Question:
I ****** up, do i send a apology txt?
Jessica
2012-02-28 02:24:13 UTC
I wrote my ex a long apology. For not trusting him, accusing him of cheating. We are on talking terms, but he dont want no games. I realized I ****** up. :/ do I send the apology?
Ten answers:
Gurtle and Anthony B. Frobe
2012-02-28 02:28:56 UTC
As long as you stop hurting people. An apology is worthless without change, regardless to any one person. In other words do it only if you mean it.
Ninni
2012-02-28 02:30:48 UTC
need more background Information. do you want to be with him? And if he did not cheat then yes apologize your a$$ off. lol. Nothing hurts a guys ego and feelings more than when his girl doesn't trust him when he has done nothing wrong. And with that, because you have accused him, if you keep accusing him, he is going to think; "okay so im getting accused for something i haven't done, why not add validity to it." So just take it easy, apologize often. Show him that you trust him, and that you want him.
anonymous
2012-02-28 02:29:21 UTC
Aaaaeeeyyy! I would say you should do the apology in person not over a text so makes it look more sincere but if you do it in a text make it sound like you really mean it. But either way yes do it cant be any worse shape then you are now. Whoa!
Estevan R
2012-02-28 02:26:42 UTC
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo

You dumb kid. You don't apologize by texting someone. YOU FREAKING SAY SORRY TO THEIR FACE.

You talk face to face and apologize and you don't say something like "my bad..." or try to turn it on them or worse, try to justify what you did. Just apologize.

If they forgive, great, life goes on, if they don't, well, now you know, don't "F" up the next relationship
rossignol
2016-11-09 04:51:32 UTC
definite. someone I regrettably took with none interest many years in the past and may want to offer practically something to take heed to from back. I wrote him distinctive letters, emails. no longer something. i have self assurance so unhappy because i changed into given a danger with a straightforward, sturdy individual and that i blew it enormous time. Mahalo ^-^
anonymous
2012-02-28 02:26:46 UTC
yes you should send the apology. But not via text, in person.



you accused him of things (for which i assume weren't true)



so yeah, you stuffed up, you apologise.
JB
2012-02-28 02:28:06 UTC
I think that you should talk in person and not over text. in my past experience talking over text sucks because you can miss interpret things wrong. So i would try and talk to him in person because in a real relationship you should be able to talk to your boyfriend that way. Or if you can't see him, call him maybe? hope it helps. goodluck. xo
Zoua X
2012-02-28 02:26:18 UTC
no, you DONT send an apology note, try going to his house and apologize in person.
anonymous
2012-02-28 02:32:57 UTC
You say sorry to there face. Because at least you have the manners to do so.
Vaibhav
2012-02-28 02:28:22 UTC
Call him or the best option is directly go and meet him.

you must have hurt him a lot!!


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