Question:
This girl likes me, but is doing and saying mean things to me, PLEASE HELP!!?
Richard
2012-12-15 09:48:08 UTC
So there is this girl named angelis that likes me, so i talked to her on facebook in sept. and she said stuff like "fck you, i dont like you etc" but she wont tell me why. so after a month i go out with this girl named jessica. 2 weeks into the relationship jessica posts a status saying "no one talk to me i'm very mad" i ask her whats wrong and she says nothing. after a halfhour she finally gives in and asks me if im cheating on her, i said no, and asked her who told you this, she said some girl from my school, shes short, puerto rican, and has braces. i instantly thought of angelis and sent jessica a pic of angelis asking if this was her and she said yes. i message angelis moments later saying "you don't like me, but you're going around telling my girl im cheating on her? who are you?" angelis and jessica do not know each other and jessica wouldnt make up such a thing. a couple days later, still no response from angelis, jessica msgs me saying she's hurt and wants to kill herself, telling me that angelis is at her again. i msg angelis again nd this time she responds saying this "Ok hold on i dont even know who your girlfriend is & why she is having suicidal problems and dont talk to me tommorrow cuzz i dont want to talk to you what she told you that i told her i dont even know who she is so you need to calm the fck down and i need to know who te hell is tellin her all these fckin lies cuzz am not tellin her all these fckn lies now you got me fckin pissted because of some stupid sht i aint even said & this whole deal wouldnt even started between us to if you didnt tell me what happen at the mall with your friend so calm the fck down and chill with your fckin attitude and if tomas is tellin her and you all these things i need to know cuz yall talkin sht behing my backk like that sht is funny and it aint funny i dont want to talk to you anymore and dont fckin message me back cuzz i dont fckin like you i dont even talk about you in the first place so wtf wrong with you keepin my fckin name in your mother fckin mouth so chill the fck down" sorry for the curses, i just took this directly from my fb msgs. so then, a couple days ago, i apoligised for the conflicts we had in the past even though she was the only one being mean and cursing, and asked if we could start fresh and be friends, cuz we were friends last school year. she said no. i asked why, but she wouldnt tell me. she would respond to the other stuff i said but wont tell me why she hates me. i know shes lying, but why? i didnt do anything mean to her so im just very confused. and im afraid to go out with someone else cuz she might do the same thing she did to me and jessica, which btw we broke up cuz of what angelis did. PLEASE HELP!!!
Three answers:
YaSeeN
2012-12-16 01:19:40 UTC
OK.. Let me say what I understood..



You said Angelis likes you, but she said stuff like "fck you, i dont like you etc"..:

1- How did you know she likes you?

2- She is saying that she does not like you... get over it.. SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU..



You went out with Jessica, who appears likes you and cares for you. That what is matter.

If Jessica thinks you are cheating, what matter is to approve that you are not.



It is either Jessica is lying or Angelis is lying, but it seems Angelis is more likely to be the one who is lying... She will not say "Yes, I lied at you girlfriend"



I do not know why you are trying to find out why Angelis is mean or hates you..



To finish my point...



Mean - Taylor Swift...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jYa1eI1hpDE



"Because she is mean, lair, pathetic and mean"
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2016-10-15 15:43:47 UTC
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Joy
2012-12-15 09:50:15 UTC
she will be trying to get your attention. just say to her can you please stop being nasty or even ask her out to lunch and i'm sure her attitude towards you shall change very quickly. x


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