Hey, I'm Chinese. I respond the same way any girl does. Start by saying "hello" and take it from there. If you smiled and greeted me warmly, I would respond to you the same way. Girls are girls. When you say hello and ask questions about us, it shows you are interested. That is flattering. Just don't ask stupid questions like "what is your bra size?" or "do you like sex?". Ask about me. Ask about my family because family is very important in Asian culture. Ask about my job, school, what music I like or anything like that.
Of course, not all Asian girls in Asian buffets are Chinese. There are Vietnamese, Thai, Lao, Cambodian, Korean, Malay, Filipina, and countless others. You might get different responses from different cultures. For example, I would probably be more comfortable chatting with you as a second-generation Chinese girl than a first generation Vietnamese girl. Their culture and family pressure is stricter and it may be considered improper for her to talk with you, even if she is very interested. Some cultures in Asia still require a a date to be chaperoned by a male relative. A first generation immigrant will be different than more-westernized Asian girls. Personally, I think Thai girls would be a little shy. Japanese and Korean will be more outgoing but all Asian cultures have clearly defined rules for meeting and dating. They are much different than American rules. Be friendly! Smile! Dress nice. Don't wear faded T-shirts and stinky gym shoes. Look nice. Be well groomed..
Most, Asian girls are a little more shy than others. Also, we might be a little more insecure than the average American girl, simply because we are Asian and have experienced some racial prejudice at times. We were also teased in about our squinty eyes and funny looks in elementary school, which can be traumatic for children. (Although we grow up to be smokin' hot Asian trophy girlfriends). Don't hurry. Be patient. Asian girls need more time to warm up and trust.
As for the arrogant contributor above me...
I'm a well-educated & successful Asian girl in the medical profession and I would easily date Asian and white men because they have jobs. I would NEVER date a black guy for obvious reasons. All my friends are the same way.
I often hear black girls say "From now on, I'm going out to play in the snow", meaning they are tired of the black guys crap and want to date intelligent white guys from then on.
The white guys I have dated are charming, charismatic, very romantic, successful, financially stable, sexy, and always treat me very well. They can afford steak & lobster at a fine dining restaurant instead of Popeye's Chicken or Taco bell. They have cars instead of the city bus and don't need to borrow money for gas or a tip. Black men play well on the basketball court for 48 minutes but fall far behind whites & Asian men in IQ scores, academics, the business/corporate world, and lifetime achievement. Just "aks" anyone.
There is a myth that black men have large penises but all black girls and the Mayo Clinic agree that larger black penises are always flaccid and never completely hard. They can't keep it up.
It is also a proven-documented medical fact that Russian men, who are white, have the largest penises in the world, not black men. The research was conducted by the Masters & Johnson.
Good Luck Nick
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