. I would love to suggest you to keep your causes focused in front of her, but please never try to impose. If you do so, she'll start losing her honor for the relationship. Instead, let her have the feelings of love and cruelty. No one can change other except changing/improving self. Hope for the best, dream for the best. Someday, you'll see it's all yours. Wishing you best of your life.

Answer 77

You can't force her to stop eating chicken. It's her decision, not yours.

Answer 78

don't try to change her just go to a happy place when you see her eating it all chicken is made healthily and if she loves it she loves it hun you can't change that don't try to change her because it'll start and argument that will most likely end in a breakup she'll accuse you of not liking her for her or for trying to change her here's some advice kid....don't try to fix what YOU know isn't broken

Answer 79

I think it's ok to put your opinion across but don't shove it Down her throat and keep dwelling on it. She she still wants to eat chicken just leave it at that.

Answer 80

If this is the person you're in a relationship with and you want it to be long term the idea is not to change her but learn to accept her good ways and ways you don't like so much.

Answer 81

Honestly you dont, you dont have to eat it and if you love her you'll let her. If you cant deal with it find a vegetarian gf

Answer 82

You shouldn't stop her from eating chicken, i suggest you start. You're missin out dude, chicken is awesome

Answer 83

You can't chicken is awesome. I take it she's the man in the relationship based solely on your a male ethical vegetarian and are thus a huge ******* *****.

Answer 84

Mate you sound like an idiot! If you don't want her eating meat stop getting her to suck your d!ck! We get it your a vegetarian don't boast about it, makes you sound perfetic! Just keep it to yourself, try offer her alternatives if she has it she has it!

Answer 85

Bend her over your kitchen table, after jamming a fried chicken leg in her mouth to gag on and one in her vag, Perform fierce anal sex, until she recants eating any sort of meat, and agrees the only meat she'll get is your ****.

Answer 86

well honestly it's her choice, i been vegetarian for over 10 years and i've dated girls who were vegan and ones who ate meat, at the end of the day it's their choice to eat what they choose as well as your choice to not eat meat at all, i wouldn't force anything upon someone you care about, you can maybe throw the idea around of why not but at the end of the day it's up to her to do what she decides

Answer 87

You cannot people like you need to grow up and stop being an eating Nazis Must Go the Bacon and egg

sandwiches are ready



or yu could tell here there are other meats that taste Just as Nice

Answer 88

You're acting like a Christi an, but instead of trying to cram Religion down her mouth, you're cramming your beliefs in consumption in their mouth. You have no right to even attempt to change her way of eating.

Answer 89

Accept that she eats chicken and eggs. You can't change her eating ways.

Answer 90

Either deal with it or find a new woman because you can't change her and if you really hpwant her to change than why are did you intend on being in a relationship?

Answer 91

If you love her you should respect her wishes and let her eat what she wants I find most vegan ppl are not healthy .Being vegetarian or not should come from within..

Answer 92

Can't you accept her for who she is? It's nature im sure a wolf eats a rabbit and it is perfectly fine, it's nature: she can be who she wants and if she wants to be fat then she can so don't try change her

Answer 93

You shouldn't make her stop doing anything. You can't be with someone with the expectation that they change things about themselves that you don't like. You either accept her the way she is or yo uh break up with her.

Answer 94

Dump that b*tch she's gonna eat chicken all day and turn fat on you. I don't understand how chicken makes you fat but whatever

Answer 95

Sorry but you should respect your girlfriends veiws and except that she is her own person.

Is it not a free country you live in?

If you do not like her eating meat then leave her and start dating a vegiterian.

Answer 96

Why what she eats bother you? Just because you are Vegetarian does not mean she has to change her diet to fit yours, you should eat your meal and you eat yours.

Answer 97

You don't try to change her. She wouldn't try to change you into eating meat so why would you wanna change her? What you eat really isn't the important part of the relationship.

Answer 98

Just let her eat chicken

Answer 99

No, what she eats should not be influenced by you (in a bad way). We girls want to be independent. and being told to not eat something usually pushes our buttons. like my boyfriend hates sweet ice tea with a loathing passion, but if i order one he doesn't really care. actually he smiles really big because I'm being my own person.

Answer 100

That's like her coming on here and saying "how do I convince my boyfriend to eat meat"? Chicken is very healthy and she isn't being cruel to the birds, she is eating dead bird, she didn't kill it. You have your beliefs and she has hers. Leave her be.

Answer 101

You can't get her to stop eating chicken but you can tel her to stop eating it with you

Answer 102

Leave her, relationships are about give and take and she doesn't need something so intolerant and oppressive in her life.



Cant deal with how she lives, then go find someone else.

Answer 103

How can I convince you to eat chicken?

Answer 104

I'm a vegetarian and my husband isn't. It shouldn't be a issue unless you make it one.

