Question:
Libra woman and Scorpio male....Did I make a mistake??
Curious Libra woman
2010-02-04 12:38:46 UTC
I have been seeing/dating this scorpio male for about 3 months now. He's expressed that he "loves" me, I've met his children (which he claims no one does), and he's also said he's "addicted" to me! The beginning of the friendship was awesome! We had lots of fun and intimate moments! Of course, there are no problems in the bedroom :) Lastly, we have history. We went to school together, as children, and reconnected on a social website.

Lately, I'm seeing the other side. Just yesterday, we had an argument out of this world! I was appalled. Let me try to break it down for you...The evening before yesterday, this man and I JUST had a conversation, trying to get "us" back on track. It was a good conversation so I thought. Things seemed to be back to normal! That afternoon, I brought him dinner and we talked for a bit. Again, we were cool. I got home he called and we talked...we were FINE! Here's the doosey...on the social site, he puts a profile picture up of himself and a young lady. The young lady WASN'T me. I IM'd him to ask if that was his girlfriend, and of course I didn't get a straight answer. I told him to have a nice evening and I logged off. Baffled, I sat in my bed like what kind of game is he playing? Is he INSANE?

So the next morning, he called me about some comments my family left about on my page. He appeared jealous but for what?????? I couldn't ask a question about the girl! Now you want to question me????? So the argument began. He tried to run script like, you should be secure about what we have going on. I put the picture up, because I like the way I look, forget the girl! People focus on the wrong thing, he says. I'm like, who are you fooling?!?!?!?!? Save the game for another lame! I'm not buying the BULL! I feel like he does things to intentionally hurt me! Being a libra woman, we are jealous and sensitive. It doesn't feel good. My goal is to leave, but I have feelings for him. He wanted to come over and stay, last night, like nothing happened! But, I was offended by some of his statements. For example, he said "You were such wifey material." or "If you're petty over a picture and you're NOT my woman, why would I want to jump into a relationship with you?" I'm like what are you trying to say???? Don't talk around the bush, sending threats! Have the guts to stand on your decision!!!!!!!!

So, I went to bed not allowing him to come over. Of course, I haven't heard from 'em, but I'm sure it's not the end of him either. This morning, I checked my FB page and he's changed his relationship status to "in a relationship and it's complicated." WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY? What is this behavior all about? Does he just want me to know he's seeing other people and don't want me? I mean I asked him what keeps him coming back? I swear I'm in a Dr. Jeckle and Mr. Hyde situation...What should I do?
Five answers:
Matt
2010-02-04 12:46:01 UTC
im libra and i love some one who is cancer, but star signs with love is just bull you cant help who you fall in love with and did you ever think the young girl was a friend or relitive, check things out before you decide to judge
2016-02-27 10:59:05 UTC
Believe me it is not because u may be attractive/pretty as scorpio's are well known to be the sexiest sign of the zodiac and are known for their ability to snare any guy they want. Their reputation for being excellent lovers is also well known. So really they dont need to compete. They are attractive in their own right. I dont think this is personal to u but scorpio's can be well guarded people and at times this can be seen as coldness or aloofness which is not actually the case. It is more cautiousness on their part. But for people who dont know of their suspicious nature this can be seen as unfriendly and possibly cattiness. You would have to spend time getting to know them before u can judge their feelings towards u
Ky
2010-02-04 12:48:03 UTC
Being a Libra and Scorpio has NOTHING to do with it.
2010-02-04 12:47:13 UTC
I'll take the astrology stuff out of the picture and tell you this:

I'd bet my next paycheck he's got an eye on another woman.

Maybe he's already f--ked her, maybe not.

I'd suggest you move on.
Hans
2010-02-04 12:42:09 UTC
I didn't read what you wrote because: star signs are BS!


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