Answer 105

you can't choose what your girl eats, live your life and let her live hers. turning vegetarian wont reduce the number of animals used for food in the world, neither will it spare you from the bigger animals that will eat you and other animals given the chance.. just live in the world the way you see it

Answer 106

You obviously dont love each other otherwise you would even TRY to *convince anyone of anything. When you love a person you love them exactly how they are and how they come, changing is up to them and time.

Answer 107

You can't

Answer 108

You grow a pair and stop being a vegetarian.

Answer 109

Don't stop her. Let her eat what she likes

Answer 110

Just let her eat chicken

Answer 111

You can't. She eats what she wants and you eat what you want.

YOU have to either let her make her own choices or move on.

Answer 112

She's not forcing you to eat meat, so why force her to stop eating what she loves? It's her business not yours

Answer 113

You can give her the ultimatum, ensure you include: "Look, I care about your health. I can't sit back and watch you destroy yourself"



If she chooses a carcass over you than she is not worth your time or money so it would be a lucky escape.

Answer 114

You don't. Let her eat the way she wants to. Its not unhealthy and you either like/love her for who she is meat eater and all or you don't. You met her like that, don't try to change her, just like you wouldn't want her to change you.

Answer 115

Be at peace, you may try requesting and you must have tried in so many ways to one who loves diced and spiced; legs, breasts, wings etc., in so many ways, the outcome most likely is going to be futile. So what can not be cured must be endured to loose the battle and win the war! Good luck.

Answer 116

explain to her why you became a vegan and let her realize it herself. If she won't follow you and the explanations doesn't mean anything to her then don't expect her to change. I'ts not really easy to change that.

Answer 117

Don't try to find an excuse too dump her. Just tell her it's over!

Answer 118

You should tell her that your parents were killed by a chicken serial-killer, and you decided to avenge your parents by killing the chicken with fire, and now everytime you see a chicken, dead or alive, you get extremely uncomfortable because of the trauma

Answer 119

For one I am vegan and my boyfriend loves meat. Personally I am not against eating animals as long as they are organic and were not killed in slaughter houses. I find it foolish for people to want a complete end to animal consumption. Its the circle of life. I am only against the killing of animals in slaughter houses due to the torture and pain they go through.,,However organic animals live a happy life. p.s the majority of food you listed come from cows.

Answer 120

Don't try to stop her from eating meat.

Answer 121

Bwwaaaaaaaaaaaakkkkk!

Answer 122

How about ending the relationship. If you cannot accept her eating meat, then you need to find someone that believes the same as you do.

Answer 123

Just think....If we didn't eat chicken or eggs we would not feed them and that way they would all die....Maybe that would make you happy

Answer 124

You cant. You can educate her about it but you cant make her care. I agree that eating meat is cruel, but i dont care, theres a certain amount of cruel im prepared to be

Answer 125

By all means nag her about what she likes to eat. It will certainly convince her and be great for your relationship.

Answer 126

Break up, or find a really good book that supports your eating lifestyle choices. Life is too short. (Try the detox miracle sourcebook)

Answer 127

If you're not willing to accept the differences in your relationship & you're afraid of her getting fat, you're a very selfish person.

Answer 128

well I think you should let your gf talk you into eating chicken - how does that sound?



well that's how she feels

Answer 129

Don't u controlling freak! Chicken is life!

Answer 130

If you love her let her make her own decision on what her diet is, it's not your place to force beliefs onto her

Answer 131

Stop being a *****! You're probably a scrawny white motherfucker who plays gold and soccer

Answer 132

show her videos on YouTube about the cruelty, that is what convinced me to stop eating meat because it is so heartbreaking to watch those innocent animals get slaughtered ))):!

Answer 133

innocent birds killed well u destroy their habitat by eating only vegetarians and remember vegetation plants etc HAVE LIFE so u also kill innocent stuff plus u ruin herbivorous animals life style AND REMEMBER THIS IS A TROLL

Answer 134

Why don't you leave her for a one-of-your-kind Veg lady, Make sure she is your caste too, do us all a favor.

Answer 135

Don't. Let her figure it out for herself. I didn't push my girlfriend to be vegan, as time went she figured it out for herself.

Answer 136

Sorry, you cannot change her. You are lucky that she eats only chicken and no beef or pork or fish etc.:)

Answer 137

man, she is going to dump you over all this trying to make her a vegetarian

Answer 138

Take her to see Food Nation.

Answer 139

You don'tbecasuse it is none f your concern ahat others do or do not eat

Answer 140

You don't. You keep your mouth shut and let her eat what she likes and she keeps her mouth shut and lets you eat what you like.

Answer 141

You are not serious, are you? Feel free to do what you want to do and let her do what she wants, it's just fair. Dont try to manipulate people.

Answer 142

Show her a documentary of what will happen if you keep eating like that.

Answer 143

You don't. It's her life.

Answer 144

is ur gf more imp to u or what she eats

if ur main concern is what she eats get a new gf or learn to adjust to what she likes to eat

she even have every right to eat what she likes and what she wants to

Answer 145

You can't make her - she has to come to it for herself. Other wise she won't be committed

Answer 146

Frankly (and you did ask) you should mind your own business and maybe grasp that it's YOU who is in the minority and that you shoukd be grateful that she accepts that.

Answer 147

You don't. You either live with it or your get another girlfriend.

Answer 148

No problem you eat the way you want and she eats the way she wants Do not force your beliefs on her or allow her to force her beliefs on you.

Answer 149

OMFG... I dated a guy JUST LIKE YOU in college, for like, a week and he made those 7 days miserable. Hijo de puta madre, I wanna kick you.

Answer 150

Don't try to change her. Bottom line.

Answer 151

Why should you, get off your moral high ground, (which incidentally ain't very high) and let her enjoy her meat

Answer 152

Leave her alone. It's none of your business what she eats.

Answer 153

Let her eat whatever Tf she wants 👌

Answer 154

stop being a veggie that's lame, animals are raised any killed mercifully as God said, I don't believe in God anyways :)

Answer 155

You shouldn't. Don't try and control her life she will leave you.

Answer 156

You don't, Find a girl friend who is vege.

Answer 157

Zomg animals don't kill other animals, that's crazy right!!!!?????





Lol vegetarian fagit

Answer 158

Natty vegan alert.

Answer 159

How would you like it if she tried to force you to eat meat?

Answer 160

Don't.

Answer 161

I don't know why I found this so funny

I

Answer 162

people are entitled to eat what they want stop trying to control people to suit your own needs

Answer 163

you don't have to convince her

No problem

Answer 164

Don't do that

Answer 165

If you can't accept her for who she is, you guys are not compatible, and should break up.

Answer 166

none of your business - don't be a control freak - it's her choice.

Answer 167

What she chooses to eat is exactly none of your business.

Answer 168

You don't change your spouse if you don't like something about them.

Answer 169

Let her eat whatever she wants!

Answer 170

Just simply don't

Answer 171

Dear Mr. Obama, not everyone wants to be like YOU !

Answer 172

I think your better off finding someone who shares your lifestyle choices dump her.

Answer 173

Accept her for her food choices or break up.

Do not critisize her food choices.

Answer 174

If you try to change her you will both be disappointed. Find someone you can tolerate as they are.

Answer 175

you have no right to stop her. and you should eat too. it is needed for your body and also it is healthy

Answer 176

Let her eat what she wants. And you can eat what you want.

Answer 177

Shake that azz for these tips

Answer 178

Leave her baby boy, your too good for an idiot like that

Answer 179

you are ok just don't tell your women what 2 eat

she might not like your food and you might not

like her food and you might not like my food.

Answer 180

Okay please don't annoy her about things like this and converting in the hopes that she will because she will just leave your ***. Maybe drop it in once or so but please don't annoy her with it

Answer 181

Leave her or accept her for what she eats.

Answer 182

Um no are you out of ur mind

Answer 183

force feed her bacon. Problem solved

Answer 184

Chicken is the best

Answer 185

If you love her, accept her for what she is. It is wrong to try and change someone.

Answer 186

Just dont feed her ever again or buy her anything

Answer 187

Show her the Peta videos of what they do to the chicken:(:(

Answer 188

hi just here for some points.

Answer 189

I wish I had more Chappati

Answer 190

Buy her a steak

Answer 191

Her choice

Answer 192

If you really love her, you will happy with her. If she really love you, you can ask her about veg. food always :)

Answer 193

She has a right to have her own diet.

Answer 194

No. Let her make her own choices.

Answer 195

Show her videos online how they abuse/kill the chickens.

Answer 196

HOW ARE YOU A VEGETARIAN YOU SHOULD BE VEGAN YOU BIG FAT PHONY

Answer 197

let her live her life and accept the differences

Answer 198

This is funny

Answer 199

It will be MUCH eaiser to get a new g/f

Answer 200

myob

Answer 201

You dont

Answer 202

You dont

Answer 203

you dont deserve to be with her if you want to change her.

Answer 204

YOU CANT FORCE YOUR DECISIONS AND LIFESTYLE ON SOMEONE ELSE JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK ITS WRONG!!!

Answer 205

let her decide on her own

Answer 206

you should have sex with her one more time and then dump her

Answer 207

I know this is a troll, how? because he/she is ******* stupid .

Answer 208

tell her to stop being fat

Answer 209

No

Answer 210

I love CHIK-FA-LA

Answer 211

Oh

Answer 212

get her to suck your coc£. its fowl.

Answer 213

you can not. move on

Answer 214

you dont let her be

Answer 215

Is she black?

Answer 216

do not

Answer 217

Please shut up you stupid hippie.....

Answer 218

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